Facials

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

Just curious as to what the current opinion on facials is. Do you enjoy giving /receiving them or find the idea icky?
I, personally, enjoy the sensation a lot, but I have seemed to notice that my current BF has a hard time delivering. He doesn't like for me to look at him during the process and I think this is terrible considering the eye contact and his expression as he cums is the most erotic thing about it.
Sometimes he can't climax at all despite how much I tell him it turns me on, or how much I moan or touch myself.
It has me wondering how I can make him more turned on or comfortable. He says he loves being able to cum in my mouth and on my face, but based on his actions, I am starting to doubt it.

 

[stageleft]

facial delight

Hi.xx.what a wonderful thread to respond to.my current girlfriend simply adores facials(its something i never payed much heed to previously)she says she enjoys it so much as it seems such a naughty & raunchy thing to do.she also claims that a mans semen is the best natural remedy for a girls complexion.she loves how soft & silky her face feels afterwards..on eye contact i first of all loved watching the expression on my girlfriends face as i ejaculated strongly in her mouth,..then one day my girlfriend settled her head back as i sat astride her chest & asked if i would like to come on her face for a change..the idea of it suddenly became very appealing..it was wonderful as she tucked her long hair back behind her ears smiling up at me as she urged me to come all over her upturned face..it was the most exhilerating feeling on earth & i came my heart out like never before.she blinked & flinched as i came powerfully on her face from close range..it was also the most obscene & horny sight ive ever seen in my life as her small dainty face became smothered in thick,messy semen..its now something we both enjoy immensly & im pleased youve brought this wonderful thread up..my very best regards to you.xx.tk care.xxxx.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

this is an absolute no-no. The only time he's allowed to cum on me is if we're in the shower together. For some reason, the feel of his manjuice on my skin just grosses me out to no end. I think it's got something to do with the texture, but I have no idea what it is.

 

[TBKahuna123]

porn meets passion

OK this is a huge topic for debate, I think, and it so happens I was intellectualizing htis the other day. (yeah yeah, my wife says I do that too much too.)

First off I love the image of a woman recieving a facial, I won't deny it, but I could never figure out why. I was out surfing the net the other day and I noticed that there were two different types of facials. The first is pretty degrading, the woman's head cracked back, her eyes closed and the look on her face like she'd rather be doing her taxes than waiting for a blast of goo into her face. I find this very degrading, as if forced into the act, and I am an totally not into degredation of women.

The second type of scene different. The woman who looks up into the man's eyes, mouth open, smiling as she recieves his seed. It is an amazing image, seeing someone enjoy the experience, accepting the "gift", almost worshipping it. There is nothign degrading about it, because it's not being forced into something.

I will say this though, while I like the visual of it, the experience of actually doing it doesn't really do anything for me. I guess it's along the same lines as cumming in a woman's mouth. I could care less if she swallows or not, but the sensation of cumming in her mouth gives a feeling of completion. Still, in a moment of hot, passionate, jungle sex...

Just need to make sure the camera is near by.

 

[dcdude]

Disrespect or trust

Thanks for a good thread. I think facials can be seen as a degrading experience...total domination and disregard for a woman or a totally trusting animal/lusty experience.

I for one enjoy looking at pics of facials but often feel bad for the girls..especially if it looks coerced or fake...

As for giving them, my wife doesn't really enjoy giving oral but recently I was masturbating and came on her face...she was suprised but she kind of liked it...I didn't say i was going to but my cock was getting closer and closer to her face...I was starting to almost stand up next to her...and I was getting closer and closer and she didn't say anything...and I took off her glasses and she didn't stop me...I asked if it was ok...and she agreed...and then wham...

Pretty fun especially because my wife is pretty vanilla and hard to get her to try new things...

Just my thoughts...

 

[SweetErika]

OK this is a huge topic for debate, I think, and it so happens I was intellectualizing htis the other day. (yeah yeah, my wife says I do that too much too.)

First off I love the image of a woman recieving a facial, I won't deny it, but I could never figure out why. I was out surfing the net the other day and I noticed that there were two different types of facials. The first is pretty degrading, the woman's head cracked back, her eyes closed and the look on her face like she'd rather be doing her taxes than waiting for a blast of goo into her face. I find this very degrading, as if forced into the act, and I am an totally not into degredation of women.

The second type of scene different. The woman who looks up into the man's eyes, mouth open, smiling as she recieves his seed. It is an amazing image, seeing someone enjoy the experience, accepting the "gift", almost worshipping it. There is nothign degrading about it, because it's not being forced into something.

I will say this though, while I like the visual of it, the experience of actually doing it doesn't really do anything for me. I guess it's along the same lines as cumming in a woman's mouth. I could care less if she swallows or not, but the sensation of cumming in her mouth gives a feeling of completion. Still, in a moment of hot, passionate, jungle sex...

Just need to make sure the camera is near by.

Excellent points, but I think even if the receiver likes and asks for it, it can still be viewed as degrading because: (a) our society views it as such and taboo; (b) we generally see it as something for the man's pleasure only; and (c) a lot of people attach some sort of domination/submission meaning to it, so the receiver may want it for reasons that we associate with degradation.

I think facials are great if both people enjoy them, but they're not for me or my husband.

Wickid- He probably does love it because it gives you so much pleasure, but has some deep feelings against it. Have you tried it during roleplay? Maybe he'd have an easier time doing it as someone else to someone else. Also, is it possible he feels pressured and is having trouble as a result?

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

Wickid- He probably does love it because it gives you so much pleasure, but has some deep feelings against it. Have you tried it during roleplay? Maybe he'd have an easier time doing it as someone else to someone else. Also, is it possible he feels pressured and is having trouble as a result?

I think that he does have some subconcious issues with it, but I love that he is willing to experiment and please me. I think a lot of his previous partners were so vanilla that he isn't quite sure what to make of me yet!

I for one enjoy looking at pics of facials but often feel bad for the girls..especially if it looks coerced or fake...

Yes, I totally agree. I don't like to see pictures of anyone who looks like they are in agony.

Just need to make sure the camera is near by.

True, true.

 

[bisexplicit]

Personally, I have no interest in this what so ever, but neither does my boyfriend, so it works out well for us.

 

[AppleBiter]

(c) a lot of people attach some sort of domination/submission meaning to it, so the receiver may want it for reasons that we associate with degradation.

Thanks for pointing this out. Degradation isn't always a bad thing, you know.

P.S. Facials rock out loud!

 

[DelicateFlower]

this is an absolute no-no. The only time he's allowed to cum on me is if we're in the shower together. For some reason, the feel of his manjuice on my skin just grosses me out to no end. I think it's got something to do with the texture, but I have no idea what it is.

I feel the same way...

We tried it a couple of times and once it got on my eyes. I apparently didn't wash it all off and it dried my eyelids together as I was sleeping. That was fun the next morning

 

[acilenga]

Thanks for pointing this out. Degradation isn't always a bad thing, you know.

P.S. Facials rock out loud!

<applause>

Couldn't have said it better myself...

 

[BlueSugar]

fun for all.


untill ya get a shot in the eye or up the nose. lol.

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

fun for all.


untill ya get a shot in the eye or up the nose. lol.

Amen.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Excellent points, but I think even if the receiver likes and asks for it, it can still be viewed as degrading because: (a) our society views it as such and taboo; (b) we generally see it as something for the man's pleasure only; and (c) a lot of people attach some sort of domination/submission meaning to it, so the receiver may want it for reasons that we associate with degradation.

I agree on all counts, and I think that degredation is not only in the eye of the beholder, but int he eye of the giver and reciever. A.) Our society can say what they want, but the only opinions that really matter are the two (or more) participants. B.) I agree, that is how it is seen, but many woman do in fact like it, for a myriad of reasons. As for the man's pleasure, like i said it's a good visual, but it doesn't feel as good as coming inside anywhere. At least, not for me. C.) I just reread what you were saying and you hit what I was going to say. Just because I find it degrading doesn't mean you do, or vice versus. Or maybe they do, but that is what they are looking for, but if they desire it and recieve pleasure, is it still degrading? They always say the submissive has the real power.

I think facials are great if both people enjoy them, but they're not for me or my husband.

As much as I say it's a good visual, I have to agree. Kinda. I don't know. My wife and I have only done it a couple times but it hasn't really done it for me as much as the first time, which was a shock factor. She just quit sucking just as I was about to cum and started stroking till I exploded in her face, smiling the whole time. That was hot, but more so because it was so out of character for her, than the fact that I came on her face.

Wickid- He probably does love it because it gives you so much pleasure, but has some deep feelings against it. Have you tried it during roleplay? Maybe he'd have an easier time doing it as someone else to someone else. Also, is it possible he feels pressured and is having trouble as a result?

It very well could be that he doesn't like the feeling that he is degrading you, whether you find it degrading or not. I know that's one of the reasons I don't initiate this with my wife, because if something I am doing has even the hint that she might find it degrading, I can't do it. I love her too much. Too much chivalry, I guess.

 

[TBKahuna123]

fun for all.


untill ya get a shot in the eye or up the nose. lol.

Up the nose? Yeah that would suck. I got a nose full of pussy juice once. It was a wierd experience.

 

[Eilan]

As far as I'm concerned, my husband can cum where he wants, but as has already been mentioned, it's a matter of trust/respect. It probably doesn't make sense, though, to say that there needs to be mutual respect to do something that lots of people see as disrespectful, but that's kinda how we see it.

However, if I were in a situation in which it might be an issue, I WOULD NOT allow anyone else to do this.

 

[PinkSteel]

It's her call

My wife doesn't like it, but when she let's hit get on her every now and then I get a kick out of it.

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

As far as I'm concerned, my husband can cum where he wants, but as has already been mentioned, it's a matter of trust/respect. It probably doesn't make sense, though, to say that there needs to be mutual respect to do something that lots of people see as disrespectful, but that's kinda how we see it.

However, if I were in a situation in which it might be an issue, I WOULD NOT allow anyone else to do this.

I only view it as disrespectful if someone is an unwilling participant.

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Your point is?

My wife doesn't like it, but when she let's hit get on her every now and then I get a kick out of it.

Just curious, do you get a kick out of it becasue it is something that you know she is opposed to? Domination kick, perhaps?

 

[Randi1]

Luv it

Funny thing, my wife and i just started doing Face shots a few weeks ago. She had problems gaging and wanted to try a face shot. I was shocked and had to grab my camera to make a quick movie. i thought if this was to be a one time thing I would be able to watch it over and over. Turn out watching the movie is almost better then the real thing. With the movie i get to see everything up close. When she took the face shot i was busy screaming her name. Maybe thats why she said she would like to do it again

 

[TBKahuna123]

Funny thing, my wife and i just started doing Face shots a few weeks ago. She had problems gaging and wanted to try a face shot. I was shocked and had to grab my camera to make a quick movie. i thought if this was to be a one time thing I would be able to watch it over and over. Turn out watching the movie is almost better then the real thing. With the movie i get to see everything up close. When she took the face shot i was busy screaming her name. Maybe thats why she said she would like to do it again

You hit it right on the head. Watching the visual is actually better than the feeling of performing the act.

 

[AppleBiter]

You hit it right on the head. Watching the visual is actually better than the feeling of performing the act.

Aaah, speak for yourself.

 

[TBKahuna123]

I was, actually.

See that's the problem. The visual of the act (from the male perspective) is what's great. For me though, when I cum I'm really out of it. My aim sucks, my eyes roll back, I start talking in tongues, you know, stuff like that. So it's tough for me to enjoy the visual aspects until after the fact.

 

[Râleclins]

That's the problem for me too. While seeing a facial is really hot, and thinking about doing it is hot too, when I've cum on the lady's face I'm not in a shape to be aroused any more.

 

[SummerMorning]

Personally, I have no interest in this what so ever, but neither does my boyfriend, so it works out well for us.

Funny thing, explicit, but by posting into this thread you have just IMPLICITLY told us, that in fact it is of interest to you. In fact, of sufficient interest to bother posting, which takes at least a minute, which is practically an eternity online!

Maybe you should explore this aspect of your personality, just to see where it will take you. Who knows, you might come 'face to face' with something you enjoy!

 

[landcruisergal]

I used to find it rather humiliating, but now I like it simply for the joy it gives a partner.
Especially so when you feel him reaching that point of no return, when his cock is in your mouth, you look him in the eye and smile just as he pulls out and shoots.

I personally prefer to swallow as I feel like I have finished the job properly.

But then some guys do so like to see their seed hit flesh. Be it your neck, your rounded butt and lower back, over your chest or even your feet.

I don't mind the feel of it. Its kinda like the woodglue I used to rub between my fingers in primary school and peel off when it dried. I dont even mind sleeping in the wet patch.I do know some men like to watch me rub it into my breasts and nipples, and over my lips.They are such visual creatures after all.

(I am a submissive yes, but I am yet to experience a sexual act that actually degrades me as a person.But I have a healthy self esteem.Its my choice to experience something.If I thought something had potential to make me feel like crap I have options.In bdsm I can use a safe word. In vanilla relationships I can say no or negotiate.One night stands pose risks but I usually have an escape plan and am way freakier than him anyway)