Face sitting.... or rather

[THROBBS]

.. face fucking.

In general I like to be "in charge". I also like the idea of a woman taking pleasure by straddling my face and fucking my mouth.

anybody else have thoughts and/or opinions?

When I look it up, it is usually in the context of BDSM and the man being smothered and/or humiliated.... not quite my interest.

 

[lisa123414]

I probably should not write about something which I know nothing about, but I am with you. The world needs more of this. More women, unashamed to straddle a pair of eager lips, writhing and thrusting until they can’t help but to begin to play with nipples and clit, letting go and concentrating on themselves for once. It seems this would work in a relationship where there is ample give and take, where partners seek the pleasure of their other. Why is it that culturally we are more accepting of a full up blow job, but not this?

And your post seemed so lonely.

 

[Iamcanadian28]

.. face fucking.

In general I like to be "in charge". I also like the idea of a woman taking pleasure by straddling my face and fucking my mouth.

anybody else have thoughts and/or opinions?

When I look it up, it is usually in the context of BDSM and the man being smothered and/or humiliated.... not quite my interest.

What to say really. That would certainly be a steady part of my sex life with my wife. Not in a BDSM way at all. We both like to be on top and bottom and this is simply a natural extension of that. If you have any specific questions about the concept, feel free to PM me.

 

[AvoidingRealWork]

We need to try this some more... I'll get back to you.

 

[bluebell]

.. face fucking.

In general I like to be "in charge". I also like the idea of a woman taking pleasure by straddling my face and fucking my mouth.

anybody else have thoughts and/or opinions?

I rarely have thoughts or opinions that ought to be shared but I do have a question: if the man's on top is that manual gear? And if the woman's on top, does that make it automatic? Or is it the other way 'round? I never can remember.

Don't mind me. I must have accidentally inhaled those Stoopid Spores that have been flying around.

 

[TE999]

.. face fucking.

In general I like to be "in charge". I also like the idea of a woman taking pleasure by straddling my face and fucking my mouth.

anybody else have thoughts and/or opinions?

When I look it up, it is usually in the context of BDSM and the man being smothered and/or humiliated.... not quite my interest.

Taken out of the BDSM context it is, quite frankly, an awesome experience for both participants. A 69 is even better.

 

[Iamcanadian28]

Taken out of the BDSM context it is, quite frankly, an awesome experience for both participants. A 69 is even better.

Tell that to my wife. lol She finds it horribly distracting.

 

[john-the-author]

.. face fucking.

In general I like to be "in charge". I also like the idea of a woman taking pleasure by straddling my face and fucking my mouth.

anybody else have thoughts and/or opinions?

When I look it up, it is usually in the context of BDSM and the man being smothered and/or humiliated.... not quite my interest.

I'm right there with you, Throbbs. I first had this happen with a years ago with a former g/f and I've since done it whenever I can. It's the best oral sex there is, having a woman grinding her cunt into my face like that. ~sigh~

 

[TE999]

Tell that to my wife. lol She finds it horribly distracting.

You have my sympathies.

Some folks, alas, can only do one thing at a time.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

You have my sympathies.

Some folks, alas, can only do one thing at a time.

That's us. Sigh

 

[AvoidingRealWork]

Taken out of the BDSM context it is, quite frankly, an awesome experience for both participants. A 69 is even better.

Only problem with a 69 is it brings your nose a little too close to her ass.

I prefer right-side-up pussy .

 

[voluptuary_manque]

Only problem with a 69 is it brings your nose a little too close to her ass.

I prefer right-side-up pussy .

She prefers it from one side.

 

[TE999]

Only problem with a 69 is it brings your nose a little too close to her ass.

I prefer right-side-up pussy .

That's not necessarily a bad thing, and you can always change who's on top.

It's still awesome.

 

[john-the-author]

Only problem with a 69 is it brings your nose a little too close to her ass.

I prefer right-side-up pussy .

I do like both of us to be really nice and clean for 69 for that same reason. But having her kneeling over my face so I can look up at her is just scrumptious.

 

[AvoidingRealWork]

I do like both of us to be really nice and clean for 69 for that same reason. But having her kneeling over my face so I can look up at her is just scrumptious.

I must agree with you there. It's almost like an act of worship that way.

 

[john-the-author]

I must agree with you there. It's almost like an act of worship that way.

Well said. That's it precisely!

BTW, ARW, I want to compliment you on an amazingly sexy AV. Well done!

 

[Carnevil9]

Only problem with a 69 is it brings your nose a little too close to her ass.

I prefer right-side-up pussy .

Reminds me of an old joke:

Q: How is eating pussy like dealing with the Mafia?

A: One slip of the tongue, and you're in deep shit!

 

[Corylea]

I used to have a lover where the only way she could come was to sit on my face, so naturally, I wanted her to do it every time we got together. She wouldn't, though -- she found it embarrassing. *rolls eyes* Takes all kinds, I guess.

 

[LordMithras]

Tell that to my wife. lol She finds it horribly distracting.

Indeed. Very hard to focus on both giving and taking at the same time.

In any case, there's nothing submissive inherently in performing oral sex on someone else, but the present attitude of society is that you are not being totally selfish, you're somehow weak or passive. But that's just my impression.

 

[shewantsmore]

I think you give oral sex on someone because you want to and enjoy it not because you feel you have to

 

[Varian P]

Tell that to my wife. lol She finds it horribly distracting.

Funny thing, that. Not that I have trouble, otherwise, but there's something about focusing on giving head that lets a fabulous climax suddenly overwhelm me when doing 69. It definitely a favorite, for that very reason.

 

[THROBBS]

I probably should not write about something which I know nothing about, but I am with you. The world needs more of this. More women, unashamed to straddle a pair of eager lips, writhing and thrusting until they can’t help but to begin to play with nipples and clit, letting go and concentrating on themselves for once. It seems this would work in a relationship where there is ample give and take, where partners seek the pleasure of their other. Why is it that culturally we are more accepting of a full up blow job, but not this?

And your post seemed so lonely.

Whew, it felt lonely. People musta been busy.

 

[THROBBS]

What to say really. That would certainly be a steady part of my sex life with my wife. Not in a BDSM way at all. We both like to be on top and bottom and this is simply a natural extension of that. If you have any specific questions about the concept, feel free to PM me.

No questions really, but thank you.

 

[THROBBS]

Indeed. Very hard to focus on both giving and taking at the same time.

In any case, there's nothing submissive inherently in performing oral sex on someone else, but the present attitude of society is that you are not being totally selfish, you're somehow weak or passive. But that's just my impression.

but there is something giving about oral sex.
I have just noticed that, more often than not, this particular version of cunnilingus is portrayed in a male humiliation context. ie...smothering

 

[THROBBS]

I think you give oral sex on someone because you want to and enjoy it not because you feel you have to

yes, that is ideal.
expanding on that... you might enjoy giving pleasure to your partner.