Fantasize about rape

[taolanes]

You're not sick at all. Being taken forcibly is a normal fantasy. But I hate the idea of calling it "rape" fantasy. If you want it, it's not rape, even if you fight. Rape is an ugly thing.. .there is nothing sexual about it.

I think you're on to something. People are turned on by the idea of someone having their way with them. But the point is that they are TURNED ON HIGHLY BY THIS. Rape is someone taking advantage of your body and degrading you, that is totally different.

The fantasty needs a name like.....total submission

 

[taolanes]

but I realized what was underlying the fantasy was a perfectly normal female trait: the need to be desired.

LIGHT BULB MOMENT

As a guy I've always had this desire. And like you said, it's a very common human desire, just like intimacy or anything else. Humans love the feeling of being REALLLLY desired! I always fantasize about a woman tying me up, slowly taking off my shirt and pants and boxers, enjoying my stomach my cock my ass. And then really going wild and fingering my asshole, sucking my cock hard, and savoring every inch of my body

 

[Private_Label]

I think you're on to something. People are turned on by the idea of someone having their way with them. But the point is that they are TURNED ON HIGHLY BY THIS. Rape is someone taking advantage of your body and degrading you, that is totally different.

The fantasty needs a name like.....total submission

While I fantasize about rough sexand being pinned/held down, I don't think I would enjoy it from someone I didn't trust to let go.

The difference is not in using the break/pause, but knowing it is there if I need it, and trusting the other person with me to respect it.

 

[wifwat]

Womens favourite fantasy

That's why Valentino was so popular, he carried the girl off into the desert to 'force himself on her'. The women of the 1920's loved it. And it seems they still do.

I have a story pending in Literotica about a Lady wanting a Pre-arranged Forced situation that went wrong.
Watch out for [IT GOT OUT OF CONTROL by Wifwat]

In the meantime, you may enjoy this one.

Tied to the Table.

http://english.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=166050

 

[ghostman133]

future problems

I grew up with a girl that was raped when she was 17 by 2 neighborhood guys...since she knew them they both ended up doing some prison time....while it was traumatic she says she still finds herself incredibly aroused whenever she thinks about it...which then brings guilt...and confusion....I could only imagine how this must mess with her head

 

[blackpenblueink]

raped/rough sex

Maybe you'd be better suited finding a guy who is into rough sex.
My gf loves for me to take charge and get rough. That means hairpulling, pulling her pussy apart (tho not painfully) while fucking her. Thrusting into her mouth, ass slapping and taking her anally just because I want to ass fuck her.
But rape from a stranger is just not right.
Get rough though, you'll love it.

 

[Mikro]

Act it out

It doesn't make you weird it doesn't even make you sick, have you looked at the nonconsent story archive its huge!!!! alot of women have the same desires but fanstasy and reality don't always match. What is best is to find someone you trust who will help you play out your desires,
Good luck

I agree and i would do it before it become's an obsession, which if you keep thinking or wishing for it, could happen.

You should make one rule with your rapist though, have a keyword which means "Stop i have changed my mind" you only use it if you really want him to stop though

Be safe, set it up and act it out. Then write the story

 

[Aleycat69]

Play Rape???

I've been 'play' raped before, it was good... but i want to feel the fear of it... I don't know, being afraid while having sex gets me off so hard.

Then you must find someone like myself whom you can play with... ... but instill fear in you. It must be a person you've never met before.. ahem... much like myself, if not too much to offer... you need a dominator!!! I like to meet ladies like you in a quiet park and (play) rape you as you pass by a tree or bush... give you the thrill that you're looking for... ... FOR SURE!!!... then we go get a hotel... hehehe... .

 

[Private_Label]

... but instill fear in you. It must be a person you've never met before.. ahem... : .

I'm going to take a step back and make the SSC comment. There are a lot of people out there in the world with a screw loose. Be careful who you are meeting, especially if it is for the first time.

No offence meant Aleycat69 - but how would one know if the person who was (play) raping me somewhere outside wasn't you average screwball rapist and not the person I had been in contact with?

I think that would be "too real" for me to enjoy.

 

[bobdlan]

hi,
wuld u be intrested to fly to Bangladesh and fullfill ur fantassy? do not worry about the cost we sall sort it out. if u agree or if u haveany question pls mail me to: bob@mail2onfire.com
loking forward for the thrill.
love
Bob

 

[Sigmund_Freud]

wuld u be intrested to fly to Bangladesh and fullfill ur fantassy? do not worry about the cost we sall sort it out. if u agree or if u haveany question pls mail me to: bob@mail2onfire.com loking forward for the thrill.

um....

 

[bridget8181]

yeah. ew.

 

[Butterflybaby04]

I am a 20 year old female and I feel like I am fucked up in the head because I CONSTANTLY fantasize about being raped. For as long as I can remember I have thought about this, I know if it were to really happen I would be mortified but it seems it's become an obsession for me. I came on here and found some rape stories and even wrote one myself, describing pretty much how I would want it to happen. Does this make me sick? Anyone else think of this stuff, raping or being raped?

I know I am new but I also have this fantisy of having a man take control of me. I don't think it's "rape" but more about control. I think society has put into woman's heads that if a man controls you or something of that nature it is rape.

DISCLAIMER: I am speaking of comited couples who knowingly participate in such acts. I do not codone forcible rape of any type.

that said, I think it can be very erotic and sexual to not know what will happen next or not be in control or chained up. and there is nothing wrong with that at all. It is totally healthy and natural.

I am sorry for those who have experianced an actual rape.

I do not feel this is what the OP is thinking or has in mind though as far as her fantasy.

I myself am trying to talk my husband into a control type sex encounter. we have done some so far, but at my coaching. I really want to see him take control of me.

I hope you are able to come to grips with this fantasy and find it enjoyable and know that there is nothing wrong with it at all. feel free to pm me if you need someone to talk to.

HUGS

 

[shysub]

Interested also...

I enjoyed reading other peoples replies. I, too, have had the fantasy of being raped for several years. I would walk back from the library on campus at night wondering what could happen. I know if it were to actually happen, I would be scarred for life. I now have a husband who understands this fantasy. We haven't actually re-enacted my fantasy, he does know how to be forceful and still keep me safe. There is something truly real and exciting about someone who knows you better then you can know yourself.

 

[seaturtle50]

I am surprised ...

If my girl were to share this desire with me, my primary questions would be (1)tell me the "rules" and how your fantasy plays out in your mind. (2) I need to know "how often" (3) Are you ready to start now? (4) How about in ten minutes? (5) In a half an hour??? (6) etc ....


ST50

 

[Iron Bear]

Shortly after we started having sex, my wife suggested this, and I kinda freaked out a little. I gues it was because she's the only partner I have ever had, and I thought a little like you, that there might be "something wrong" about it. We often talk dirty about that kind of thing now, and are planning to act out this fantasy sometime soon.

 

[Brinnie]

A lot of women share your fantasy, or a mild version of it, as it's just an extreme case of submission.

Obviously, you knew that, as you posted it in the BDSM forum.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Instilling fear in the scene

There are several ways to instill fear in the scene, but you had better be playing with someone you know and trust well.

Have your partner do it with out warning. In other words, negotiate the scene but leave the timing of it up to your partner. 2 weeks down the road you won't be expecting it....

Violence. Without hitting you to hurt you, how would you deal with a slap across the face? Being picked up and thrown down on the bed or floor?

Bondage. Having your hands tied, your legs forced open and bound to the corners of the bed.

Knives. There is absolutely nothing more frightening as a physical sensation than the feel of hard, cold steel sliding across your skin. The sound of clothing being cut away and ripped from your body will ramp up the fear factor too...

Believe me, there are lots of ways to add fear to the equation. A mock rape a nice fantasy to think about. But then it happens and the blood starts rushing, the adrenaline kicks in... "OMG, he's realling _doing_ this to me!" Yummy!

Yours In Kink,
- Geoff

 

[Miss_Shy_Newcastle]

I am a 20 year old female and I feel like I am fucked up in the head because I CONSTANTLY fantasize about being raped. For as long as I can remember I have thought about this, I know if it were to really happen I would be mortified but it seems it's become an obsession for me. I came on here and found some rape stories and even wrote one myself, describing pretty much how I would want it to happen. Does this make me sick? Anyone else think of this stuff, raping or being raped?

I'm a big non-consent fan, and until I found Lit, I was worried I was crazy. Having said that so far I haven't had much success at finding anyone who will RP my fantasy!

 

[terry4u9]

I understand what you are saying. I think some role play with rough sex would fufill this desire. It does not sound sick to me. I think you are saying you want to give total control to another unexpectadly. You certainly should do this and enjoy your fantasy. Previous discussion of limits might benefit you and make it better. Perhaps being tied up or handcuffs might increase your fantasy?
I got some rope. lol Have fun but be safe.

 

[Harper2808]

xx

I agree with terry !!

 

[Kind der Nacht]

If you really want it

If you really want to try being raped, and i mean really raped were you have no control what so ever, post your address, picture and maybe some personal information, and tell them not to contact you just to do it. I'm sure someone will take you up on the offer, I know i would be temped.

 

[raven2]

I'm a big non-consent fan, and until I found Lit, I was worried I was crazy. Having said that so far I haven't had much success at finding anyone who will RP my fantasy!

That is too bad. Have you had a chance to discuss it with anybody? Would it help if you did it online or by phone? Just some suggestions. I also am very much into non-consent stories and really enjoy that section of literotica. Wouldn't mind discusssing things with you. Pm me if you wish.

 

[scuracchio]

Reality

Well anyone can fantasize about anything and that's always okay. Afterall that's why its called a fantasy.

 

[Magnum44]

There are many women with rape fantasies. I talked to one gal who has semi rape fantasy. It involves a guy attempting to rape her and she grabs his balls and ends up beating him up. I mentioned this in another post but I fantasize having my wife stomp on and crush my balls and kick me in the balls as hard as she can. In reality though pretending and only going to a point is as far as I can go. So just remember, you aren't any stranger than anyone else. I have heard of quite a few women talk about rape fantasies so I think it is fairly common. have you ever written out a script of what it is you fatasize about? I have and it helps others (your BF or husband) to understand what you mean. If he knows then maybe at some point he can do it to you.