Favourite type of restraint?

Milkdrops1 said:
Hi just wondered if there was any type of specific restraint equipment anyone uses alot in particular maybe because of it bieng a turn on.

Anyone got any specific restraints that they find more sexy than others?

Also please tell me if you make a point of telling your submissive partner what there for. Tell me what you say to them about the restraints as they struggle in vein. Its just cool. Thx.

I love rope because it's beautiful, because it's versatile, and because you can do all sorts of evil things with it :devil: I don't know anyone who wouldn't figure out what it's for - and ropes do require some cooperation - you can't surprise someone with rope when you put it on. you can surprise them with what you do with it.

Am learning about predicament bondage - the sub moves one body part or tries to resist and the rope hurts somewhere else (pulls against chains attached to nipple clips, or another rope attached to balls/cock). Don't have to say much - just grin impishly when they discover what the ties do. (Although I have been known to quote a Borg or two, whispering, of course.) have pre-ordered the Knotty Boys' book at Amazon.

I also recently learned in a class how to make a very tight skirt out of rope - wonderful for humiliating a man when he is commanded to shuffle in it :D

Unfortunately, my kink partner (also switch) has panic attacks when he has both hands tied, so I currently have limits on how far I can go...

Neon :catroar:

Oh, and I love being bound!
 
Oh YEAH!

I like using ropes! I love taking My subs to a hardware store and letting them choose! ~S~ The color, the thickness.. ~S~ I always 'test fit' the choice IN THE STORE YES! She has to pay for it at the register. I Always bind her wrists just outside the door, too.

Oh, in case you are wondering.... I buy enough for her ankles too! ~S~
 
I'm more of a practical person when it comes to equipment and I perfer something I can get my girl in or out of easily and quickly. Right now, I've got nylon cords with attached velcro restraints that I use but I'm thinking of going for a set of 4 leather cuffs that have a latch-style hook to be attached to chain or rope.

That would make things even easier. :cool:
 
sixpicker said:
I like using ropes! I love taking My subs to a hardware store and letting them choose! ~S~ The color, the thickness.. ~S~ I always 'test fit' the choice IN THE STORE YES! She has to pay for it at the register. I Always bind her wrists just outside the door, too.

Oh, in case you are wondering.... I buy enough for her ankles too! ~S~

I like that idea! Having her choose her restraints as we shop together :D
 
Easy... you look him/her straight in the eye and growl the magic words: -

"You will not move."

Then sit back and watch your sub battle with themselves, bound simply by command.

That really reminds them what they're for; MY amusement :D
 
onyxvixen said:
Easy... you look him/her straight in the eye and growl the magic words: -

"You will not move."

Then sit back and watch your sub battle with themselves, bound simply by command.

That really reminds them what they're for; MY amusement :D

I go with that, say put a marker on the wall and cover it with their hands, and tell em they can't move, having said that the ritual of binding them will also get the chemistry going for both
 
heck, I thought this was the thread I already posted in, but there's a link to it, which is good.

I'll repeat myself here.

Rope. Nothing beats it for versatility. As neonflux mentioned, using ropes makes them complicit in their physical captivity, just due to the time it takes to make a proper job of it.

Vet Wrap is fun stuff; very useful, very versatile, and very close to rope on my list of fun stuff to physically restrain someone with.
 
onyxvixen said:
Easy... you look him/her straight in the eye and growl the magic words: -

"You will not move."

Then sit back and watch your sub battle with themselves, bound simply by command.

That really reminds them what they're for; MY amusement :D
LOL, this is what I have to do with my BDSM partner when topping since he panics having his hands tied. It's really fun when I torture his feet after telling him not to move his hands :devil:
 
I like rope best... it just turns me on the most. Seems so much more serious than leather cuffs ;)

Handcuffs are my least favorite, due to discomfort.
 
i have to agree with onyxvixen on this one. when tied or cuffed, the struggle is against the restraints themselves. but when commanded by word, the struggle is entirely within myself, with my desire to obey pitted against my fear of failure. it is sometimes so very hard to do what one is commanded to do . . .
 
Rope is fun; it's versitile, but after a while it's still rope. :p But, I like chaging things so they are always new... like, I just learned a neat trick from Wushu on how to trap somone by bulling their shirt off. It doesn't hurt the least, but I imagine it will be really fun :devil:

But, my favorite retraint remains my voice :)
 
I love restraints of all sorts. Well, except for the handcuffs. They're just not very comfortable. But my most favorite one would have to be Her. Be it Her telling me to stay put or be her holding me down, physically. I just plain love it. But, I do realize sometimes, when She wants to torment me, it's pretty hard for Her to hold me down herself, so I do enjoy the other ways She uses. :)
 
i could have sworn i already posted on this thread.....

to reiterate my answer: i just love being bound.. rope, chain, disgarded clothing, you name it.. as long is it can tie me up (or down)
 
O'Mac said:
I'm more of a practical person when it comes to equipment and I perfer something I can get my girl in or out of easily and quickly. Right now, I've got nylon cords with attached velcro restraints that I use but I'm thinking of going for a set of 4 leather cuffs that have a latch-style hook to be attached to chain or rope.

That would make things even easier. :cool:


Sounds lovely ;)

I would enjoy whatever my Daddy decides to use.
 
insertcutename said:
I would enjoy whatever my Daddy decides to use.
Aw, c'mon, that's too easy. What if your Daddy said "pet, tonight I want you to choose how you're going to be restrained. choose well or you will be sorry!" Then what would you choose? :)
 
I seem to really be into sequential posting lately.

Anyway, my favorite is probably armbinders. I've never gotten to experience a real one, I've only had my arms tied together behind me with a belt (with my elbows bent and wrists tied together as well) but I enjoy that very much so I think I would like the real thing as well. Unfortunately I can't stay in that position as long as I'd like because my shoulders start to hurt, but I can last a while.

I also like thigh-wrist restraints, where you have cuffs on your wrists and your thighs and they are hooked together. Adding a spreader bar between the thigh cuffs is fun too.
 
Master's and my preferences are pretty much the same. We like rope for the marks it leaves, but prefer leather cuffs (which are usually then tied to something using rope). Metal handcuffs/leg shackles are ok, but I have abnormally large bones in my wrists and both my ankles are still swollen pretty large from old injuries, so that makes them uncomfortable. He hog-tied me one night with metal handcuffs and leg shackles. The pain in my ankles was excruciating! He unlocked me almost immediately after putting me in there and swore he'd never do it again because it hurt so much. It made for an awesome pic, though.
 
BiBunny said:
Master's and my preferences are pretty much the same. We like rope for the marks it leaves, but prefer leather cuffs (which are usually then tied to something using rope). Metal handcuffs/leg shackles are ok, but I have abnormally large bones in my wrists and both my ankles are still swollen pretty large from old injuries, so that makes them uncomfortable. He hog-tied me one night with metal handcuffs and leg shackles. The pain in my ankles was excruciating! He unlocked me almost immediately after putting me in there and swore he'd never do it again because it hurt so much. It made for an awesome pic, though.
Yikes! Are your hands purple in that one? It looks to me like those could have been a little longer so you'd not be bent so hard...I wouldn't be able to stay in there for more than a couple of minutes myself, because it looks like it hurts!
 
My usual advice for folks who want to play with handcuffs and legirons is: Don't. They look cool, but they're tricky in far too many ways for most folks to bother with them.

Second piece of advice, if you're going to ignore my first piece of advice: Splurge on top quality, genuine law-enforcement issue, which are available from their manufacturers. Smith & Wesson is one such. The reason for this is pretty simple: Safety.

The cheapass cuffs you can get at your local novelty stores are horrific nasties, filled with dangerous things. Crappy pressed sheet metal construction on those garbage cuffs make them prone to twisting, bending, and warping, which can cut off circulation and damage key nerve clusters, like the radial nerve. Cheesy construction and the "lock" :rolleyes: with the quick-release tabs are also prone to breakage, a thousand ways. Then there's the "double lock", the mechanism which prevents them from ratcheting closed any further - on the cheapass ones, it's a sliding bar, that can slip, break, fall off, or just not do anything; we're back to risking nerve damage with the garbage cuffs.

Quality cuffs are made of thicker, tougher metal, so they're not anywhere near as likely to bend or warp, though if you run over them with a car, you might do some damage - to your tires. The locking mechanism is more than a stamped aluminum pinwheel, more reliable and durable. Sure they lack "quick release" tabs, but if you're playing with frikkin' handcuffs, quick release isn't likely to be a top priority. The "double lock" is a small button, which you set with a pointy stylus on the back of the key, or a pen. Again, more secure and reliable. Professional grade handcuffs are worth the investment if you're going to play with them, but even the police are mostly going to those overgrown cable ties for the most part, these days.

Side note, the cuffs in BiBunny's pic appear to be quality ones - I just feel the need to drag out my soapbox whenever cuffs are mentioned, even if I am preaching to the choir here, for the most part.
 
Etoile said:
Yikes! Are your hands purple in that one? It looks to me like those could have been a little longer so you'd not be bent so hard...I wouldn't be able to stay in there for more than a couple of minutes myself, because it looks like it hurts!

They probably were purple, but that could've just as easily been because I was cold, too. I'm quite flexible, but I think Master realized right quick that I'm too tall for those restraints to be used that way, LOL! It hurt like hell, let me tell you. He put me in them, and I started squirming immediately. He took a pic and let me out right then, bless his heart!
 
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