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secretsin04

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It's time for a fresh start. I left high school 4 months ago where I suppose the best way to describe me would be normal. As a naturally shy and quiet person I had a few friends but wasn't in the popular crowd, nor someone with lots of boyfriends etc. I was reasonably academic but not sporty or excelling in anything in particular. My looks are average: pretty but not glamourous, slim but not shapely. All in all I have to admit to being quite average and normal and I guess that's part of what brings me here.

Who wants to be average? Not me.

I've always had a fascination with BDSM and in particular submissiveness. Giving my obedience and allowing someone else control is an exciting concept to me. Maybe being a submissive is where I find my excellence, where I find something I can do that makes me stand out from the norm. Hopefully I can find someone who wants to guide me on this path, make an amazing slave out of me, change me and make me extraordinary. Maybe in years to come I'll be your committed slave, maybe you'll turn me into a super slut, or maybe we'll find that we don't click, whatever happens in the future I want to start looking at a fresh start and making some changes.

Like anyone I have a million fantasies and ideas of what is sexy to me but part of me wants to hear what you want before going too deep into my own desires. I don't want to say "I like X and I like Y" and then just get replies telling me that you like exactly the same just to appeal to me, that would feel very 'topping from the bottom'. Maybe tell me your likes first and then I'll tell you mine if we are remotely similar.

I'd like to hear from you if you're interested. Tell me about yourself, tell me what you like, tell me what you want to do with me. This is an erotica site after all so maybe send a link to your favourite erotic story, I'm sure that will tell me a lot about you. I don't want millions of pictures out there of me so if you're wanting webcam and lots of pornographic pictures of me then that isn't going to happen but that being said I'm happy to send a verification pic so if you want that then tell me what you want as verification in your reply, whether that's holding up a sign with something specific written or posing in a specific way, whatever you need.
 
It's time for a fresh start. I left high school 4 months ago where I suppose the best way to describe me would be normal. As a naturally shy and quiet person I had a few friends but wasn't in the popular crowd, nor someone with lots of boyfriends etc. I was reasonably academic but not sporty or excelling in anything in particular. My looks are average: pretty but not glamourous, slim but not shapely. All in all I have to admit to being quite average and normal and I guess that's part of what brings me here.

Who wants to be average? Not me.

I've always had a fascination with BDSM and in particular submissiveness. Giving my obedience and allowing someone else control is an exciting concept to me. Maybe being a submissive is where I find my excellence, where I find something I can do that makes me stand out from the norm. Hopefully I can find someone who wants to guide me on this path, make an amazing slave out of me, change me and make me extraordinary. Maybe in years to come I'll be your committed slave, maybe you'll turn me into a super slut, or maybe we'll find that we don't click, whatever happens in the future I want to start looking at a fresh start and making some changes.

Like anyone I have a million fantasies and ideas of what is sexy to me but part of me wants to hear what you want before going too deep into my own desires. I don't want to say "I like X and I like Y" and then just get replies telling me that you like exactly the same just to appeal to me, that would feel very 'topping from the bottom'. Maybe tell me your likes first and then I'll tell you mine if we are remotely similar.

I'd like to hear from you if you're interested. Tell me about yourself, tell me what you like, tell me what you want to do with me. This is an erotica site after all so maybe send a link to your favourite erotic story, I'm sure that will tell me a lot about you. I don't want millions of pictures out there of me so if you're wanting webcam and lots of pornographic pictures of me then that isn't going to happen but that being said I'm happy to send a verification pic so if you want that then tell me what you want as verification in your reply, whether that's holding up a sign with something specific written or posing in a specific way, whatever you need.
Good luck and please stay safe! If you'd ever like to chat, send me a line.
 
It's time for a fresh start. I left high school 4 months ago where I suppose the best way to describe me would be normal. As a naturally shy and quiet person I had a few friends but wasn't in the popular crowd, nor someone with lots of boyfriends etc. I was reasonably academic but not sporty or excelling in anything in particular. My looks are average: pretty but not glamourous, slim but not shapely. All in all I have to admit to being quite average and normal and I guess that's part of what brings me here.

Who wants to be average? Not me.

I've always had a fascination with BDSM and in particular submissiveness. Giving my obedience and allowing someone else control is an exciting concept to me. Maybe being a submissive is where I find my excellence, where I find something I can do that makes me stand out from the norm. Hopefully I can find someone who wants to guide me on this path, make an amazing slave out of me, change me and make me extraordinary. Maybe in years to come I'll be your committed slave, maybe you'll turn me into a super slut, or maybe we'll find that we don't click, whatever happens in the future I want to start looking at a fresh start and making some changes.

Like anyone I have a million fantasies and ideas of what is sexy to me but part of me wants to hear what you want before going too deep into my own desires. I don't want to say "I like X and I like Y" and then just get replies telling me that you like exactly the same just to appeal to me, that would feel very 'topping from the bottom'. Maybe tell me your likes first and then I'll tell you mine if we are remotely similar.

I'd like to hear from you if you're interested. Tell me about yourself, tell me what you like, tell me what you want to do with me. This is an erotica site after all so maybe send a link to your favourite erotic story, I'm sure that will tell me a lot about you. I don't want millions of pictures out there of me so if you're wanting webcam and lots of pornographic pictures of me then that isn't going to happen but that being said I'm happy to send a verification pic so if you want that then tell me what you want as verification in your reply, whether that's holding up a sign with something specific written or posing in a specific way, whatever you need.
Good morning, secrets and good luck in your quest to become a wonderful submissive. A willing, compliant submissive is a rare and special person who should be cherished (even if she’s also used and abused consensually). In my view, the heart of a D/s dynamic is the willingness of the sub to surrender control to another and the desire of the Dom to understand what needs really drive his/her sub to enable her to deepen her submission and achieve sexual arousal/gratification in a safe and consensual way. Trust is essential in this.
The best stories about submission that I’ve read on here are by emily_sub, (she submits to both men and women) and pixiehoff (lesbian submission). It’s not so much the sexuality but the quality of the writing and the deep understanding they have of what it means to be a true sub that I think you’ll enjoy and learn from.
Why don’t you give them a try and let me know if you agree?
 
It's time for a fresh start. I left high school 4 months ago where I suppose the best way to describe me would be normal. As a naturally shy and quiet person I had a few friends but wasn't in the popular crowd, nor someone with lots of boyfriends etc. I was reasonably academic but not sporty or excelling in anything in particular. My looks are average: pretty but not glamourous, slim but not shapely. All in all I have to admit to being quite average and normal and I guess that's part of what brings me here.

Who wants to be average? Not me.

I've always had a fascination with BDSM and in particular submissiveness. Giving my obedience and allowing someone else control is an exciting concept to me. Maybe being a submissive is where I find my excellence, where I find something I can do that makes me stand out from the norm. Hopefully I can find someone who wants to guide me on this path, make an amazing slave out of me, change me and make me extraordinary. Maybe in years to come I'll be your committed slave, maybe you'll turn me into a super slut, or maybe we'll find that we don't click, whatever happens in the future I want to start looking at a fresh start and making some changes.

Like anyone I have a million fantasies and ideas of what is sexy to me but part of me wants to hear what you want before going too deep into my own desires. I don't want to say "I like X and I like Y" and then just get replies telling me that you like exactly the same just to appeal to me, that would feel very 'topping from the bottom'. Maybe tell me your likes first and then I'll tell you mine if we are remotely similar.

I'd like to hear from you if you're interested. Tell me about yourself, tell me what you like, tell me what you want to do with me. This is an erotica site after all so maybe send a link to your favourite erotic story, I'm sure that will tell me a lot about you. I don't want millions of pictures out there of me so if you're wanting webcam and lots of pornographic pictures of me then that isn't going to happen but that being said I'm happy to send a verification pic so if you want that then tell me what you want as verification in your reply, whether that's holding up a sign with something specific written or posing in a specific way, whatever you need.
Ok
first I do want a picture of you but fully clothed. Other things can happen later If we decide.
I want you for myself. you can talk to others but when we are talking it’s only us!!!
I want you as my slave in private but if we are together in public you are my girlfriend. You must always wear stockings or pantyhose unless I say otherwise. When in private you will call me master, in public you will use my name. If you break these rules you will be punished!!!
I want to hear every kinky thing you want todo, that does not mean we will do them. you will keep yourself neat and clean, that includes keeping your privates shaved or waxed. I like bald pussies .
are you getting the idea?
can you live with these rules ?
 
Ok
first I do want a picture of you but fully clothed. Other things can happen later If we decide.
I want you for myself. you can talk to others but when we are talking it’s only us!!!
I want you as my slave in private but if we are together in public you are my girlfriend. You must always wear stockings or pantyhose unless I say otherwise. When in private you will call me master, in public you will use my name. If you break these rules you will be punished!!!
I want to hear every kinky thing you want todo, that does not mean we will do them. you will keep yourself neat and clean, that includes keeping your privates shaved or waxed. I like bald pussies .
are you getting the idea?
can you live with these rules ?
Ok
first I do want a picture of you but fully clothed. Other things can happen later If we decide.
I want you for myself. you can talk to others but when we are talking it’s only us!!!
I want you as my slave in private but if we are together in public you are my girlfriend. You must always wear stockings or pantyhose unless I say otherwise. When in private you will call me master, in public you will use my name. If you break these rules you will be punished!!!
I want to hear every kinky thing you want todo, that does not mean we will do them. you will keep yourself neat and clean, that includes keeping your privates shaved or waxed. I like bald pussies .
are you getting the idea?
can you live with these rules ?
Where are you from. I’m in the central USA
 
It's time for a fresh start. I left high school 4 months ago where I suppose the best way to describe me would be normal. As a naturally shy and quiet person I had a few friends but wasn't in the popular crowd, nor someone with lots of boyfriends etc. I was reasonably academic but not sporty or excelling in anything in particular. My looks are average: pretty but not glamourous, slim but not shapely. All in all I have to admit to being quite average and normal and I guess that's part of what brings me here.

Who wants to be average? Not me.

I've always had a fascination with BDSM and in particular submissiveness. Giving my obedience and allowing someone else control is an exciting concept to me. Maybe being a submissive is where I find my excellence, where I find something I can do that makes me stand out from the norm. Hopefully I can find someone who wants to guide me on this path, make an amazing slave out of me, change me and make me extraordinary. Maybe in years to come I'll be your committed slave, maybe you'll turn me into a super slut, or maybe we'll find that we don't click, whatever happens in the future I want to start looking at a fresh start and making some changes.

Like anyone I have a million fantasies and ideas of what is sexy to me but part of me wants to hear what you want before going too deep into my own desires. I don't want to say "I like X and I like Y" and then just get replies telling me that you like exactly the same just to appeal to me, that would feel very 'topping from the bottom'. Maybe tell me your likes first and then I'll tell you mine if we are remotely similar.

I'd like to hear from you if you're interested. Tell me about yourself, tell me what you like, tell me what you want to do with me. This is an erotica site after all so maybe send a link to your favourite erotic story, I'm sure that will tell me a lot about you. I don't want millions of pictures out there of me so if you're wanting webcam and lots of pornographic pictures of me then that isn't going to happen but that being said I'm happy to send a verification pic so if you want that then tell me what you want as verification in your reply, whether that's holding up a sign with something specific written or posing in a specific way, whatever you need.
Well I'm am sure your getting every type of offer under the sun. I would love to get to know you first then see if there is a road we can travel.
 
It's time for a fresh start. I left high school 4 months ago where I suppose the best way to describe me would be normal. As a naturally shy and quiet person I had a few friends but wasn't in the popular crowd, nor someone with lots of boyfriends etc. I was reasonably academic but not sporty or excelling in anything in particular. My looks are average: pretty but not glamourous, slim but not shapely. All in all I have to admit to being quite average and normal and I guess that's part of what brings me here.

Who wants to be average? Not me.

I've always had a fascination with BDSM and in particular submissiveness. Giving my obedience and allowing someone else control is an exciting concept to me. Maybe being a submissive is where I find my excellence, where I find something I can do that makes me stand out from the norm. Hopefully I can find someone who wants to guide me on this path, make an amazing slave out of me, change me and make me extraordinary. Maybe in years to come I'll be your committed slave, maybe you'll turn me into a super slut, or maybe we'll find that we don't click, whatever happens in the future I want to start looking at a fresh start and making some changes.

Like anyone I have a million fantasies and ideas of what is sexy to me but part of me wants to hear what you want before going too deep into my own desires. I don't want to say "I like X and I like Y" and then just get replies telling me that you like exactly the same just to appeal to me, that would feel very 'topping from the bottom'. Maybe tell me your likes first and then I'll tell you mine if we are remotely similar.

I'd like to hear from you if you're interested. Tell me about yourself, tell me what you like, tell me what you want to do with me. This is an erotica site after all so maybe send a link to your favourite erotic story, I'm sure that will tell me a lot about you. I don't want millions of pictures out there of me so if you're wanting webcam and lots of pornographic pictures of me then that isn't going to happen but that being said I'm happy to send a verification pic so if you want that then tell me what you want as verification in your reply, whether that's holding up a sign with something specific written or posing in a specific way, whatever you need.
I am a mature UK male in a sexless marriage, a bit of and insomniac, dark vanilla ( if that makes sense) , very happy to chat and indulge
It's time for a fresh start. I left high school 4 months ago where I suppose the best way to describe me would be normal. As a naturally shy and quiet person I had a few friends but wasn't in the popular crowd, nor someone with lots of boyfriends etc. I was reasonably academic but not sporty or excelling in anything in particular. My looks are average: pretty but not glamourous, slim but not shapely. All in all I have to admit to being quite average and normal and I guess that's part of what brings me here.

Who wants to be average? Not me.

I've always had a fascination with BDSM and in particular submissiveness. Giving my obedience and allowing someone else control is an exciting concept to me. Maybe being a submissive is where I find my excellence, where I find something I can do that makes me stand out from the norm. Hopefully I can find someone who wants to guide me on this path, make an amazing slave out of me, change me and make me extraordinary. Maybe in years to come I'll be your committed slave, maybe you'll turn me into a super slut, or maybe we'll find that we don't click, whatever happens in the future I want to start looking at a fresh start and making some changes.

Like anyone I have a million fantasies and ideas of what is sexy to me but part of me wants to hear what you want before going too deep into my own desires. I don't want to say "I like X and I like Y" and then just get replies telling me that you like exactly the same just to appeal to me, that would feel very 'topping from the bottom'. Maybe tell me your likes first and then I'll tell you mine if we are remotely similar.

I'd like to hear from you if you're interested. Tell me about yourself, tell me what you like, tell me what you want to do with me. This is an erotica site after all so maybe send a link to your favourite erotic story, I'm sure that will tell me a lot about you. I don't want millions of pictures out there of me so if you're wanting webcam and lots of pornographic pictures of me then that isn't going to happen but that being said I'm happy to send a verification pic so if you want that then tell me what you want as verification in your reply, whether that's holding up a sign with something specific written or posing in a specific way, whatever you need.
I am a mature UK male in a sexless marriage, a bit of and insomniac, dark vanilla ( if that makes sense) , very happy to chat and indulge, love the thought of finding a submissive and progressing her to rank of superslut
 
I have often thought about this too, but being a married man in his fifties, pretty good looking for a man my age, I’m not sure how I would get started, best of luck, and please be careful!
 
Four months out of high school. Be careful secretsin04 and good luck in your quest.
 
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