Fellatio positioning help needed!

Black_Bunny

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I love giving head in this certain position, I'm not sure what it's called so I'll describe it - the girl is laying on her back, the man straddles her chest with a knee on each side of her face and leans forward to put his cock in her mouth. The problem I'm having is, I can't seem to find the right position for my head/neck, and his hips, so that my teeth don't scrape him painfully. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, or if everyone has this problem? I had the same problem with my previous partner too. It's eased slightly if I open wide for face-fucking, as opposed to me tightly sucking. But even then my back teeth can only spread so far. Problem two is that my neck seems to strain really painfully if I lean forward to take him in a bit more.

My current partner has said he doesn't mind the light pain of a little bit of teeth-scraping, but I know in general my teeth are just too much. It's such a pity because I really love this position, and it's great for a good throat-fuck, but I just can't seem to get the positioning right :mad: Any help?
 
If that's the position you want, it might be better at the edge of the bed with your head hanging slightly over the edge and him standing behind your head. It also makes it easier to open your throat like that. ;)
 
Black_Bunny, I often find myself in the position you describe. The trick in my case is to have you head propped up on lots of pillows, so that your shoulders are flat on the bed but your head is pushed "forward" quite a lot...
 
We do this position a lot, too. As others have suggested, pillows are definitely your friend here. And not just under your head and neck, put some under your shoulders. Propping up your whole torso slightly will take a lot of strain off your neck.

:edit: I guess my advice is the exact opposite of cattypuss's, so maybe you just need to experiment more to find what's right for you.
 
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If that's the position you want, it might be better at the edge of the bed with your head hanging slightly over the edge and him standing behind your head. It also makes it easier to open your throat like that. ;)

You can achieve this with pillows in the neck also.
Might be a little more comfortable for him to kneel on the bed than to stand in front of it and have to bend the knees the whole time.
The more pillows the more comfortable for you...
 
You can achieve this with pillows in the neck also.
Might be a little more comfortable for him to kneel on the bed than to stand in front of it and have to bend the knees the whole time.
The more pillows the more comfortable for you...
Well, it depends on the bed. I have a bed that's waist high. The pillows are a good idea, though, unless you're planning to do deepthroat. Tilting you head backward makes that much easier. ;)
 
From a guy's standpoint I agree with infinity that hanging your head off the edge of the bed will make it easier for you to deepthroat and it feels pretty darn good. Also, having your partner lean forward on to all fours should help with the angle a little bit as well, but that may not be what you are looking for.
 
The liberator may be your friend for this position.

http://theliberator.com

OMG - FURNITURE WITH RESTRAINTS!! :devil:

A bit too pricey though. :(

I like hanging my head upside down off the edge of the bed too, but it doesn't quite give the same feeling of 'entrapment'.

I'll try some variants with the pillows, I've just realised that we always do it with my head right at the head of the bed, so he can only lean forward so far before he hits the wall. Might try further down the bed too.
 
OMG - FURNITURE WITH RESTRAINTS!! :devil:

A bit too pricey though. :(

I like hanging my head upside down off the edge of the bed too, but it doesn't quite give the same feeling of 'entrapment'.

I'll try some variants with the pillows, I've just realised that we always do it with my head right at the head of the bed, so he can only lean forward so far before he hits the wall. Might try further down the bed too.
Well, if you want entrapment, you could just get him to put his hands on your throat. ;)
 
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