Fat Chick Fetish?

[Harmony_1985]

I have no issue with a fat chick showing skin anymore than I have an issue with a slim chick. I do have an issue with people emulating the latest style EXACTLY, even when it doesn't look good on them. FOR INSTANCE. If you have a short waist (by this I don't mean that you're fat, but that there's not a lot of room between your rib cage and your hips), you SHOULD NOT wear those huge belts, it shows off your lack of waist. If you're teeny tiny, wearing pants cut for someone with a J Lo ass, will make you look ridiculous. PERIOD. If you're short and curvy, loud prints will make you look like a couch. And if you're a big girl you don't want a horizontal line on your hip and on your waist, it looks bad.

It's a matter of not being a slave to the newest fashion, finding what looks good ON YOU, and wearing it.

Thank you! Gracey gets it.

*gives Gracey a cookie*

I seem to have missed a bit of debat on a few things (I skimmed all the posts).

My idea of sexy on a woman tends to involve somewhat large breasts and a big, round backside. These are often found on larger/fat women. A belly doesn't bother me really, but if we are talking ideal beauty, she wouldn't have much of one, and would have a bit of an hourglass shape. This might be what I think of when I think sexy but I do find women sexy who don't fit this too.

Men want big boobs and a big bum, so why not have an overweight woman?

Do we not think that a whole load of posts in this thread is just people trying to justify the fact that they have a weight problem?? I am reading the same thing over and over.

And men who say they prefer big women... hmmm... would this be because they don't have the self confidence or belief to go after a slim women.

Lastly, this suggestion that slim women are boring. Sorry it just doesn't wash. Slim women are miles more confident than larger women, on the whole. I find that larger women tend to be loud and brash, almost as if they are trying to distract from their largeness. This to me does not come across as interesting, confidence or anything other that a smoke-screen to what is blindingly obvious.

And it's not about size zero or whatever - it's about being normally slim to maybe a few pounds over, but when weight gets way over what is normal and healthy, sorry, that says a whole lot about a person and what is going on in their lives.

Okay, just to clear something up. Not every overweight person is a lazy ass who gorges themselves on chocolate, cakes and takeaways every night.

I'm overweight, and I'm well aware of that. I'm concious about what I eat, but if I'm very strict with myself and exercise that extra bit more than I usually do, I can lose about 2 stone (14 pounds) but after that, I hit a brick wall, and no matter what I do, I cannot shift it.

There are medical conditions that can cause weight gain and conditions that can hinder weight loss. Sadly, I suffer with Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome, which is known for hindering weight loss and causing weight gain.

I'm not saying that that is the case every time, because it's not, but I'm just saying please don't put us all in the stereotyped "stuffing our faces and sitting on our asses" class because it's not right.

 

[SomeMight]

I didn't suggest that people sit about eating chocolate and cakes.

It's more to do with ready meals and fast food, in my opinion. And probably snacking and alcohol consumption. Plus no time for exercise.

Such is the modern world that we live in.

On the plus side, there is a saying that goes like - face or figure??? When people get to a certain age, if they are too skinny they look gaunt in the face. A little bit of plumpness makes older people (women) look a whole lot better and probably younger??

Previous +1 girlfriend has a bust size of GG and there was something hugely voluptuous about her. Current g/f is 34B and at totally the opposite end of the scale.

I don't really know what else to say on the matter

 

[midwestyankee]

I didn't suggest that people sit about eating chocolate and cakes.

It's more to do with ready meals and fast food, in my opinion. And probably snacking and alcohol consumption. Plus no time for exercise.

Such is the modern world that we live in.

On the plus side, there is a saying that goes like - face or figure??? When people get to a certain age, if they are too skinny they look gaunt in the face. A little bit of plumpness makes older people (women) look a whole lot better and probably younger??

Previous +1 girlfriend has a bust size of GG and there was something hugely voluptuous about her. Current g/f is 34B and at totally the opposite end of the scale.

I don't really know what else to say on the matter

You're hiding behind the particulars in hopes that no one will notice that the general in your argument holds no water.

You made it quite clear that you value slimness over bulk and won't accept that others might value others in a different way than you. Why can't you see that?

 

[graceanne]

And men who say they prefer big women... hmmm... would this be because they don't have the self confidence or belief to go after a slim women.

A quote, just so you truly understand what pissed everyone off.

Lastly, this suggestion that slim women are boring. Sorry it just doesn't wash. Slim women are miles more confident than larger women, on the whole.

Bull shit. My sister weighs 125 lbs, and won't leave the house in a tank top because of her 'flabby arms' (she doesn't have flabby arms). My best friend weighs about 135 lbs, and won't leave the house without a long shirt to cover her 'pooch' - the stretch out part of her body from having a child. When I was skinny I wouldn't wear a two piece suit, cause I believed I was horribly, grotesquely fat. Skinny women constantly critique themselves and there bodies, sure that everyone is looking at them. Don't believe me? Compliment a skinny woman on her slimness and she'll roll her eyes and say something along the lines of 'obviously you didn't notice [fill in the blanks]'.

I find that larger women tend to be loud and brash, almost as if they are trying to distract from their largeness. This to me does not come across as interesting, confidence or anything other that a smoke-screen to what is blindingly obvious.

Well, if it makes you feel better I'm loud and brash when I'm skinny, too.

 

[cocky_one69]

I enjoy large women especially if they are busty. Love some plump curves.

 

[the captians wench]

I didn't suggest that people sit about eating chocolate and cakes.

It's more to do with ready meals and fast food, in my opinion. And probably snacking and alcohol consumption. Plus no time for exercise.

Such is the modern world that we live in.
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And this is where I pop in.

I'm a McMAnager. I eat fast food maybe 3 times a day when I'm working. I don't get time to sit and eat most of the time, so I usually grab a left over double cheeseburger or what ever is in the been and shove it down in 4 or 5 bites. (I should note I'm hypoglycemic, so I eat a snack about every 2 hours to keep my sugar balanced). As you can see from my av, I'm not big as a house, nor shy about it

When I joined Mcd's I was nearly 400lbs and was over size 24 (I don't know what size I really was because I stopped buying clothes at 24 and started only buying stretchy things). 5 years later I am a size 15/16 and hover between 200 and 230lbs (tho I swear my hair ads 30lbs being thick and down to my ass now).

I do try to walk a mile every day (was awesome when I was on base this week) but it doesn't always happen. I try to eat a good meal at home every night, but again, some times I'm just too tired to cook for myself. I don't count carbs, or calories, or anything like that. I eat small meals every two hours usually of what ever I can find.

And confidence, hunny you should see me strut my stuff in my bikini at the pool.

 

[Harmony_1985]

I didn't suggest that people sit about eating chocolate and cakes.

It's more to do with ready meals and fast food, in my opinion. And probably snacking and alcohol consumption. Plus no time for exercise.

Such is the modern world that we live in.

On the plus side, there is a saying that goes like - face or figure??? When people get to a certain age, if they are too skinny they look gaunt in the face. A little bit of plumpness makes older people (women) look a whole lot better and probably younger??

Previous +1 girlfriend has a bust size of GG and there was something hugely voluptuous about her. Current g/f is 34B and at totally the opposite end of the scale.

I don't really know what else to say on the matter

Because you DID hint at thinking overweight people do nothing and gorge on food.

And it's not about size zero or whatever - it's about being normally slim to maybe a few pounds over, but when weight gets way over what is normal and healthy, sorry, that says a whole lot about a person and what is going on in their lives.

The bolded part hints at you thinking that overweight people live a completely different and bizaare life to slim people.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Sheesh, when will some people ever get that a person's size does not necessarily give an indication of their dietary habits, lifestyle or happiness? I have known overweight people who barely ate and only ate healthy food and got exercise but due to health problems and in some cases a body type, carried more than is considered 'normal'....I have also known skinny (superskinny as in unhealthy range) people who can eat as much as they like, of anything they like including take always, fried foods and chocolates and never gain an ounce despite sometimes wishing for dear life they could. You cannot always judge a book by its cover.

Catalina:caning:

 

[graceanne]

Sheesh, when will some people ever get that a person's size does not necessarily give an indication of their dietary habits, lifestyle or happiness? I have known overweight people who barely ate and only ate healthy food and got exercise but due to health problems and in some cases a body type, carried more than is considered 'normal'....I have also known skinny (superskinny as in unhealthy range) people who can eat as much as they like, of anything they like including take always, fried foods and chocolates and never gain an ounce despite sometimes wishing for dear life they could. You cannot always judge a book by its cover.

Catalina:caning:

Give it up. I have. I've said this and said this and SAID this until I'm blue in my face. They don't want to hear that, because that would mean they don't get to feel superior. It's like trying to convince a racist that not all black people are drug dealers - you're fighting an uphill battle.

 

[Primalex]

It's like trying to convince a racist that not all black people are drug dealers

Of course not all are.

Some are in prison.

 

[ownedsubgal]

Of course not all are.

Some are in prison.

you must find yourself cute.

 

[Primalex]

you must find yourself cute.

Of course. How can I not, if I can get your attention?

 

[graceanne]

Of course not all are.

Some are in prison.