Fantasy about rape????

[unknownmind]

i have the same fantasy about being raped but i am a little differnt the
thought of someone raping me makes me want to do them harm
it's a turn on and a turn off at the same time how can this be?

 

[Betticus]

i have the same fantasy about being raped but i am a little differnt the
thought of someone raping me makes me want to do them harm
it's a turn on and a turn off at the same time how can this be?

The number one sexual fantasy for women is the forced sex fantasy.

If you ask this same question in the bdsm forum then you will get a lot of feedback from people with the exact same fantasies and feelings about them that you have.

 

[Private_Label]

YES, I fantasize about rough sex/rape play. No I do not want a "real" rape. That would do very, very bad things to my control freak nature. It's already taken me a long time to work out some of the dents from being emotionally neglected when I was younger, I don't need additional things making it worse. Now Kinks, on the other hand, that I have at least a tiny amount of control over, can really make me hot.

 

[voyerhub]

i was raped, and it was great!

i had often told my husband of my rape fantasy. i used to have to walk home from work and sometimes it was dark. one while i was on my way home, a van pulled along side me and the side door was flung open. i was then pulled inside and forced to have sex with two men. even though i resisted, i was so turned on. i later found out my husband had set the whole thing up. it kinda took away from the thrill, but it was still good. now i find myself walking home from work and even hanging out in bars or bad parts of town hoping to be raped for real this time.

 

[wetandhard1]

I think the fantasy you are taking about is more like "uncontroled, rough sex, dominated by surprise." The description rape is used to describe it. We know you dont really want to be raped.

Question would you want to know it was going to happen, just not where or when? Or like the woman above, not know at all. I imagine when it was happened she knew it wasnt really rape.

wetandhard

 

[Kind der Nacht]

Rape

Most females and many males have 'Rape' fantaceis though they tend to verry greatly from person to person, from the extreem of voyerhub really wanting to be raped to just wanting to be play raped or just rough sex were the other person is in control or mostly in control for thoughs like Private_Label. It is all very normal.

P.S.
Voyerhub(or any one else of simmiler disposition) post a pic and adress or other personal information(work, gym you go to, scedual, bars you fequent, rout home frome work, ect). I'm sure some one would be willing to take you up on the offer, i know i would be temped.

 

[RA9T]

I have this fantasy from the other point of view.

The rapist.

I can't even begin to count the times I've masturbated thinking about forcing myself on a woman.

 

[Diana_Villiers]

I have this fantasy from the other point of view.

The rapist.

I can't even begin to count the times I've masturbated thinking about forcing myself on a woman.

Damn, dude, I kind of wish you were in Oregon....

 

[Kind der Nacht]

were in oregon i'm in washington

 

[BlueFireDragon]

Kind der Nacht, I do love the name

Rape fantasies are extremely common, whether it is the idea of being "raped" or being the "rapist". The precieved loss of control or having total control is probably the driving factor behind this. It's not wrong to be turned on by these thoughts. I don't condone rape in any form or fashion, but play rape is a great way to kink up your sex life, and it's fun!

 

[RA9T]

Bump.
Any ladies interested in a chat are welcome and encouraged to PM me.

 

[thewantonscribe]

Fantasy

I think I would have to say it is a definite fantasy. It does mess seriously with my control freak nature as well but I know its not real rape I am thinking about. It has gotten to the point that I am writing about it.

It is something that has cum up in my sex life. We have used it in role play and it has excercised some of the desire. I know that in real life I would not want this to happen. Though I wonder if part of me might be aroused by the real thing. If it was to be set up for me I don't think I would want to know. But on the hand knowing it could happen but not where, when or how would more satisfy the control nature.

It has also come into play with the bondage as well. That makes it all the more stimulating as I have discovered I like the sound of duct tape ripping. Though a friend shared that electrical tape provides the best method for restricting movement between tapes.

Thanks for letting me share my demons.

 

[texman713]

hey voyerhub

i travel to PA quite a bit
am married male who has played out several rape fantasies and would love to have another in my motel )
i am on hotmail at texman713 send me a message if you would like to have some fun

 

[Diana_Villiers]

About my fantasy -- at first I thought I was into the sub mindset, but I don't get off on willingly submitting. It's the fight that does it for me, throwing everything I have at the guy but being held down (tied up?) and taken anyway. Not submission, but being subdued. That's what gets me going.

 

[vibes]

About my fantasy -- at first I thought I was into the sub mindset, but I don't get off on willingly submitting. It's the fight that does it for me, throwing everything I have at the guy but being held down (tied up?) and taken anyway. Not submission, but being subdued. That's what gets me going.

that seems like a lot of work ... but it must be worth it

 

[Recidiva]

i have the same fantasy about being raped but i am a little differnt the
thought of someone raping me makes me want to do them harm
it's a turn on and a turn off at the same time how can this be?

You have to give yourself a break on this one. One of the reasons why this is so powerful is because it kicks in all kinds of brain chemistries at once, lust, fear, pain, the whole shebang. It's a back of the brain thing, places most people don't go even with a flashlight and a crucifix. Lots of us play there, though, safely. Sex and all that stuff is about thingies your body and brain can do that you had no idea was possible until you started poking around (yes, that's a pun. I amuse myself)

It's like The Hulk saying "Rage. Power. Freedom."

There are places you can't go day to day in real life because of how destructive it would be, and you genuinely might not want to be destructive, or pay the price for it. But the rage, power and freedom, at least give it a break inside your head.

You have an inner wolf you need to feed occasionally as well as nurturing your inner child. If you deny your inner wolf any sustenance at all, it gets starved and twisted and then it'll rip you to shreds because your hold on it gets weaker and weaker and it gets stronger and stronger.

Feed it a few rape fantasies, watch a few things blow up and feel like you're doing some poor lonely animal a good deed. Then when you need some inner strength against real adversity, let the wolf loose and you'll be happy you masturbated all those times! Okay, maybe you're happy already about the masturbation part.

 

[wolf2002]

You have to give yourself a break on this one. One of the reasons why this is so powerful is because it kicks in all kinds of brain chemistries at once, lust, fear, pain, the whole shebang. It's a back of the brain thing, places most people don't go even with a flashlight and a crucifix. Lots of us play there, though, safely. Sex and all that stuff is about thingies your body and brain can do that you had no idea was possible until you started poking around (yes, that's a pun. I amuse myself)

It's like The Hulk saying "Rage. Power. Freedom."

There are places you can't go day to day in real life because of how destructive it would be, and you genuinely might not want to be destructive, or pay the price for it. But the rage, power and freedom, at least give it a break inside your head.

You have an inner wolf you need to feed occasionally as well as nurturing your inner child. If you deny your inner wolf any sustenance at all, it gets starved and twisted and then it'll rip you to shreds because your hold on it gets weaker and weaker and it gets stronger and stronger.

Feed it a few rape fantasies, watch a few things blow up and feel like you're doing some poor lonely animal a good deed. Then when you need some inner strength against real adversity, let the wolf loose and you'll be happy you masturbated all those times! Okay, maybe you're happy already about the masturbation part.

That is the most sensible thing I have here read in months... thank you for those thoughts...

 

[Recidiva]

That is the most sensible thing I have here read in months... thank you for those thoughts...

You're welcome. Don't let it get around that I'm sensible, though. People will expect it all the time and I'll just disappoint them!

 

[RA9T]

That is the most sensible thing I have here read in months... thank you for those thoughts...

+1 I agree fully.

 

[debbiev]

I have this fantasy from the other point of view.

The rapist.

I can't even begin to count the times I've masturbated thinking about forcing myself on a woman.

hmm.....i like your thinking. maybe we can chat about it sometime.

 

[RA9T]

hmm.....i like your thinking. maybe we can chat about it sometime.

YIM message sent.

 

[FurryFury]

i have the same fantasy about being raped but i am a little differnt the
thought of someone raping me makes me want to do them harm
it's a turn on and a turn off at the same time how can this be?

Are you sure it's not a turn on and a turn on?

Turn on one, being raped so it's not your fault and you are free and clear.

Turn on two, beating the crap out of someone. They deserve it!

win/win

For you?

Fury

 

[bogartjack]

intelligent life

About my fantasy -- at first I thought I was into the sub mindset, but I don't get off on willingly submitting. It's the fight that does it for me, throwing everything I have at the guy but being held down (tied up?) and taken anyway. Not submission, but being subdued. That's what gets me going.

Excellent insight, Diana. Impressive.

Mild applause,
Jack

 

[RA9T]

bump

 

[Hotsngldad]

where in NJ do you live?

i had often told my husband of my rape fantasy. i used to have to walk home from work and sometimes it was dark. one while i was on my way home, a van pulled along side me and the side door was flung open. i was then pulled inside and forced to have sex with two men. even though i resisted, i was so turned on. i later found out my husband had set the whole thing up. it kinda took away from the thrill, but it was still good. now i find myself walking home from work and even hanging out in bars or bad parts of town hoping to be raped for real this time.

maybe we can accomodate your wishes?