Fem Domme/m sub Couples

[Four_Inch_Heels]

Are there any Fem Domme/m sub couples...married, or living together on the site? I'm particularly interested in those not living the lifestyle 24/7.

 

[hydrex]

Are there any Fem Domme/m sub couples...married, or living together on the site? I'm particularly interested in those not living the lifestyle 24/7.

Not me but I might be interested in having you teach me a few things.

 

[sally_sissy]

that would be us

My wife and I would fit that bill....

 

[ghosst_K&H]

I don't understand the question, you want married or living together couples that aren't 24/7?

If you mean living together but not observing D/s every moment of the day, then we fall into that catagory. I am always the submissive, but not always submissive

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

I don't understand the question, you want married or living together couples that aren't 24/7?

If you mean living together but not observing D/s every moment of the day, then we fall into that catagory.

Yes, that's what I mean.

 

[SweetDommes]

I would have to say that we are as close to 24/7 as pretty much any other D/s couple living together is - we are realistic and we have jobs and responsibilities that take precidence over the D/s. We have lives that encompass lots of vanilla things, and 24/7 active D/s just isn't possible. Now, as ghosst said - he is always the submissive, but he isn't always submissive ... but at the same time, he knows when he has gone too far (doesn't always stop him, but he knows).

 

[MissTaken]

Checking in.

Check: living together
Check: Married as of Friday! Woohoo!
Check: Not practicing D/s 24/7 although there are times when D/s pervades some of our day to day interaction and events.

 

[dev_onhere]

we are a married sub couple living together. however no real life domme for us :-(

 

[catalina_francisco]

Checking in.


Check: Married as of Friday! Woohoo!

Congratulations!!!!! I am sure bliss will be your closest friend.

Francisco & Catalina

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

First of all...congrats, Miss Taken, all the best!

Secondly, I guess I should have phrased My original question to include "started out as equals".

Here's My story: Hubby and I have been together 25 years. All but the last 2 years or so, we have been "equals" in the bedroom. Over the years we've engaged in cbt, bondage, anal play. It feels "normal" and "natural"...no power exchange involved...we were just doing what we enjoyed together.

Fast forward to 3 years ago, when I discovered the wonderful world of Fem Domme. I love it! I "own" several boys online, and have no problem embracing My power and control with them. Hubby is fully aware of this, and at first wanted nothing to do with it in our lives. However, occasionally, and more and more often recently, he wants to be submissive to Me.

When it works, it's awesome...but, sometimes I feel silly "ordering him around", so to speak.

I'm looking for advice from someone who's been through it already. I try and tell Myself this is what he wants too, so I'm not "taking advantage" of him, but that doesn't always work.

 

[SweetDommes]

Well, in our opinion, even though ghosst is submissive, he is our equal as well (we are Dominant, but cannot Dominate if we have no one to sub to us - so if we need him, he must be our equal ...), so I'm not sure that we can help you here - but overall, if he wants to do it, then there is no reason for you to feel silly or like you are taking advantage of him any more than you are with your online subs.

One thing that might help though, if he doesn't always feel like being subby - have a special sign - be it a collar, a special outfit, whatever that he puts on when he is feeling subby and takes off when he isn't.