Felching

[SheilasBitch]

I have been married for 12 years. Until recently, my wife has been somewhat passive in our sexual escapades. But now she is wanting me to go down on her after I have filled her. I have eaten her many times during our lovemaking, but not AFTER I have cum inside of her. Is this something many women desire? Feedback from the female perective is greatly appreciated.

 

[SweetErika]

Are you talking about licking/sucking the semen out of her vagina or ass? Apparently, felching can be either, but I always associate it with anal and the term "creampie(s)" with vaginal. It doesn't really matter, but I think it does have bearing on your question in this case.

Anyway, I think the vaginal/creampie fantasy and enjoyment is fairly common among both men and women. Well, maybe not common in the general population, but I doubt most somewhat open people would consider it an edgy activity or be unwilling to at least try it. Personally, I think it's hot; unfortunately, my husband doesn't agree due to his aversion to semen.

Anal felching, OTOH, is likely considered much edgier by women and men who fall on the more hetero side of the spectrum, probably due to bacterial/health concerns. It's kind of like analingus vs. [what most consider to be the much more tame] cunnilingus or fellatio. But, in my mind, it's a step up from analingus because semen that's been in the ass has more of an opportunity to pick up and spread fecal bacteria than a tongue that's pleasuring a freshly, thoroughly cleaned anus.

In the end, if your wife finds it totally hot, you're a willing participant, both of you are aware of any risks and no one is being harmed, who cares how others view whatever it is you do in the privacy of your sex life together?

Since you did mention your wife has been passive sexually, I'd advise you to find a way to at least give what she might enjoy a fair try if possible because it just may help her be more active in others areas of sex. You probably don't want to discourage her imagination and willingness to share at all if you don't have to, so I'd say go for this with gusto unless it's really a hard limit for you or something you have to work up to.

 

[Boundlife]

Oh yah, having him reveling in the results of our passion... Lovely. Besides it often leads to another orgasm

 

[NippleMuncher]

I personally am not into either anal cream pies or vaginal cream pies. I'm not afraid of semen, I just don't care for the flavor of a vagina after the fact - even when there's no semen involved. I'm not sure what occurs that changes the flavor with penetration, but it's not for me. I am very happy, however, to dine at the Y until she orgasms, several times if possible.

 

[Reba67]

It's not something that had ever crossed my mind to ask for. I'm not sure that I really could given my aversion to let him finish in my mouth without a condom. I'm not sure why I'm wigged out, I just am.

 

[Tasty_GA_Honey]

I find the idea to be very sexy myself!