Fantasies and gender

[Sillyman]

Do men have, or are supposed to have by society's standards, the same kind of romantic fantasies as women? I'm not talking sexual fantasies here. I mean fantasies about true love and such. Are men more prone to fantasies about sacrifice?

 

[Ice Cold]

I don't know, my fantasie always involve moneys, or being a big sports hero... forget the love, give me fame and fortune.

(heh heh first post again... eat that SD)

 

[Zamdrist]

I fantasize of a woman who will cook me dinner, do my laundry and give me a blow job each night.

 

[Sillyman]

Are men less romantic than women in general? Are men just romantic in a different way? Are they really the same?

 

[Monazwx]

Originally posted by Zandrist
I fantasize about a woman who will cook me dinner, do my laundry and give me a blow job every night.

Yep, just a fantasy.

Society expects men to act differently, but I think that all men (like women) just want to be loved and appreciated by their mate. Sadly, many think that money, houses and cars are the way to get these things.

 

[Tantanah]

I fantasize of a woman who will cook me dinner, do my laundry and give me a blow job each night.

What is it with men and blow jobs anyway???

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Are men less romantic than women in general? Are men just romantic in a different way? Are they really the same?

American men are less romantic in general. You, as a gender, don't take the time to discover the mysterys of women. Yall see a pretty face and that's it. You don't take the time to learn what makes her click, what it takes for her to share that secret smile with you.

Sweet Jesus...I don't know where that came from...

 

[Rubyfruit]

Sillyman, I believe men have romantic fantasies as well. There must be more of an explanation for marriage besides sex.

 

[Zamdrist]

What is it with men and blow jobs anyway???

LOL...oh, I dunno. Maybe it's a warm, wet mouth? Maybe that's it. Just guessing though.

 

[red_rose]

Are men less romantic than women in general? Are men just romantic in a different way? Are they really the same?

I generally run across men who are more romantic than I am.

But that's just me.

I have to be head-over-heels in love before I start doing cutesy things for my man.

 

[StrawberryPez]

Are men less romantic than women in general? Are men just romantic in a different way? Are they really the same?

I don't believe men to be less romantic. I think it's equal. I know women who aren't romantic at all and I know men who are VERY romantic. It all depends on the person. I also think that men do just show it differently. Some of them love to buy flowers and cook dinners and things like that, and some men feel that watching a move and cuddling is good enough. Some women would agree with either man. It's just a matter of finding a woman who likes the same type of romance as you.


If that makes sense....

 

[Saint Peter]

What is it with WOMEN and blowjobs anyway??

 

[Rubyfruit]

What is it with WOMEN and blowjobs anyway??

We can't help it. We love the feeling of your stiff shaft sliding in and out of our moist lips, almost gagging us with each increasingly hard thrust down our throats. The feeling of your hot seed spurting furiously into our mouths as we try to gulp it down before it overflows, dribbling down our chins.

 

[Saint Peter]

We can't help it. We love the feeling of your stiff shaft sliding in and out of our moist lips, almost gagging us with each increasingly hard thrust down our throats. The feeling of your hot seed spurting furiously into our mouths as we try to gulp it down before it overflows, dribbling down our chins.

Ruby is SaintPeter's kind of woman.

 

[Sillyman]

Yes, but how would someone describe a romantic woman? A romantic man buys flowers, makes up poetry(good poetry is debatable), makes dinner, cuddles, etc. What does a romantic woman do? Make him a really big steak?

 

[badasschick]

I've never been a regular girl so I really can't say that I have the fantasy of prince charming sweeping me off my feet or anything like that.

My fantasies border on the femme fatale paradigm. You know, loving the chase moving in for the kill and then leave them crying and wounded.

In reality it ends up with me being chased, getting caught and then losing my patience before disappearing.

But question dudes,

What up with wanting a slut while you're single, but then wanting a virgin when you settle down?

Sluts need luv too.

'nother question.

how come after I've just gone down on ya and swallowed your seed, you won't kiss me after?

just wondering.

 

[Rubyfruit]

What does a romantic woman do?

Good question. I think that men like to feel pampered a bit too. Taken care of, if you will. I've never met a man who didn't like his hair washed or his nails manicured by the woman he loved.

Is that romantic?

 

[Sillyman]

Sounds like it. But is romance nothing but pampering? What makes something romantic and something else just pampering? A blowjob is nice, but I don't know if it could be described as romantic though.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Sillyman, I believe men have romantic fantasies as well. There must be more of an explanation for marriage besides sex.

Really?

For the record, I don't think that flowers and cooking and pampering and all that are necessarily romantic. I think they're romantic gestures but how often are they backed by romantic feelings?

 

[Zephan]

how come after I've just gone down on ya and swallowed your seed, you won't kiss me after?

just wondering.

I'd kiss ya!!!! No problem here.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Really?

For the record, I don't think that flowers and cooking and pampering and all that are necessarily romantic. I think they're romantic gestures but how often are they backed by romantic feelings?

Gawd I like you!

O'Life giver to Demon Spawn

 

[calypso_21]

Really?

For the record, I don't think that flowers and cooking and pampering and all that are necessarily romantic. I think they're romantic gestures but how often are they backed by romantic feelings?

Ditto, where are the feelings to back up the gestures, anyone can grab a rose at a gas station and say hey I was thinking of you (while pumping away)!

As for women being romantic, it is the same, we tend to back up the gestures with feelings...a good blow job with a smile and all the emotions to back up the love session that follows.

 

[Mischka]

What does a romantic woman do?

After someone posted about the new holiday on March 20 - Steak and Blow Job Day - I started that tradition at my place. Bought 20 dollar a pound steaks, marinated them, roasted some garlic potatoes on the side, served it with his favorite red wine, and finished it off with a bj for dessert. Does that count as romantic?

 

[glamorilla]

i love romance the most.

 

[Zephan]

After someone posted about the new holiday on March 20 - Steak and Blow Job Day - I started that tradition at my place. Bought 20 dollar a pound steaks, marinated them, roasted some garlic potatoes on the side, served it with his favorite red wine, and finished it off with a bj for dessert. Does that count as romantic?

Works for me!