Face/throat fucking, my thoughts (and yours)

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I don't know if anyone here has really noticed... but it kind of seems like the novelty or trendiness of face fucking in a general sense has died off a bit recently, which is kind of a surprise and disappointment to me. For me it's something that does not get old.

What's not to love about it? Imo, there's nothing else quite like it, nothing so dominant for the male, and submissive for the female. At least, without the pretense of bondage and role playing. I think there's a degrading element inherent in the act that draws people to it. The exchange of one's pain for another's amusement and pleasure, but the fact that it is consenting makes it all the more intriguing and more degrading, rather than less, the way I see it. I seems to me like giving up one's mouth and throat to be fucked is a true sacrificing of dignity. In a way I think it sort of symbolizes this sense of ultimate surrender and defeat.

I think the spit has slowly come to be one of my favorite aspects... even topping the delicious sounds of her gagging and choking, or the tears streaming down her face. I love seeing how much the girl has to spit/drool out following her throat's abuse. It's so fucking hot! I'm not sure, but I think there is just something about it that looks helpless and tormented that really fascinates and turns me on with it. Anyone else feel the same?

Anyways, that's my take.
 
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I love laying on my back on a bed, moving up, off the side with my head and shoulders a little and having a man walk up and grab my tits and thrust his cock into my opened mouth...balls hitting my nose....thrusting deeper and deeper and faster and faster...my spit building, sliding out over my face...dripping wet....my saliva pouring out of my mouth unto my face.Love it.
 
I'm a guy and while I love getting a blowjob, I also love giving blowjobs, and what I especially love is being very roughly throatfucked!! I love the submissive, slutty feeling of being on my knees and having my head tightly held while a thick cock is being forced deep down my throat!! I LOVE IT!!!
 
I love laying on my back on a bed, moving up, off the side with my head and shoulders a little and having a man walk up and grab my tits and thrust his cock into my opened mouth...balls hitting my nose....thrusting deeper and deeper and faster and faster...my spit building, sliding out over my face...dripping wet....my saliva pouring out of my mouth unto my face.Love it.

Oh girl I could sure use a little of you right now ;)
 
While I agree with your analysis of it being one of the ultimate forms of surrender, I was going to say I didn't really get your point about it going 'out of fashion'. Surely consenting adults will always do whatever turns them on behind closed doors; the need of the porn industry to find new ways of inspiring their jaded punters makes no difference.

But then I began to wonder, actually, do trends in porn get reflected in what people do? I know that sales of bsdm stuff and ben wah balls have shot up as a result of 50 Shades, and we're all getting spanked before breakfast now, aren't we? But has the wide availability of internet porn changed people's sexual behaviour? I know from my own experience that the internet has opened up ideas for exploration that I have subsequently enjoyed but possibly wouldn't have considered before.

Sorry if I'm taking it off topic from people who just want to confirm that they love making their partner gag, but I began to think that was an interesting question!
 
While it can be fun, it really depends on the gag reflex of the person being throat fucked. Some people just cannot control their gag reflex, like my fiancee who can take quite a bit but does reach a point to which she cannot take any more.

Porn wise as far as the trend goes the companies tend to burn things out quickly as one will get a new idea then next thing you know all the porn companies are doing it. I don't think that porn really sets trends that way, just does tend to open new ideas.

Kat, to answer your question briefly so as to not go off topic too long, I think that porn and the internet in general have allowed those who wanted to explore a new way in which to find things that they would enjoy doing. On the other hand though I'd worry that it's also desensitized some to the joys of simple love making, as well as created some cynics to whom are so over sexualized that they themselves may no longer enjoy anything sex related.
 
Yuck! I don't find degrading things to be erotic in the least. Give me a tender, loving blowjob any day. Guess I'm just an old romantic at heart.
 
My boyfriend loves throat fucking me, and I almost get off on it as much as he does. When he starts moaning, scratching, pulling my hair, and thrusting harder into my mouth . . . . Its just such a turn on! I don't find anything degrading in this act, especially when we both enjoy it so much.
 
While I agree with your analysis of it being one of the ultimate forms of surrender, I was going to say I didn't really get your point about it going 'out of fashion'. Surely consenting adults will always do whatever turns them on behind closed doors; the need of the porn industry to find new ways of inspiring their jaded punters makes no difference.

But then I began to wonder, actually, do trends in porn get reflected in what people do? I know that sales of bsdm stuff and ben wah balls have shot up as a result of 50 Shades, and we're all getting spanked before breakfast now, aren't we? But has the wide availability of internet porn changed people's sexual behaviour? I know from my own experience that the internet has opened up ideas for exploration that I have subsequently enjoyed but possibly wouldn't have considered before.

Sorry if I'm taking it off topic from people who just want to confirm that they love making their partner gag, but I began to think that was an interesting question!

Surely if a book of amateur erotic fan-fiction has sparked people's interest, porn has done the same. I was under the impression that the interest in the fucking of faces and gagging on cock was virtually non-existent before it came along as an explosive trend in porn videos. I know it never occurred to me before then.
 
While it can be fun, it really depends on the gag reflex of the person being throat fucked. Some people just cannot control their gag reflex, like my fiancee who can take quite a bit but does reach a point to which she cannot take any more.

Imo, gagging just comes with the territory of a face fuck. If you're trying to avoid it, then what you're practicing is probably less face fucking, and more plain old deep throat.

I like a girl that's willing to handle whatever it takes, whether it makes her gag or not.
 
Yuck! I don't find degrading things to be erotic in the least. Give me a tender, loving blowjob any day. Guess I'm just an old romantic at heart.
I felt this way, too, until I allowed one of my exes, after much begging, to do this in the familiar "backwards/head off the bed" position. I got oddly turned on by his cum/ my spit dripping down my face. I am not big on degradation but his enthusiasm got me excited too. Also, he had this weird fetish for girls whose eye makeup is running and needless to say, after a good throat fucking, that fetish was satisfied too. He did prefer to cum on my tits from this position though, which was good because I don't know if I could have taken all his cum in that position.
 
My boyfriend loves throat fucking me, and I almost get off on it as much as he does. When he starts moaning, scratching, pulling my hair, and thrusting harder into my mouth . . . . Its just such a turn on! I don't find anything degrading in this act, especially when we both enjoy it so much.

I agree!! I don't consider the fact that I love being very roughly throatfucked to be degrading. I have no desire to be insulted, humiliated or made to feel inferior because of my preference for behaving submissively. I'm a cocksucker, but I'm not a doormat.
 
loved this action . The most erotic occurrence had to be with a partner who was significantly older than me ( she was 50 plus to my 29) . One of the first times we were fooling around she asked me , " you know in porn when the girl lies with her head off the bed ? " I said yes and proceeded to oblige ! What a woman ! I am a fan of giving facials from that angle as well something extra kinky about cumming down over the forehead all over a beautiful partners face.

My girlfriend now is the queen of face fucking, she has virtually no gag reflex and loves to get face/ throat fucked. Perfect ! All sorts of angles and such , what a wonderful girl she is.

:heart:
 
I came to throat fucking a bit later in life and I love it. I do still enjoy a woman with skill, knowledge, and enthusiasm sucking my cock so0me times that soft slow blow job gets down and nasty as I finidh with my cock buried in her throat and she has tears in her eyes.

Mike
 
I came to throat fucking a bit later in life and I love it. I do still enjoy a woman with skill, knowledge, and enthusiasm sucking my cock so0me times that soft slow blow job gets down and nasty as I finidh with my cock buried in her throat and she has tears in her eyes.

Mike

I can only say "I wish"
 
I came to throat fucking a bit later in life and I love it. I do still enjoy a woman with skill, knowledge, and enthusiasm sucking my cock so0me times that soft slow blow job gets down and nasty as I finidh with my cock buried in her throat and she has tears in her eyes.

Mike

:D
Why thank you, Sir!

I do love the slow, soft teases, at least to start. But when he takes my hair and forces me to HIS rhythm, or flips me over and just fucks my mouth at will, I'm absolutely thrilled. Giving is very nice...being taken is even better!
 
h ot

there is something extra hot about a good rowdy forceful throat fuck....i love the way the womans eyes seem to cloud over, the spittle running out the corners of her mouth and the sounds.......holy shit
 
there is something extra hot about a good rowdy forceful throat fuck....i love the way the womans eyes seem to cloud over, the spittle running out the corners of her mouth and the sounds.......holy shit

that is so hot:)
 
I love to be throat fucked, but I don't really get into humiliation or being degraded. I love the full feeling, the expanding of my throat the pressing close to my face... all of that is hot.

I don't ever think about how wrong or taboo or that I'm being used or whatever.. none of that enters my head.. all i think about is how GOOD it feels, how hot it is to have all of him inside me like that. And I get SO wet, it takes next to nothing to send me over the edge after a nice, hard throat fucking, I just wish I could cum from it, would make it my favourite sex act.
 
doesn't have to be degrading

I watched an amateur vid....It wasn't this violent throat fucking....It was smooth deep-throat, but he was fucking in and out.... yes her eyes teared up some...and she had to pull away a cpl of times.....he was caring in his voice....and she kept going.... it was a throat-fuck. she was submissive, though not beaten up.....if that makes sense
 
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Giving is very nice...being taken is even better!

What a wonderful sentiment.

I've got a bit of a submissive personality and I do like to please my partners, but I guess I've been going about this all wrong. Despite being on my knees or my back I've always felt totally in control while giving blow jobs. I think would enjoy it a lot more if I was truly submitting and getting face fucked as you say. Then again my gag reflex has gotten worse over the years instead of better and the idea of it makes me super nervous.

Anyway this thread has been an eye opener. Thanks for sharing all of your thoughts on the subject.
 
There's n0thing better than that!

I don't know if anyone here has really noticed... but it kind of seems like the novelty or trendiness of face fucking in a general sense has died off a bit recently, which is kind of a surprise and disappointment to me. For me it's something that does not get old.

What's not to love about it? Imo, there's nothing else quite like it, nothing so dominant for the male, and submissive for the female. At least, without the pretense of bondage and role playing. I think there's a degrading element inherent in the act that draws people to it. The exchange of one's pain for another's amusement and pleasure, but the fact that it is consenting makes it all the more intriguing and more degrading, rather than less, the way I see it. I seems to me like giving up one's mouth and throat to be fucked is a true sacrificing of dignity. In a way I think it sort of symbolizes this sense of ultimate surrender and defeat.

I think the spit has slowly come to be one of my favorite aspects... even topping the delicious sounds of her gagging and choking, or the tears streaming down her face. I love seeing how much the girl has to spit/drool out following her throat's abuse. It's so fucking hot! I'm not sure, but I think there is just something about it that looks helpless and tormented that really fascinates and turns me on with it. Anyone else feel the same?

Anyways, that's my take.

and i love that most!
 
My hubby is out of town this weekend and my friend brought over a guy for me to meet, and as we were hanging out she pulled out his lovely cock and took it down her throat, and he fucked her face gloriously. I couldn't help but take a turn.
 
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