Faking orgasms?

[intofdom]

I heard 70-80% women fake orgasms and it is really tough for a woman to have an orgasm by insertion alone. If they want to fake it, why do it in the first place?

 

[beingtrue2me]

I heard 70-80% women fake orgasms and it is really tough for a woman to have an orgasm by insertion alone. If they want to fake it, why do it in the first place?

Ummm we don't fake it for us.

 

[MatthewVett]

One study I read suggested that women fake orgasm to retain a mate. But I would suggest that a primary cause is to boost a guy's ego, or to simply stop what's become a useless act.

 

[LallyH]

I faked orgasms when I realised I was with a guy who didn't know what he was doing and it brought an unsatisfactory experience to a quick conclusion with a safe exit for me.

 

[Sundayschild]

I faked orgasms when I realised I was with a guy who didn't know what he was doing and it brought an unsatisfactory experience to a quick conclusion with a safe exit for me.

Thats pretty much it isn't it?

 

[Ellafun]

I heard 70-80% women fake orgasms and it is really tough for a woman to have an orgasm by insertion alone. If they want to fake it, why do it in the first place?

Why do it in the first place? What, you mean why have penetrative intercourse?

Because it feels good, and practice makes perfect, and yeah, if I have to fake a conclusion to get get him off, and keep him happy, and stroke his ego, I will. I do. I have. That doesn't mean the sex doesn't turn me on and spark my endorphins, and he is perfectly capable of making me climax in other ways.

I will tell you, though, that I have never, ever faked it with anyone online or on the phone.

 

[LallyH]

Thats pretty much it isn't it?

Yep! We have to take good care of your self esteem!

 

[Sundayschild]

Yep! We have to take good care of your self esteem!

Thank god...

 

[BongoGal]

I wonder how many guys have faked it. I know that under most circumstances it is impossible because of the visible evidence, but with condoms and the like, it could be stealthily done.

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

I wonder how many guys have faked it. I know that under most circumstances it is impossible because of the visible evidence, but with condoms and the like, it could be stealthily done.

I've faked dinner, but never an orgasm.

 

[pink_ivory]

I find very few men intuitive (or attentive enough) to be able to tell if I've faked it.

What's hilarious (and just sad) is that it seems the ones I've faked it with are the ones that claim to have the most experience pleasing a woman. Ironic.

 

[Sundayschild]

I wonder how many guys have faked it. I know that under most circumstances it is impossible because of the visible evidence, but with condoms and the like, it could be stealthily done.

Years ago during poorly chosen phone sex. As above - got me out of something I wasn't into without hurting feelings.

 

[MatthewVett]

I've faked it during phone sex, too, just because I wasn't feeling it and didn't feel like making a mess...

 

[crazy4cock]

I haven't faked an orgasm for years but used to do it frequently.
I blame myself for this mostly if I was brave enough I would have asked for what I needed at that moment. An understanding lover I'm sure would have provided me with I needed at the time but I didn't feel strong enough to ask.
Today is quite different...that never enters my mind to do such a thing to either of us.

 

[Julietravels]

Fake

What I can't understand is how to fake it enough to really fool a man. I can breath heavy, I can clench my vagina, but I can't fake the whole thing. I have never tried.

And, sex without a climax can still feel very good.

 

[jahroid]

last few years of marriage....

I wonder how many guys have faked it. I know that under most circumstances it is impossible because of the visible evidence, but with condoms and the like, it could be stealthily done.

...id fake it every once in awhile. id last forever and get so exhausted that id give those last huge thrusts and just die of exhaustion lol Felt bad afterwards but i was so afraid of hurting her feelings. I was just over it.

 

[VladHarkonnen]

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[VladHarkonnen]

I faked orgasms when I realised I was with a guy who didn't know what he was doing and it brought an unsatisfactory experience to a quick conclusion with a safe exit for me.

I've done the same thing...

A while back I met up with someone I attempted to play around with once in high school. I didn't really think much of her then but y'know how teen boys are. Anyway, it didn't go well and it turned out being aborted. I still, sort of...in a very distant and very intermittent way remained friends with her. A few years later we hooked up more successfully. Then, about 10 years after that she contacted me and we hooked up again. I met her in a hotel room, walked in and well...let's just say that she had morphed into something that I had absolutely no interest in having relations with. We did anyway...I felt bad. She went out of her way to make it happen and to make me happy. Anyway, I faked it. I used a condom so it was easy to do.

Ive also faked it a few other times for the same reason that jahroid did...there are times that a guy just knows it isn't going to happen, no matter what...drunk maybe, too high, sometimes you're about to cum and something happens that ruins it and you can't get to that point again for some mysterious reason. It's still fun, of course, but you know you just aren't going to squeeze off a round.

 

[Jackotheshadows]

LOL I understand why, but I'd rather have a partner who wasn't feeling it tell me so, and why. Maybe it's a bad day, no chemistry, or I'm just not doing the right things.

So grab me by the ears and steer me!

 

[VladHarkonnen]

LOL I understand why, but I'd rather have a partner who wasn't feeling it tell me so, and why. Maybe it's a bad day, no chemistry, or I'm just not doing the right things.

So grab me by the ears and steer me!

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I understand why a lot of women are uncomfortable telling a guy what she wants though. Some guys get offended, dejected, and/or paranoid. Yeah...its silly but we come from a culture that expects men to know how to please any woman (as if they all have the same combination) and that same society teaches women to be reluctant to say what they really want.

 

[Ex Princess]

I heard 70-80% women fake orgasms and it is really tough for a woman to have an orgasm by insertion alone. If they want to fake it, why do it in the first place?

I have had orgasms from penetrative sex many times before, but no two women are alike. It's not impossible and even when I don't orgasm, it still feels damn good.

I have faked orgasms before though, always to help my partner finish, sometimes the audible "good job" noises are all that is needed to push someone over the edge.

 

[Earofverdi]

I have had orgasms from penetrative sex many times before, but no two women are alike. It's not impossible and even when I don't orgasm, it still feels damn good.

I have faked orgasms before though, always to help my partner finish, sometimes the audible "good job" noises are all that is needed to push someone over the edge.

To be honest I think this is perfectly reasonable. I don't think that every time you have sex both of you are going to pop your corks. Sometimes it is just about helping the other get off.

Personally, as a man, I've faked it, maybe, a handful of times, and every time has been because of too much drink. Either, we end this now before I vomit, or we will be at this all night before we get to the money shot. Sometimes a tactical exit is best for everyone.