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Feeldoe... anyone tried it?

since no one stops by

I guess it's safe to mention that a longer version might be out soon.... no date mind you....

It's slightly thicker that the original ... but not as thick as the stout.....

No idea if it will happen in time for Christmas presents

But... would more length be helpful??
 
OK, I've read all 9 pages of this thread and lots of some of the other threads and I still can't figure out what I should buy. The main goal is to be able to be pretty rough but if I (the woman end) was enjoying it too, that would be great. I generally like "bang" when it comes to sex so it may be that I don't need anything inside me, but it sounds like maybe the Nexus/harness combo would be the most stable? I've seen videos of harness-only and it didn't seem like they were getting good thrust either.
 
you want bang?

tanyachrs said:
OK, I've read all 9 pages of this thread and lots of some of the other threads and I still can't figure out what I should buy. The main goal is to be able to be pretty rough but if I (the woman end) was enjoying it too, that would be great. I generally like "bang" when it comes to sex so it may be that I don't need anything inside me, but it sounds like maybe the Nexus/harness combo would be the most stable? I've seen videos of harness-only and it didn't seem like they were getting good thrust either.
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Get the STOUT feeldoe.. turn it around and have HIM hold the bulb (pony) anally and then fuck him hard..... you get the full feeling of the bigger end and he get the feeling he needs. No way you are pulling it out of him...

go to the yahoo feeldoe site.... for more info.... but that would be my best offer. Others have tried some pretty simple things with the feeldoe to keep it in and been very happy. It's such a pain that it feels so good to women that they can't hold it... but ... that's the breaks.
 
uptoplay2 said:
Get the STOUT feeldoe.. turn it around and have HIM hold the bulb (pony) anally and then fuck him hard..... you get the full feeling of the bigger end and he get the feeling he needs. No way you are pulling it out of him...

go to the yahoo feeldoe site.... for more info.... but that would be my best offer. Others have tried some pretty simple things with the feeldoe to keep it in and been very happy. It's such a pain that it feels so good to women that they can't hold it... but ... that's the breaks.
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That sounds like she'd be fucking herself, though, rather than fucking her partner (I didn't see if her partner is male or female?). I thought the point was that she would be fucking her partner...what you described is a creative use for the Feeldoe, but I don't think it is going to satisfy the "use it to fuck your partner" people.

I'm also surprised to hear you suggest that women can't hold it without a harness. In the past you've said that IS possible. Is it not possible anymore? And is it because it "feels so good," or is it a design issue?
 
tanyachrs said:
OK, I've read all 9 pages of this thread and lots of some of the other threads and I still can't figure out what I should buy. The main goal is to be able to be pretty rough but if I (the woman end) was enjoying it too, that would be great. I generally like "bang" when it comes to sex so it may be that I don't need anything inside me, but it sounds like maybe the Nexus/harness combo would be the most stable? I've seen videos of harness-only and it didn't seem like they were getting good thrust either.
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Personally I would suggest either the Nexus with a harness, or a single-sided dildo in a harness with nubbles on the base (for your clit). I have been happy with the Nexus, but it's not the only option!
 
I can't speak for women...

Etoile said:
That sounds like she'd be fucking herself, though, rather than fucking her partner (I didn't see if her partner is male or female?). I thought the point was that she would be fucking her partner...what you described is a creative use for the Feeldoe, but I don't think it is going to satisfy the "use it to fuck your partner" people.

I'm also surprised to hear you suggest that women can't hold it without a harness. In the past you've said that IS possible. Is it not possible anymore? And is it because it "feels so good," or is it a design issue?
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I've been told... that I shouldn't try to impose my will on women with this issue. Turning the feeldoe around is an option. If that suits your needs, great. I can't imagine there would be a harness issue. Plenty of women say they want to give pleasure to their partner.... I'm darn sure this would please me. If it pleases her at the same time... that's better.

As for the feeldoe needing "help".... I think that's pretty much been covered... I know women who don't need anything and some who like using something to help keep the feeldoe in. Over time, that might change. How it feels for women and how it works are reasons I come here. I'm pretty sure that to use a lot of positions or a lot of force something would be needed to help hold on to the feeldoe to help kegals overcome sphincters.

Design issue? Yes.... sphincters are too strong! Can you relax your partner enough to overcome that fault?
 
He's male and he thinks he wants it rough, although he hasn't tried it, so he may change his mind. But I figure we should buy the equipment with that in mind. Thanks for the advice.
 
The Strap-on VS. The Male Ego

tanyachrs said:
He's male and he thinks he wants it rough, although he hasn't tried it, so he may change his mind. But I figure we should buy the equipment with that in mind. Thanks for the advice.
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It's interesting you say that because I have found that the old adage (with a twist) "his eyes are too big for his ass" to be quite true with many men. They read all about it and look at the pics and watch the videos and get all excited. Then, either their competitiveness gets activated (I can take it bigger than he can) or his fear of being wussy (I don't want no stinkin' puny cock) or his machismo (I'm a tough man - stick anything you want up there, no prob) or maybe it's just that it looks like "the bigger the more pleasure I'll get".

But here's the deal ... you have got to learn to relax those muscles to get anything big in and usually the first time your "squeeze shut" reflexes may kick in and make it hard to get anything bigger than a carrot. Some guys try to start with a zucchini and that machismo thing kicks in and even though they meet resistance they will not give up until the whole damn thing is shoved in, no matter how uncomfortable it may be.

Now you may be already playing with big dildos, sticking them in or out but it's still not the same as strap-on. The last gentleman in my life who I strapped-on was used to masturbating with some very big cocks ... the kind that suction to the wall and you can ride back and forth on it.

But he surprised me his first time experiencing strap-on, because he still was having to fight the "squeeze tight" syndrome over and over. And Uptoplay, you will be pleased to know that I used my Feeldoe on him, so that's pretty slim, much slimmer than what he was used to.

I asked him afterwards what it was like and he said if felt even better than he imagined but , that, in the beginning, he was apprehensive about giving me full control over his anus. He realized that as long as he controlled the pace and depth he could totally relax but giving that over to someone else was scary for him. He was afraid that I would get too rough with him (which I didn't).

As a matter of fact, I allowed him to control much of the pace by telling him to fuck himself on my cock. (A good trick to use to loosen him up - plus you get to tell him what to do!) Then, once he loosened himself up and got a nice pace going, I put my hands on his hips and began to pull him onto my cock a bit. Eventually he was slamming onto it and he erupted soon after that.

All this to say, that was very astute of you to be aware that his desire for roughness may change when the reality of a cock up his ass sets in. My suggestion is to get two interchangable cocks (especially if you have the vacu-lock system). One trainer cock and then one monster cock. But let him pick out the size of both. Be careful buying online because it's hard to gauge size from pics. If you have a sex toy shop near you, go in and scope things out. Then go home and buy them online if you get a good savings.

Have fun!

Francy

PS. The bad news is that I had the same problems with the Feeldoe as before. Just not enough power. And the angle is hard to really get much depth. I think I am going to invest in one of those harnesses that have the cocks inside as well and get a little DP while I work.
 
Nervous Nellie

I'm not sure I want to have my lover have too much power. Certainly no more than I could bring use on her with a natural cock. Would I want my cock to come out? No... so that would have to be prevented. If part of the problem is that it feels good, well ... sorry.... when I use my cock it feels really good.. .and that limits what I can do as well.

I thought Miss FrancyPants had found something that helped? Perhaps that was just a happy dream.

What I have learned is that "protesting" can be a turn on to some women. (hopefully she won't take "NO" to mean no!)

What does topping from the bottom mean?? Some ladies seem to like the idea of the guy moving?? What's the story?? Let her enjoy herself and just take it.... with some happy moans..... and "NO no no... please"...... OR... move and help her... or help myself??
 
uptoplay2 said:
What does topping from the bottom mean?? Some ladies seem to like the idea of the guy moving?? What's the story?? Let her enjoy herself and just take it.... with some happy moans..... and "NO no no... please"...... OR... move and help her... or help myself??
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Topping from the bottom means that the submissive partner is telling the dominant partner what to do. It has nothing to do with the particular activity, or man vs. woman - it just means the sub is telling the dom what to do.

I know lots of guys like their woman to bounce on their cock when they're fucking...it's in lots of porn stories, the woman has to "fuck herself" on his cock. Why shouldn't the man have to do the same? Sometimes the cock-bearer wants the receiver to just lie there and take it, but a lot of fun can be had if the receiver has to be active too! In the case of a woman fucking a man up the ass, she may get pleasure from seeing their typical roles reversed.
 
Thank You Etoile!

Etoile said:
Topping from the bottom means that the submissive partner is telling the dominant partner what to do. It has nothing to do with the particular activity, or man vs. woman - it just means the sub is telling the dom what to do.

I know lots of guys like their woman to bounce on their cock when they're fucking...it's in lots of porn stories, the woman has to "fuck herself" on his cock. Why shouldn't the man have to do the same? Sometimes the cock-bearer wants the receiver to just lie there and take it, but a lot of fun can be had if the receiver has to be active too! In the case of a woman fucking a man up the ass, she may get pleasure from seeing their typical roles reversed.
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I'm usually very quiet during sex (kids asleep etc), so I don't think I'd fall into this catagory. I'll keep in mind that "she" is in charge and try to follow her lead.... either to help her please me.... or.... in hopes that she really has a good time. (be that for her pleasure which also takes HER RELAXING... or for her pleasure in pleasing me in a new way.)

Ladies.... can you relax? Once you are sure that your partner is enjoying the activity, once you're sure everthing is working right, can you take in all that is happening and what it is doing for you to let it all be about you for a few moments? Sort of like a big relaxing hot tub with bath oils and candels and all? Or... the last 100 yards of a really good run... enjoy the moment.... let it all go.... push your own limits.
 
anyone find anymore pics or vids?

Maybe some of you folk have better luck... or have some of your own. Slowly slowly this toy seems to be getting discovered by those who make vids or pics on line. If I can't get women's experience in print... I could get by with videos... or pics.
 
uptoplay2 said:
I'm not sure I want to have my lover have too much power. Certainly no more than I could bring use on her with a natural cock. Would I want my cock to come out? No... so that would have to be prevented. If part of the problem is that it feels good, well ... sorry.... when I use my cock it feels really good.. .and that limits what I can do as well.

I thought Miss FrancyPants had found something that helped? Perhaps that was just a happy dream.

What I have learned is that "protesting" can be a turn on to some women. (hopefully she won't take "NO" to mean no!)

What does topping from the bottom mean?? Some ladies seem to like the idea of the guy moving?? What's the story?? Let her enjoy herself and just take it.... with some happy moans..... and "NO no no... please"...... OR... move and help her... or help myself??
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Hey, Up, the power I am talking about is basically just having a cock that doesn't fall off you when you try to really thrust deep. Yes, what helps is wearing a harness or tight undies with a hole cut in them. But that defeats the whole purpose of the Feeldoe, doesn't it?

Also, the pony end isn't all that stimulating once it's in, and I have never felt the clit vibrator thing at all, nor the ridges that are supposed to stimulate the clit.

But I think the real problem with the Feeldoe is the angle. Like most real cocks, it angles up in front but when a man inserts his into the woman, it straightens out in front of him while he thrusts. With the Feeldoe, straightening it out just pulls it out, because it doesn't have the flexibility.

Also, the butt cheeks just get in the way with the Feeldoe. It limits the length that the feeldoe can go iin. It was designed to just get past labia, not buttocks!

That's my story and I'm stickin' to it!
 
agreed... cock falling off.. BAD

francypants said:
Hey, Up, the power I am talking about is basically just having a cock that doesn't fall off you when you try to really thrust deep. Yes, what helps is wearing a harness or tight undies with a hole cut in them. But that defeats the whole purpose of the Feeldoe, doesn't it?

Also, the pony end isn't all that stimulating once it's in, and I have never felt the clit vibrator thing at all, nor the ridges that are supposed to stimulate the clit.

But I think the real problem with the Feeldoe is the angle. Like most real cocks, it angles up in front but when a man inserts his into the woman, it straightens out in front of him while he thrusts. With the Feeldoe, straightening it out just pulls it out, because it doesn't have the flexibility.

Also, the butt cheeks just get in the way with the Feeldoe. It limits the length that the feeldoe can go iin. It was designed to just get past labia, not buttocks!

That's my story and I'm stickin' to it!
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It's not the flexibility... it's the tension necessary to hold against the added torque. Less thickness at the bottom would help that, but then it wouldn't stand up. Worse.. if there was a thinning and that goes into your man, he's gonna yank it straight out of you. So...... unfortunately ... to play with the feeldoe anally... the harness is needed.

I'm just not interested in other strap-ons that almost look like they are pressing on women's belly buttons (ok.. not that high... but certainly not on anything that would be stimulating)

More length for the feeldoe might help....

MissFrancy, I'll assume that your desires to have a cock would mean that turning it around for him to hold would not interest you. On the other hand... he would be squirming to have you move it for him. You might like the other end...
 
uptoplay2 said:
I'm just not interested in other strap-ons that almost look like they are pressing on women's belly buttons (ok.. not that high... but certainly not on anything that would be stimulating)
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I don't know. Pressing on my pubic bone is pretty stimulating. I wish there was a way to demo these things.
 
really?

tanyachrs said:
I don't know. Pressing on my pubic bone is pretty stimulating. I wish there was a way to demo these things.
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We should set up a network for sampling...

If I were single...

oh well.
 
The "jock strap" style harness (4-strap) is the only way to go for me. It's so much more comfortable and it leaves everything accessible. ;)
 
DngrDave said:
Since the size thing keeps coming up, I got a Nexus a while back (similar to the feeldoe) and it just wasn't enough for me. Feeldoe looks like it's a similar size.

Then again I may not be typical... my first was
http://www.jtstockroom.com/Huge-Penis-Dildo-P76.aspx

And I later got this
http://www.jtstockroom.com/Giant-Cock-w-Balls-Black-P88.aspx

I ended up throwing it away... it just wouldn't fit between the bones, and she just thought it was way too much heavy, etc.
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A size queen after my own heart! I have this one though I admit I've never tried to use it...
 
I've seen those... the thickness looks interesting... it's the length that scares ME.

Never tried to use it on yourself or someone else?
 
eeegad! Etoile... be careful with that

Etoile said:
A size queen after my own heart! I have this one though I admit I've never tried to use it...
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Has Nexus matched the size of the Stout yet? Or are they holding firm with just two sizes?

Mia's having trouble with the 4th version... darn manufacturing.
 
uptoplay2 said:
Has Nexus matched the size of the Stout yet? Or are they holding firm with just two sizes?

Mia's having trouble with the 4th version... darn manufacturing.
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I have no idea, I don't communicate with the people who make the Nexus. I don't think they're really interested in competing with the Feeldoe necessarily...maybe the Feeldoe people feel they're competing with the Nexus, but I don't know that the Nexus people feel that way.
 
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