irishgirl86
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Just curious does anyone else out there have fantasies of rape/control?
fantasies of rape/control
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JustaguyNJ
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I am just giggling thinking of
What exactly your partner is directing...
"Yeah...keep pumping....pump pump pump....comeon people, more passion...."
What exactly your partner is directing...
"Yeah...keep pumping....pump pump pump....comeon people, more passion...."
midlandsfun9999
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Rape no, control very much. Free to discuss further and see if we are suited well to each other. I'm in England.
many women have them, my dear! they like to be taken forcefully... whether they want it or not... LOL
ty5550
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I fantasize about rape...mostly because I love rough sex. I have done erotic writings/role plays involving such. I could never bring myself to actually rape someone...that's a crime punishable by death in my mind, but the fantasy is still there. I would perhaps try giving a girl her rape fantasy, such as acting/role playing it out, she is resisting and saying no when she really just wants me to take her by forced as planned before hand. Not the real deal, but makes for some spicy fun and just something to try.
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sick minded fucks in here.
ty5550
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thank you, open minded person who seemed to miss the "fantasy" portion
I certainly do. Both of being raped and doing the raping. It's a less savoury aspect of my character.
I ups argue it's a more savory part of your character. Lol. Except the you do the raping part. Unless your taking sex and not becoming the giver. Then it's cool. Lol
shoedawgz62
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Fantasy of Rape and Copntrol
I have experience this with a partner and it was awesome!! Both parties much outline boundaries and what is good and what would hurt. It is something that when done well gets you veered up and so on the edge of pleasure it is awesome.
I have experience this with a partner and it was awesome!! Both parties much outline boundaries and what is good and what would hurt. It is something that when done well gets you veered up and so on the edge of pleasure it is awesome.
JustaSCOUNDREL
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Well there is at least one sick fuck posting on this thread and he has a really Ug lee tat.
You're welcome.
Mike
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i didn't miss shit hahah
YES! I have tried to get ex-boyfriends to role play with me, but they just weren't that into it. For me it's about the loss of control, which is more of a sub-dom thing maybe. But I enjoy the rape fantasy as well. Am I a "sick fuck?"...You'd be surprised how straight laced I am in person. But in the bedroom (or other locations), I am open to sexual experiences of all kinds (with my consent, of course!)...
NaughtyRedSiren
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I have lived out both..... of course I am a submissive by nature, so the loss of control comes very easy when complete trust is there. The RP of rape was a lot of fun as well... but once again, I love rough unexpected sex.... it's all very thrilling!! I suggest you try it.. but I strongly suggest you do it with a partner you very much trust!! Trust and communication would be key!
Trusting partners
Agreed!! Can't imagine being able to enjoy it if I were really worried about what the unexpected might be and whether it might excessively cross the line for me...
Agreed!! Can't imagine being able to enjoy it if I were really worried about what the unexpected might be and whether it might excessively cross the line for me...
RawMonsterLove
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Didn't used to, but an ex-gf of mine used to have them all the time, so we'd fantasize about them and roleplay some. Now, I love mutually fantasizing about them with females that enjoy this fetish. Do you fantaszize about them?
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Miss_Blitz
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wow. a little judgemental no?
Just because I like the fantasy of being raped, doesn't mean I ever actually want to be raped. There is a massive difference.
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Iver experimented with some control fantasies in the past. It has to be done with the utmost respect. Even when both partners are into it, by the very nature of the fantasy it can get a little intense. But when its done right it can be amazing for both people. Id love to try it again.
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Control yes, rough non consensual sex, yes, but rape is a no.
I am a light dom, so most of my sex is rough with elements of control, and I've had RP where it was non consensual sex at first, but turned into good old full on hard and rough man on woman loving, but rape even as RP is a strict no. I just cant bring myself to that mindset, even in an RP or fantasy.
I am a light dom, so most of my sex is rough with elements of control, and I've had RP where it was non consensual sex at first, but turned into good old full on hard and rough man on woman loving, but rape even as RP is a strict no. I just cant bring myself to that mindset, even in an RP or fantasy.
I'd love to know from Danny or anyone else reading this post what your ideas are on how it is done right to maximize pleasure for both people. New to this and still trying to figure it out with my partner. We essentially talk about it advance in broad terms (how hard, what he will use), but the rest I leave in his trusted hands...And he is quick to back off when I give him cues. It has been working for us so far the few times we have done it but I know he'd love to take it farther...
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I think Danny would be a good person to talk to.. he seems to have good knowledge about this as well... but communication is key and of course trust. Discuss hard limits for sure! (things that you do NOT want to happen) Start in a safe and familiar place perhaps? But just be in the moment and enjoy the pleasure that is being forced upon you. If you enjoy giving up control.. this could be a mind blowing and very erotic experience. Each act differs from couple to couple. There isn't going to be a blue print for this fantasy
