Facesitting

My wife has sat on my face often. She will sit on my face facing the top of my body, as I whorship her pussy she will sit upright, reach back and play with my nipples whilst I wank my cock. I have the most intense orgasm, then she leans forward and I keep licking her until she orgasms.
Sometimes she faces the other way and puts her bum over my my so I can whorship her bottom until she orgasms.
 
My FWB really really loves it when I sit on his face. His cock gets steel-rigid hard as soon as I put my ass in the air while Im sucking him. I just wish I was a little taller so I could suck and smash my ass on his face at the same time.

For you guys out there that like to have a woman's ass on your face, any tips or tricks I can do to him while sitting that he might like?
To be honest it sounds like he loves doing it and sitting on his face is something he craves and gets a lot out of. I don't need anything more than having my face smothered and hearing / seeing the pleasure my partner is having.

I don't think there are any tips or tricks that are universal. Ask him what he would like and I'm sure he'd tell you. Maybe he's into dirty talk. Maybe he would enjoy you reaching back and touching his cock. He might just want you to cum before you turn your attention to his pleasure (he might want to be denied it).
 
I’m 6’ 2” and my wife is only 5’ 2”. Obviously she can’t suck me while grinding her ass on my face, but she can stoke my cock and pinch my nipples. She has to be careful to not make me cum, but that’s part of the fun!
I had an ex with a 15” height difference. It can absolutley be done with the right pillow positioning
 
For me there are so many scenarios to this question, but I love them all. Whether foreplay and we are playing for both of us. Light bondage for me and I am being teased with her just out of reach then lowers herself. CFNM, where she is in complete control and is teasing or directing me, and the scene moves from light touch to full on face smothering control. Lastly there have been 3 times where she has felt a more a top attitude and sat on my face after sex and demanded I lick her used pussy.

Heaven
 
‘Facesitting' to me implies the woman forcing her ass, in particular, on a man’s face so as to make breathing difficult. The purpose being mutual sexual pleasure.

That is not for me.

I love to have a cunt right in, on, around, or near my face any time. I love to eat pussy and I include eating ass in that, but to me that is not the same as facesitting.
 
I think your comment reveals a misunderstanding of the dynamic.

The phrase "having my face used by a wet slit" frames the entire interaction in terms of male consumption. Even when you use the language of being "used," the focus remains on your own fantasy and your own gratification. The woman is reduced to an anatomical feature, and the encounter becomes something that is happening for you rather than something being done for her.

What makes facesitting compelling is the opposite. At its core, it is a form of service. The emphasis is not on a passive man receiving an experience, but on an attentive and devoted man actively seeking to provide pleasure. The point is not that his face is being used; the point is that he is choosing to serve.

There is a profound difference between passivity and devotion. Passivity requires very little. Devotion requires intention, effort, attentiveness, and a genuine concern for the woman's experience. So I would argue that the appeal is not a man's face being "used by a wet slit"—which, incidentally, I find to be a rather derogatory way of describing a woman's sex. The appeal is a man willingly and enthusiastically dedicating himself to a woman's pleasure.
Very true and very well stated! I will emphasize your words -
“What makes facesitting compelling is the opposite. At its core, it is a form of service. The emphasis is not on a passive man receiving an experience, but on an attentive and devoted man actively seeking to provide pleasure. The point is not that his face is being used; the point is that he is choosing to serve.”
 
I completely agree. Facesitting is all about control, and that’s what makes it so intoxicating. For me, it’s about total dominance: I restrain my husband, wrists bound to the headboard, so he can’t touch me except with his tongue. I hover, tease, and grind against his lips, making it all about my pleasure and his performance. No reciprocation, just his devotion to my satisfaction.

His reward? Only after I’ve climaxed, maybe a slow, torturous edging session, or the cruel thrill of a ruined orgasm. For him, that denial, that surrender, is the ultimate high. And for me? The knowledge that his pleasure is entirely in my hands is the most intoxicating aphrodisiac of all.
Wow!
Perfectly expressed!
 
I always wished I had eaten out a girl while she sat on my face, but it never occurred to me when I had the opportunity. The closest to face sitting I ever got was tea bagging a girl once. After fucking her until she couldn’t take any more (she always found sex to be painful), I moved over her face and dipped my balls into her mouth. After she sucked on them for a while, I stuck my dick in and face fucked her until finally blowing my load down her throat.
 
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