Fantasy swinging

[Onceuponatime1972]

The latest fantasy swing is written. This will be the hardest for us to find real life protagonists because it requires us to find 3 guys, who are friends and into a particular music genre (rock). Fortunately we have a favourite pub in our city that caters for rock music fans.

 

[Wonderer67]

This is a good thread.

I wanted to open our marriage a few years back, but my wife didn’t like the idea. We had a lot of conversation around it over the course of a year or so. It got to the point where she was much more comfortable talking to me about finding other men sexually attractive.

But she didn’t want to engage in the real thing at all.

But this sounds like a potential alternative. Be some good pillow talk.

 

[Onceuponatime1972]

This is a good thread.

I wanted to open our marriage a few years back, but my wife didn’t like the idea. We had a lot of conversation around it over the course of a year or so. It got to the point where she was much more comfortable talking to me about finding other men sexually attractive.

But she didn’t want to engage in the real thing at all.

But this sounds like a potential alternative. Be some good pillow talk.

It's great fun. We write the fantasies together, alternating input. Sometimes one will do a couple of lines then then other a few paragraphs, it all depends on the story, and we always leave the door nope for then other take more than one path. It has revealed desires that neither knew we had. And the search for protagonists is great fun.

 

[Nellie60]

This is a good thread.

I wanted to open our marriage a few years back, but my wife didn’t like the idea. We had a lot of conversation around it over the course of a year or so. It got to the point where she was much more comfortable talking to me about finding other men sexually attractive.

But she didn’t want to engage in the real thing at all.

But this sounds like a potential alternative. Be some good pillow talk.

Years ago my ex girlfriend and I bounced around the idea of her being intimate with another man while I was present.

I knew in the back of my mind she kind of liked the fantasy but didn’t accept the reality of it until after weeks of role-playing and teasing.

I didn't want to see her fucking someone we knew, actually I wasn't comfortable with that but I was liking the idea of a stranger which was the direction we chose but only after that intial weeks of role-playing.

In those weeks there was plenty of dirty talk, she and I would select a scenario, where this will take place etc and even getting her to talk to me like the third party, something that really triggered the led up to the real thing.

At the end she didn't fuck him, I wasn't ready for that, that was going to be a possibility maybe later

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

Fantasizing with each other about having sex with other people can bring a hot and erotic time to the bedroom. Though we have been actively involved in real life swinging on and off again for years, we still bring others to our bedroom by way of fantasy talk. The topic varies. A particular man, woman or couple, depending on our mood. Our talk is always pornographic and descriptive as to what we want another person to do to us or to them. If other men are involved in the scenario, one or more of my dildos are on the bed for my use or for Jon to use on me. With other women as our object, sometimes I will use one of his masturbation sleeves on him. We find it so fun and exciting to do this.

 

[1OldFaithful]

We are well past the fantasy of swinging, about eleven years to be exact!

 

[Diann_Mom]

We are well past the fantasy of swinging, about eleven years to be exact!

And lovin' every minute!

 

[natantatewrites]

Despite both having had threesomes, and visited swinging clubs etc separately (before we knew each other), my wife and I have already decided not to risk what we have by adding a third person into our dynamic. However we have found a fun alternative. Fantasy Swinging!
We jointly create a fantasy involving one or more strangers. We alternately write paragraphs until the fantasy is finished. No details about the other parties are included, other than their gender. We then go out in our local city, usually on a weekend, and pick real strangers to insert into the fantasy story.
It's great fun surveying strangers, who have no idea what we're doing. It's not just about their physical attractiveness but also their behaviour, so that the fantasies can be adapted to fit.
It has also enhanced or sex life as we are able to, within reason, replicate the fantasy using toys and our imaginations.

Intriguing! And since the mind doesn't always know the difference between fantasy and reality this is an incredibly interesting approach And living out your fantasy without potentially having a negative effect on your relationship. Another twist on this is to do something my wife go to a store or a location for coffee sitting at different tables and pretend were meeting for the first time, and make arrangements to meet later and four separate ways for the afternoons errands they get back together even sometimes they shopping mall parking lot or back at the house pretending it's one person's house and not the others. We also assign each other different personalities such as: shy, aggressive, passive dominant, submissive whatever might be different days to mix it up a bit. The graded venues of doing these types of "pickups" or threesomes as you referred to as well are that there is absolutely zero chance of picking up an STD or grading jealousy due to something that happened outside of world of fantasy. So thanks for starting this conversation reminding you of funny can be to be creative and pretend with your lifelong partner partner even.

 

[Onceuponatime1972]

Intriguing! And since the mind doesn't always know the difference between fantasy and reality this is an incredibly interesting approach And living out your fantasy without potentially having a negative effect on your relationship. Another twist on this is to do something my wife go to a store or a location for coffee sitting at different tables and pretend were meeting for the first time, and make arrangements to meet later and four separate ways for the afternoons errands they get back together even sometimes they shopping mall parking lot or back at the house pretending it's one person's house and not the others. We also assign each other different personalities such as: shy, aggressive, passive dominant, submissive whatever might be different days to mix it up a bit. The graded venues of doing these types of "pickups" or threesomes as you referred to as well are that there is absolutely zero chance of picking up an STD or grading jealousy due to something that happened outside of world of fantasy. So thanks for starting this conversation reminding you of funny can be to be creative and pretend with your lifelong partner partner even.

Funnily enough, the latest one (started by her, we alternate who sets the scene), was based upon us pretending not to know each other ther in a public setting. It's great to hear that other couples engage in such game play

 

[Nellie60]

Intriguing! And since the mind doesn't always know the difference between fantasy and reality this is an incredibly interesting approach And living out your fantasy without potentially having a negative effect on your relationship. Another twist on this is to do something my wife go to a store or a location for coffee sitting at different tables and pretend were meeting for the first time, and make arrangements to meet later and four separate ways for the afternoons errands they get back together even sometimes they shopping mall parking lot or back at the house pretending it's one person's house and not the others. We also assign each other different personalities such as: shy, aggressive, passive dominant, submissive whatever might be different days to mix it up a bit. The graded venues of doing these types of "pickups" or threesomes as you referred to as well are that there is absolutely zero chance of picking up an STD or grading jealousy due to something that happened outside of world of fantasy. So thanks for starting this conversation reminding you of funny can be to be creative and pretend with your lifelong partner partner even.

Interesting. We did a similar thing in our role-playing. Funny thing she looked so gorgeously attractive sitting at a table on her own, that a man actually approached her for a chat.

It actually got me hard watching the interaction and my mind did go into overdrive for a moment.

 

[VikingPhoenixx]

This sounds like a fun game! I love the idea of writing a story together! Have either of you ever read what your partner wrote and said "WTF! I didn't know they were into that." I can just envision some of the conversations if hubby read some of my fantasy writings! Haha

You must try now and report back on his reaction! What is the part that you feel he'd 'wtf'?...if you don't mind my asking...

 

[Scotchlander]

Fun game! We have played who would you fuck, have to pick just one, in markets restaurants etc. unfortunately it’s usually slim pickings!

Myself and an ex partner used to play a similar game.

Usually on holiday, we would rate people on the beach on how sexy they looked. A ten was ‘I would definitely with her / him’

I would rate the women and her the men. It was always good to see her type of man. Funnily enough, most looked like me so she maybe had weird taste