False pretenses..?

[AlliaPotestas]

I’m honest to a fault but then I’m not looking for relationships online or otherwise and I mostly use lit as a form of odd therapy.

Picking the genuine folk apart from the fakers is a dark art and one I’ve not mastered. I’ve been hurt by lit friends who aren’t what they claim, or by people I’ve offered support to who have lied about being widowed, etc.

And if I can be hurt when I am not looking to lit for a happy ending, I dread to think how those daring to dream of actual futures with connections here feel...

Best to remember, it’s the internet - until proven otherwise, assume everyone is full of shit. If you are looking for light hearted play, it doesn’t really matter I guess... if you are looking longer term, protect your heart, have fun, the fakers tend not to last the course... x

 

[30bandits]

When messaging someone on here, are you always honest about what you’re looking for? I mean, some say chat and friendship and then it’s all about sex constantly. Just a question.

it could be your location...

 

[daizyduke77]

it could be your location...

P.S. I can’t change it. I’ve tried. And it’s not about messages. If you read the original post it’s about being honest about what you’re looking for on here. If someone messages me and wants to strike up a friendly conversation and say they want to make friends..and then dick pics come right through. THAT is my point. Thanks for stopping by.

 

[daizyduke77]

it could be your location...

Perhaps I put down floors for a living. I guess you don’t know.

 

[daizyduke77]

I’m honest to a fault but then I’m not looking for relationships online or otherwise and I mostly use lit as a form of odd therapy.

Picking the genuine folk apart from the fakers is a dark art and one I’ve not mastered. I’ve been hurt by lit friends who aren’t what they claim, or by people I’ve offered support to who have lied about being widowed, etc.

And if I can be hurt when I am not looking to lit for a happy ending, I dread to think how those daring to dream of actual futures with connections here feel...

Best to remember, it’s the internet - until proven otherwise, assume everyone is full of shit. If you are looking for light hearted play, it doesn’t really matter I guess... if you are looking longer term, protect your heart, have fun, the fakers tend not to last the course... x

I get it. Thanks for the genuine response.
I just don’t like the PM’s from people wanting and acting like they want friendship or to actually get to know you and then get all pissy and pushy about sexting. Oh well.

 

[Nightfall72]

Seconded.

I am too damn honest...could get me i big time trouble!

Ditto here.

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

When messaging someone on here, are you always honest about what you’re looking for? I mean, some say chat and friendship and then it’s all about sex constantly. Just a question.

Well, it is a sex site...

I've made many friends on here, both male and female, and chat with many of them daily. I'll have sexy chat with them but hubby and I deal that neither of us cyber anywhere. Once the conversations go from 'hi how are ya' to 'wanna f***' I tell them that and some disappear, some don't.

Most ask and want details of our lifestyle. We both have been as open as possible on here about it and I don't mind the questions. I've worked with many men and women who are interested in the details of how to move their relationship to this point.

So, take each as it comes. I'm sure you get more than I do due to our av's (nice ass btw!) and some assume we're hot to trot no matter the time of day.

I tell some of them that persist that I cyber once every 85000 PM's. I did once the first day or two and none since.

 

[Slitlicker4u400]

Hi, I've only been on lite. a few weeks and posted a few times, I had one week long rp with a lady and enjoyed it very much but she wanted to take a break from it and that was fine. When she first contacted me I let her tell me what she wanted and it was great. Had a few other ladies contact me but some were like pulling teeth to get a lame one word response, not worth the trouble, im here for chat about life and getting to know one another and lead to rp or whatever the lady might be looking for, but it does make me wonder why someone starts a conversation then ghosts out, at least tell the other party you aren't interested. Thanks for listening kik vrf214

 

[midlifecrisispanties]

I try to be genuine always, though anonymity is a direct rule for me. I don't lead anyone on. If it is just a jerk session you want, at least do mr the same courtesy.

 

[takenmytime]

Hi sweety. Its so nice to meet you, I think we can be great friends. We can talk about anything you want and I will listen to you and help you through your tough time. Please send me your naked pictures, where you work and live, some money so I can come see you. Just so you know I have a 15" penis the thickness of a redbull can, can perform 20 times per day, and I won't come in your mouth, invade your anal space, or take and spread pictures and lies about you. I will be 100% loyal only to you - you can ask my wife and other buddies about that. Now give me a little sugar! Lol

 

[Sundogwma]

Why can't we have both?

 

[gldflcn]

Honestly

I don’t understand why anyone would lie or be deceptive on here? What’s to gain? If the stars fully align and you meet whomever you have been chatting with the gig would be up pretty quickly. If the person becomes squirrelly and dodges questions those are some pretty big red flags, or at least to me they are.
Someone posted something similar to something I was told a VERY long time ago, you don’t have to remember the truth. If you are being dishonest about anything at some point it will come out, just easier to just be open and upfront with your interactions. You may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but you will be someone’s cup of tea.
Just my thoughts.

 

[WillJ8787]

Yep

I completely agree. I’m saying, if someone says they want to build a friendship or trust first, don’t agree to it if you aren’t going to follow through.

I agree with this...do what you say you were gonna do.

 

[30bandits]

Perhaps I put down floors for a living. I guess you don’t know.

yeah....true...who would think otherwise on a porn site?....

 

[MrDevereaux]

I would rather someone be upfront about what they want; if it’s a RP, one time deal ... say so. I try to keep a conversation going and be friendly about it.

 

[Dribble]

Honesty is like an onion...filled with layers. I can be totally 100% honest today, and tomorrow look back and say wtf was I thinking? Both times I was truthful. Unfortunately, this is not always true for other people. I simply assume people are lying, and I never am disappointed...only surprised. Choices.

 

[mellowyellows]

I am.....what you see is what you get.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I’m honest to a fault but then I’m not looking for relationships online or otherwise and I mostly use lit as a form of odd therapy.

Picking the genuine folk apart from the fakers is a dark art and one I’ve not mastered. I’ve been hurt by lit friends who aren’t what they claim, or by people I’ve offered support to who have lied about being widowed, etc.

And if I can be hurt when I am not looking to lit for a happy ending, I dread to think how those daring to dream of actual futures with connections here feel...

Best to remember, it’s the internet - until proven otherwise, assume everyone is full of shit. If you are looking for light hearted play, it doesn’t really matter I guess... if you are looking longer term, protect your heart, have fun, the fakers tend not to last the course... x

You said it better than I could have.

 

[MidnightRyder007]

I like the rush of what it? Like what if this time is the real thing/ Seek and you shall find,Ive been seeking and still find the emotionally damaged.

 

[Sam3501]

Messages

I have only contacted a few people on this site.
But when I do I am honest with them. I am only looking for chatting. I let the conversation go where they may. I never start a conversation about sex or rp. I let them lead the chat. If it goes to sex I'm fine with that. If it doesn't I'm good with that also. I just like talking with people.

 

[Bpar721971]

I agree.

When I do message with someone on here I’m always honest. However it takes time to build trust with other party in order to open up more and more. Also there are a lot of ghost on here. That person I messaged on here we began chatting regularly. That woman is amazing and classy. We longer communicate as we decided to break contact to concentrate on our families.

 

[2tallpaul]

The odd therapy comment hits home. I've PM'd just to make a compliment. Here, I can say something nice and it doesn't go any further.