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ok, what is they hype all about? My BF has been being me to cum in my face and I just do not get it.
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The_high_king
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the facial is a fetish thing. Its okay if you don't understand, afterall, everyone has a fetish, and they don't others to understand. however, I happen to know that some men like seeing their cum all over their gilrfriends faces. its perfectly normal.
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I think the facial thing is a few things...........One .....an animial type thing.....sorta marking your spot so to speak......and the second part is all about acpectance.......Like she takes me all and everywhere.......Nothing she won't do for me......I think that goes for swallowing also.......All about the jester.............
I think men have a few things that are nothing more than being taken care of.............
I think men have a few things that are nothing more than being taken care of.............
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I can not do the facial thing. Of course, I have an aversion to cum at all. I hate it on me at all, I refuse to swallow it, and I have to clean up immediatly after sex. I just can't stand the feeling of it.
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The Flagmented History of Facials...
Note: This is the authors' opinion from being raised with HUSTLER & Club Magazines as a basis of sexual instruction. Thus with that being said...
Facials, are not the true influence of porno flicks (erotic movies, whatever euphamism you wish) for straight men anyway. Cum shots began in Gay movies being played in the seedy theaters in Times Ssquare, mostly for the leather trade. By the mid-60's & early '70's, this was a way for men/audience members to understand the idea of climax, especially in livesex shows also playing in the same building.
Since then Facials have been a part of control, as previously mentioned, and as a gesture of affection ("Why not swallow if you're going to suck?") for a person who enjoys oral sex, giving & receiving. Now the draw-back is that most men (privately) gripe about the smell/scent/taste of pussy for some odd reason, thus keeping them from indulging in this more often. If a person has no true reciprocation, why bother doing something for someone else?
Women need oral sex as much as men!
I think the idea of a tested limit is the best one to follow. Most men want to unleash themselves, and by cumming in their lovers' mouth, they have given themselves a place to call their own. But I don't subscribe to the "territorial marking" aspect, since brutality is usually a method in establishing ownership (look at the domestic violence #'s & you'll see what I say). Again, I refer to affection...
And maybe that's why it's called the Ultimate Kiss...what a finish! *ha, ha!*
Julian
p.s. "I am not creating a correlation to sex & violence in any way; I am just stating with the # of abuses each year, this is the narrow-minded, idiotic mentality of a abuser. personally I believe anyone who believes his partner is there for brutality needs their head examined...or ass kicked!
Note: This is the authors' opinion from being raised with HUSTLER & Club Magazines as a basis of sexual instruction. Thus with that being said...
Facials, are not the true influence of porno flicks (erotic movies, whatever euphamism you wish) for straight men anyway. Cum shots began in Gay movies being played in the seedy theaters in Times Ssquare, mostly for the leather trade. By the mid-60's & early '70's, this was a way for men/audience members to understand the idea of climax, especially in livesex shows also playing in the same building.
Since then Facials have been a part of control, as previously mentioned, and as a gesture of affection ("Why not swallow if you're going to suck?") for a person who enjoys oral sex, giving & receiving. Now the draw-back is that most men (privately) gripe about the smell/scent/taste of pussy for some odd reason, thus keeping them from indulging in this more often. If a person has no true reciprocation, why bother doing something for someone else?
Women need oral sex as much as men!
I think the idea of a tested limit is the best one to follow. Most men want to unleash themselves, and by cumming in their lovers' mouth, they have given themselves a place to call their own. But I don't subscribe to the "territorial marking" aspect, since brutality is usually a method in establishing ownership (look at the domestic violence #'s & you'll see what I say). Again, I refer to affection...
And maybe that's why it's called the Ultimate Kiss...what a finish! *ha, ha!*
Julian
p.s. "I am not creating a correlation to sex & violence in any way; I am just stating with the # of abuses each year, this is the narrow-minded, idiotic mentality of a abuser. personally I believe anyone who believes his partner is there for brutality needs their head examined...or ass kicked!
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I am a guy I feel it is total disrespect to cum in or on a woman's face. I won't do it unless she asks and even then I really don't feel right about doing it.
There are certainly ways to cum on a woman's face that are not disrespectful and degrading.
Sure, if a man stands there and jacks off, yelling obscenities at her, you have a point. But there are scenarios where she is in complete control and can determine where things end up. I hardly see that as disrepectful.
For me, if a woman ends up with some or all of my cum on her face, it is the analog to when I have just gone down on her. My face is certainly as wet as hers would be and I don't feel disrespected.
Hmmm. Maybe on second thought, I'm just being used and a sexual plaything. Maybe I'm being objectified! Maybe she won't respect me in the morning!
That's it! I'm not performing any more oral sex!
Self-esteem Challenged Mr. Neb
Sure, if a man stands there and jacks off, yelling obscenities at her, you have a point. But there are scenarios where she is in complete control and can determine where things end up. I hardly see that as disrepectful.
For me, if a woman ends up with some or all of my cum on her face, it is the analog to when I have just gone down on her. My face is certainly as wet as hers would be and I don't feel disrespected.
Hmmm. Maybe on second thought, I'm just being used and a sexual plaything. Maybe I'm being objectified! Maybe she won't respect me in the morning!
That's it! I'm not performing any more oral sex!
Self-esteem Challenged Mr. Neb
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The_high_king said:
By definition, if it's a fetish it's not normal?
I also thought that a fetish was a fixation on things/objects (like shoes which I can completely understand, BTW
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Re: Re: facials
n.
An object that is believed to have magical or spiritual powers, especially such an object associated with animistic or shamanistic religious practices.
An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence: made a fetish of punctuality.
Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.
I think it can be an act of something besides a fetish for something tangible. For example, I think it's possible to have an anal fetish...
And I think that anything that you're into is normal for you- as long as it doesnt harm someone else...
fet·ish also fet·ich (ftsh, ftsh)Nessus said:
By definition, if it's a fetish it's not normal?
I also thought that a fetish was a fixation on things/objects (like shoes which I can completely understand, BTW
n.
An object that is believed to have magical or spiritual powers, especially such an object associated with animistic or shamanistic religious practices.
An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence: made a fetish of punctuality.
Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.
I think it can be an act of something besides a fetish for something tangible. For example, I think it's possible to have an anal fetish...
And I think that anything that you're into is normal for you- as long as it doesnt harm someone else...
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Agree
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I don't mind blowjobs as some of you know from another thread that is ongoing. I don't mind swallowing but I do not want it all over my face. I guess the marking your terrritory thing makes sense but.. Ewwww. and that's all I have to say.
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Hmmmm....
It may arouse some.... but not me......
I have no need to blow it across my lover's face. Better to feel her slowly sucking it out of my cock, licking, swallowing........ just as I do for her again and again.........
Gilly; you do not like a man's cum at all.......... Sorry to hear. I guess therefore you do not let your lover pleasure orally........
It may arouse some.... but not me......
I have no need to blow it across my lover's face. Better to feel her slowly sucking it out of my cock, licking, swallowing........ just as I do for her again and again.........
Gilly; you do not like a man's cum at all.......... Sorry to hear. I guess therefore you do not let your lover pleasure orally........
Perhaps it's the arousing look of your women covered in cum. I mean some guys just like the look and I guess some women will like the feeling of being covered in warm cum. Marking your territory sounds stupid to me, that's unfair to the woman but if both people find it sexually pleasurable what's wrong with that?
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As a general rule I think that most men are into voyeurism, most women are not. We like porn video etc. most women, in my humble opinion, do not, altho many will watch to please their partners. This is why many men like facials, or better cum being licked.
Fortunately, many women go against the general trend..HURRAH.
Fortunately, many women go against the general trend..HURRAH.
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I think more specificly more men are visually stimulated than women. Although I was suprised by the number of men who frequent this site. My SO is more likely to pull up a photo porn site than to read a story here.
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first of all, sexual pleasure is what we all seek in love making so we all must give in to each other. What I mean is, is just this!
Lady friend undresses in front of me anywhere and I do the same in a time of need. I enjoy it when she slides her wet snatch on my tongue.
first of all, sexual pleasure is what we all seek in love making so we all must give in to each other. What I mean is, is just this!
Lady friend undresses in front of me anywhere and I do the same in a time of need. I enjoy it when she slides her wet snatch on my tongue.
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Sexyoldman said:
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I was responding to this post. I don't think I said anything about pornos at all.
I have recently been watching them with my hubby although most are too cheesy to really be very stimulating. I have found some that are pretty good. Just to clarify.
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Cheezy
I have seen some "porno" movies and some how I don't think the ones I saw were geared towards women.
I think I got more of a laugh then anything ... can not help but laugh every time I hear that cheezy 70's music in the background regardless of which porno movies you watch ...
They say there are " porno" movies for women ... but have yet to come upon a decent movie.
I have seen some "porno" movies and some how I don't think the ones I saw were geared towards women.
I think I got more of a laugh then anything ... can not help but laugh every time I hear that cheezy 70's music in the background regardless of which porno movies you watch ...
They say there are " porno" movies for women ... but have yet to come upon a decent movie.
