Favorite foreplay ideas

[kilroys]

I’m looking to spice up our sex life a little. After 16 years of marriage, thing can get in a rut. I would like some new foreplay ideas. What are some of your favorites?

Thanks

 

[Cardinal]

All time best foreplay......

Wine

 

[Just_4_Giggles]

Toys
Reading Lit stories together
Read the Sticky Board in this How To forum
Read and print out the WHOLE 1048 pages of the "Try this and report back" thread.
Wesson Oil, plastic drop cloth
candles
blindfolds and bonds
lots of licking
erotic movies/pictures

This whole website (stories and boards) are like one huge Sex Manual - read, read, read!

 

[sosexy]

yay for this board, you learn something new everyday!

 

[eudaemonia]

When was the last time you two went on a date? Dates usually lead to foreplay, IME.

 

[dramaqueen47]

The best foreplay is just talking and touching, not the privates, but rubbing an arm, playing with hair, etc etc. That always gets me hot because I feel such a connection. Also, dirty talking but not touching each other. When you finally do touch each other it will feel great IMHO.

 

[eudaemonia]

Kissing, kissing, kissing. As if you're on your first date ... or as if you're teenagers and that's as far as it can go ... or as if you're not going to see each other for a long time and you've got one last hour for farewells.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Kissing, kissing, kissing. As if you're on your first date ... or as if you're teenagers and that's as far as it can go ... or as if you're not going to see each other for a long time and you've got one last hour for farewells.

This is a great idea! My wife and I have done this, just kissing for hours. It's incredible sensual and extremely intimate.

We also took it a step further. We decided to get back to our teenage years and jumped in the car and went and parked somewhere. We then jumped inteh back seat and started necking like a couple of kids. It was a blast. Of course we then went home and fucked like rabbits, and that restraint really got us both hot.

Some thign else I've discovered is that my wife's idea of foreplay is pretty n on sexual. It's not traditional non penetration stimulation that really gets her hot, it's spending time and intimate caressing and kissing without any genital contact. It seems that as we get older our sexual life has gone more toward the romantic and emotional and away from the purely physical aspects. That's natural when you've been with someone for so long. Don't be afraid to use this to your benefit as this can lead to some pretty hot experimentation.

 

[Weird Harold]

When was the last time you two went on a date? Dates usually lead to foreplay, IME.

A lot depends on what you consider foreplay -- if done properly a "date" doesn't lead to foreplay, it IS foreplay.

 

[TBKahuna123]

OK I got a new one for ya!

Yesterday it was my wife's birthday, so I served her breakfast in bed, wearing only an apron. It went over very well.

 

[Pyro Paul]

my favorate is breathing and closeness with out touching.

putting your face next to her skin and letting your warm breath blow on her, you hanging above her, your hand gliding mere centimeters from her skin but never touching it. the anticipation of the feeling is so exsitencial. well for me atleast.

 

[Eilan]

OK I got a new one for ya!

Yesterday it was my wife's birthday, so I served her breakfast in bed, wearing only an apron. It went over very well.

Got pics?

 

[TBKahuna123]

Sadly, no.

Just imagine the Pilsbury Dough boy, but hairier,

 

[stageleft]

advice

not sure where my g/f got the idea from....to initiate foreplay she took to rubbing my rigid cock all over her lovely face...it drives me wild & she enhances the thrill by crudely whispering("dont you dare cum on my face")if i manage to contain myself it leads to a greatly enhanced session of wild sex!!!

 

[voluptuous_curves]

Ever try cooking together? Bf and I always have a lot of fun with this...find sometething to make that would be really sensual for the two of you to feed each other...something you eat with your hands and is messy is always great...we have a great cookbook called Intercourses that has lots of great ideas for simple but sensual recipes(everything in it is supposed to be an aphrodesiac)...Take your time in the kitchen together...our kitchen is quite small so we always end up bumping and rubbing against each other which makes it more fun...feed each other tastes of the food...nothing better than licking sauce off of fingers...or any other body part you may choose to include in the fun...then enjoy the eroticism of feeding each other...

(word of caution...never ever cook naked when dealing with hot chilli peppers!!!! at least cover up the important parts...there is such a thing as getting too hot!)

 

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[Scepter]

(word of caution...never ever cook naked when dealing with hot chilli peppers!!!! at least cover up the important parts...there is such a thing as getting too hot!)

I would extend that warning to include never fry anything that sizzles while naked!
Bacon for instance...

 

[Scepter]

Remember how you both acted and what you both did when you first met? Perhaps a recreation of that time might have a good effect.
Other than that try not to bitch and moan at each other when you're not making love.

If you always treat each other with respect and love, it will go a long way in improving your love life.

 

[TBKahuna123]

no tan?

Nope, I put the white in wonder bread. Maybe if I smear a little butter on and go stand in the sun.

Hum hum hum.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Ever try cooking together? Bf and I always have a lot of fun with this...find sometething to make that would be really sensual for the two of you to feed each other...something you eat with your hands and is messy is always great...we have a great cookbook called Intercourses that has lots of great ideas for simple but sensual recipes(everything in it is supposed to be an aphrodesiac)...Take your time in the kitchen together...our kitchen is quite small so we always end up bumping and rubbing against each other which makes it more fun...feed each other tastes of the food...nothing better than licking sauce off of fingers...or any other body part you may choose to include in the fun...then enjoy the eroticism of feeding each other...

(word of caution...never ever cook naked when dealing with hot chilli peppers!!!! at least cover up the important parts...there is such a thing as getting too hot!)

This is another great one. Food can be very sensual, just watch 9 1/2 weeks! Seriously though, my wife and I have gotten into fondue lately. It's cool because it takes sooo long to do. You have to prep everything, then you can only cook a bit at a time. It takes hours to have a meal. So why's that cool? Because all you can do it talk and spend time together while you're doing it.

I'm tellin ya, nothing stimulates the action of a long term relationship like quality time.

 

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[TBKahuna123]

While you're at it, smear some on your wife too and take her with you.

Sounds like we're getting off track here. Didn't you already start a thread on slippery sex?

 

[LadyJeanne]

Sounds like we're getting off track here. Didn't you already start a thread on slippery sex?

There was a thread on slippery sex and I missed it?!

 

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[TBKahuna123]

Nice segway! So you're saying slather each other in butter and then get to it? I like that! Gives new meaning to Country Crock, for sure!