Fairy Tales and Writing, Reading, Living

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Sometime ago Gauche had a thread re. fairy tales. This is a bit different as the writer puts forth other ideas of how this literature affects child readers, and others, and those readers who become writers. It's a fascinating article, to me as a writer, and I hope for others here. I urge any "serious" authors to read it. - Perdita

Sharpening an imagination with the hard flint of a fairy tale by Alice Hoffman

The intensity of fairy tales -- the sheer brutality in stories of wishes fulfilled and wishes discarded -- is so powerful that some experts believe that children under the age of eight should not be allowed to read them. Such stories, these experts say, particularly the Grimms' tales, incite daydreams, create a penchant for fantasy and an eye for the cruel and the barbarous; they spark an understanding of the nature of the world we live in that is best left for adulthood.

Perhaps this is true. But perhaps this is also a good thing. Indeed, a fabulous thing. Fairy tales inflame the imagination in ways that other, more controlled and blander stories do not. The world itself becomes a different place to a reader of fairy tales; even the youngest child is able to place a story in his or her own reality. It is not so far a stretch from castle to kitchen, after all, and children are not fools. Child-readers, no matter their age, understand the underlying truth in the metaphors. They respond to cautionary tales and understand that there is a "way" to live in the world; that the path may be dangerous and difficult, but it may lead to a worthy end: a full and realized life. Child-readers see not just the magic in the stories, but the magical and mythic that exist in their own daily lives.

I read fairy tales early on. They terrified, delighted, disgusted and amazed me. They were far more grown-up than any other children's books I read, scarily so at times. Like most children, I could feel the disturbing aspects of the stories even if I couldn't intellectually understand or articulate their underlying meanings. Still, I knew. I shivered. I thrilled to them. I learned. Everything in them rang true: the unspoken sexuality (a woman loves a beast, a girl is nearly eaten by a wolf, a frog wishes to be the husband of a princess), the violence (bad mothers, absent fathers, foul murders), the greed (the house of candy, the cage of gold). I didn't realize it, of course, but the tales were allowing me to examine fear, anxiety, desire, sorrow. It was a dangerous world, but truer to reality than anything else we were allowed -- those safe books with their happy endings. How could the trivial nature of the here and the now compare with journeys in which heads or hands were suddenly chopped off, bones were tied in silk and buried under trees, foolish brothers became swans, and a traveler might suddenly be beset by cruel spells, horses' heads that could speak and other twists of fate and circumstance?

Why such tales should feel more real to me and to most child readers than "realistic" fare is both a simple and complex phenomenon. Fairy tales tell two stories: a spoken one and an unspoken one. There is another layer beneath the words; a riddle about the soul and its place in the greater canvas of humanity. Surely every child who reads Hansel and Gretel feels that he or she, too, is on a perilous path, one that disappears and meanders, but one that must be navigated, like it or not. That path is childhood: a journey in which temptations will arise, greed will surface, and parents may be so self-involved that they forget you entirely.

It has long been my belief that writers of fiction fall into two categories: those who write to explain their lives, and those who write to escape them. Both, I suppose are looking for some "truth" about their experiences, but the former are shackled by their worlds; the latter are free to imagine new ones.

Do people choose the art that inspires them -- do they think it over, decide they might prefer the fabulous to the real? For me, it was those early readings of fairy tales that made me who I was as a reader and, later on, as a storyteller. For me, there was no examined life without an imagined life. Just as a person is more exposed by his dreams than by his casual conversation, the imagination reveals more about one's soul than the concrete. My impulse as a beginning writer was not to write about my own life but to create another life entirely. I wasn't able to recall how I moved from "reader" to "writer" (How did it come about? Why did it happen?) until the day some years ago when I was cleaning out my mother's house because she'd become too ill to live at home. I found a loose-leaf folder in which I had busied myself during grade-school classes by inventing various new identities for myself. Everything about the characters was written down, much like that tried-and-true exercise for writers who wish to create "real" characters: Write everything down; know the people inside out -- their favorite songs and colors, what they like to eat for lunch, whom they love, where they've traveled, what they yearn for in the future, what they fear most. Know who they are.

It seems right that I began my career by creating a series of false identities. Did I have an unhappy childhood? It goes without saying. Did I long to escape it? Absolutely. I did so not by walking out the door, but by reading. The world of the imagination had the greatest emotional value for me as a reader and writer. What I knew, what I experienced came through those black marks on white paper, and that imagined life seemed much more real to me than the one I had actually led. Eventually, the two bled together; my reading life and my real life became one. I found subtexts not only in the stories I read, but in the lives being lived around me. A description of the here-and-now would not do. Not if there was a soon-will-be and a once-upon-a-time.

Fairy tales, it is believed, began as stories told by women. They were "kitchen tales," remembered and repeated by grandmothers through the generations, later retold and written down by men such as the Grimm brothers, but still called "Household Tales." How marvelous that such fabulous stories had such a down-to-earth name, for that is what they are: Tales meant to reveal the subtext of our households and explain us to ourselves, mothers and fathers, sisters and brothers, beloved and lover. Real life indeed, although they stray as far from realism as possible.

Sadly, in recent years, realism has come to be considered "better," more "serious," more "literary." How this should come to pass only the realists know for sure; the rest of us can only imagine. Even a realist, after all, is choosing what elements go into fiction, imagining, if you will, what "sort" of realism to present. Fantasists tend to be put into genres: This one writes science fiction. That one writes gothic fiction. Until, by some fluke, a writer becomes successful; or, perhaps late in life, an established author will decide to take a risk and turn his back on "the real."

My initial exposure to storytelling, even before I read fairy tales, came from the stories told to me by the most down-to-earth woman I knew -- my grandmother. The two of us might have been in the market or on the subway, we might have been walking down Jerome Avenue or drinking tea with cubes of sugar in her overheated apartment, but we were also in Russia. We were dropped into her childhood, stuck in a snowstorm, running for our lives. When I heard about the wolves that howled all night, about the rivers where the ice was so thick it didn't melt until May, about men who worked so hard they sometimes slept for a month in the winter, like bears, I was hearing the deeper truth of my grandmother's life, the complex universe that she carried with her, a very personal once-upon-a-time. This was the beginning of my life in the world of storytelling. And, perhaps, it was not unlike the very start of storytelling itself.

Washington Post, April 4, 2004 article link
 
Very cool article, Perdita, thanks for sharing.

I read the classic fairytales voraciously as a young child, over and over again. I remember getting the "buzz" when good prevailed over evil - such as when Hansel pushed the witch into the oven, and the actual meanings of the stories were never lost on me. The Princess and the Pea is always one that stuck firmly in my mind. All of the glamour and jewels in the world did nothing for the real beauty of the soul, and genuine feeling.

I often wonder if my early reading of the darker, more horrific and evil fairytales explains my love of horror and the dark side of writing now. Or whether it is my way of escaping past events and, at times, my life now. I know for sure I write as a means of escapism, not to explain my life.

I have absolutely no qualms about letting my daughters read fairytales, they have done so from a very young age. I remember them listening avidly as I read them Little Red Riding Hood and The Three Billy Goats Gruff, and others like those, from the age of one or two, and them reciting the key lines of them with me... "All the better to eat you with, my dear." Some people might be shocked, even horrified by this, but what better way, from a very young age, to teach children the perils of talking to strangers?

It's done them no harm whatsoever. They are happy, confident, outgoing kids, who both have extraordinary imaginations. They love telling, and writing, stories even now.

Thanks, again,

Lou
 
Loulou, I'm glad for your thoughts. I too read, and later let my sons read, all those great stories. I too read all of Grimms and others when I was very young, and I only recall such comfort and delight from them. Red Riding Hood was a favorite cos of the tie to grandma and even at a young age I knew there were big bad woves in the world. I loved Snow White cos she wasn't blond, haha.

I thought of you when I read Hoffman's remarks about sci-fi and gothic; she seemed to give them an acknowledgement that's gone by the wayside by those who prefer general fiction or literature.

best, Perdita
 
Great article Perdita. Thanks for posting it.

I think the greatest disservice someone can inflict on a child is to stifle their imagination. I believe that a healthy imagination is a sign of a healthy intellect.
 
perdita said:
Loulou, I'm glad for your thoughts. I too read, and later let my sons read, all those great stories. I too read all of Grimms and others when I was very young, and I only recall such comfort and delight from them. Red Riding Hood was a favorite cos of the tie to grandma and even at a young age I knew there were big bad woves in the world. I loved Snow White cos she wasn't blond, haha.

I thought of you when I read Hoffman's remarks about sci-fi and gothic; she seemed to give them an acknowledgement that's gone by the wayside by those who prefer general fiction or literature.

best, Perdita

Funny you should say that! I loved Snow White for exactly the same reason. ;)

Another favourite of mine was Jack and the Beanstalk. He tried his best to please his Mother, but was chatsised for being a dreamer; a little boy with a huge imagination. And, his gut instinct was right; he prevailed and, in the end, made his Mum very happy, at no small risk to himself. To me, it's that whole thing about wanting to please our parents and get positive affirmation from them. That's how I always read it, anyway.

I loved how Hoffman acknowledged Gothic and Sci-Fi and other genres like those. For me, some of the most fabulous story-telling comes from within those genres. And, she is so right, it is not until such authors have become incredibly successful, that they begin to be taken "seriously".

Lou :rose:
 
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