Fantasy

[Special1122]

I have a fantasy of going out to a bar with the DW, acting like we are not there together and seeing her getting hit on by another guy. I want to see her dance and get felt on by another guy to where they even make out. The fact that she gets turned on and knows that I am there to witness it makes it a turn on for myself. At the end of the night we both go home together in a taxi and have hot sex in the back seat. Her dancing and getting felt on by the other guy was just to get her really horny, and experience something different without actually having relations with someone else. How do I successfully achieve this?

 

[nakdsub]

Very carefully...

You might wind up in a fight. Imagine how the guy or guys are going to feel when they realize she was just teasing them with the intention of going home with you the whole time. I sure wouldn't let her give one or even two guys her attentions all night, I think that would be a definite scene for disaster.

I would also make damn sure she realizes this is only you're around. She may get the idea you wouldn't mind if she played around a little when out with the girls as well.

I would do a LOT of talking together before doing something like this, it sounds very risky on several levels.

 

[SweetErika]

It seems like your first step would be having a goo discussion with your wife, no? Have you already done that?

If I were you, I'd present it as a fantasy and potential form of foreplay. I'd make it clear that I'd only want her to do what she's totally comfortable with.

The 'tease' issue with any guys could be avoided multiple ways. She could approach you and let you have a dance before seemingly hitting it off so well that she decides to go home with you. You could also play the scene at a sex positive venue where guys are OK with playing around and will respect her desire to only go so far. Wherever you go, make it a place in which you meet strangers you're unlikely to see again.

I would not assume she will run with the playing around concept when you're not with her. It's preemptively accusing her of cheating and will probably not lead to good things for either of you. Sure, emphasize the idea that this is about having fun, enhancing your sex life and strengthening your bond through a new experience as a couple, but leave it at that unless you need to clarify further. A cheater will cheat regardless of the scenario, and a faithful person will not (they'll ask for clarification unless there's a huge miscommunication or something, like you saying you'd like her to try it solo then change your mind).

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

To begin I dislike a tease. That being said I'm pretty amiable when I've been drinking, but there are a fair number of guys who get pretty damn mean with a few drinks in them.

I think this is much better as a bedroom fantasy than something to do in real life and one hell of a lot safer too. Just my thoughts.

Mike

 

[christy1989]

All guys loved to be teased!!!

 

[Lord Pmann]

All guys loved to be teased!!!

If there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

 

[christy1989]

Or a grail at the back of the cave?
There might be hope, but I think this tunnel would shed no light?

 

[busyguy9999]

Here you might like this:

http://www.literotica.com/s/south-beach-cuckold

 

[Thefamiliar]

Guys drinking dont often take no for an answer.

I never go to a bar alone for that reason, though many guys dont care if a woman is there with someone or not. I doubt you would have to pretend.

 

[Special1122]

It seems like your first step would be having a goo discussion with your wife, no? Have you already done that?

If I were you, I'd present it as a fantasy and potential form of foreplay. I'd make it clear that I'd only want her to do what she's totally comfortable with.

The 'tease' issue with any guys could be avoided multiple ways. She could approach you and let you have a dance before seemingly hitting it off so well that she decides to go home with you. You could also play the scene at a sex positive venue where guys are OK with playing around and will respect her desire to only go so far. Wherever you go, make it a place in which you meet strangers you're unlikely to see again.

I would not assume she will run with the playing around concept when you're not with her. It's preemptively accusing her of cheating and will probably not lead to good things for either of you. Sure, emphasize the idea that this is about having fun, enhancing your sex life and strengthening your bond through a new experience as a couple, but leave it at that unless you need to clarify further. A cheater will cheat regardless of the scenario, and a faithful person will not (they'll ask for clarification unless there's a huge miscommunication or something, like you saying you'd like her to try it solo then change your mind).

Talking to her about is exactly my plan. I'm gonna try a couple of pick at bar role playing scenarios to see if she even enjoys that. If it has a positive outcome and I see she's into role playing then I'll talk to her about the rest. She has mentioned many times how she would love to do the whole role playing thing. I am currently plannig the whole thing so it is pleasant and fun. For instance, picking the right place to go, researching on scripts, etc. Any recommendations?

 

[Special1122]

Guys drinking dont often take no for an answer.

I never go to a bar alone for that reason, though many guys dont care if a woman is there with someone or not. I doubt you would have to pretend.

I've thought about that, but honestly I know she could handle her own and I know she wouldn't pick a guy that is too pushy. Just imagine it as if she was single. Women go out all the time, dance with guys, hell even make out with guys but at the end of the night if they choose not to take it any further, they just leave with their girlfriends and no harm no foul.

 

[Special1122]

Here you might like this:

http://www.literotica.com/s/south-beach-cuckold

It cool until the end. That is not my fantasy at all. I know for a fact that if I was in those shoes, I would have said F*** no and the whole thing would have been called off. I also understand that the story was fictional and the end completely destroyed the story.

 

[SweetErika]

Talking to her about is exactly my plan. I'm gonna try a couple of pick at bar role playing scenarios to see if she even enjoys that. If it has a positive outcome and I see she's into role playing then I'll talk to her about the rest. She has mentioned many times how she would love to do the whole role playing thing. I am currently plannig the whole thing so it is pleasant and fun. For instance, picking the right place to go, researching on scripts, etc. Any recommendations?

Have you asked her what type of roleplaying she has in mind? For instance, she might be thinking about forced seduction, not so much the bar scenario you have in mind. Also, she may prefer something more natural than using any kind of script ( I know I would!). I can't imagine the bar thing would require a script, anyway; it seems like you'd just agree on the actions/plan for the evening, then let it play out naturally from there, no?

Bottom line, talk to her and figure it out together.

 

[Eilan]

I've thought about that, but honestly I know she could handle her own and I know she wouldn't pick a guy that is too pushy. Just imagine it as if she was single. Women go out all the time, dance with guys, hell even make out with guys but at the end of the night if they choose not to take it any further, they just leave with their girlfriends and no harm no foul.

Yes, and sometimes things don't happen that way. If something does go wrong, will you be able to live with knowing that you deliberately put your wife in harm's way just for the sake of getting your rocks off?

Good luck to both of you.