extremely turned on at work by....

[krisl]

a married woman who's a huge flirt!! not only is she a huge flirt but she also shows physical signs of being turned on - erect nipples and squeezing her thighs together when speaking i'm speaking to her at her desk. last week when i approached her while she was doing filing, it appeared to me that she started grinding her pussy a bit up against the corner of the filing cabinet drawer!!! she saw me quickly glance down which made her stop. i was blown away and could feel my cock starting to grow. i was so absolutely turned on like never before that i left the office early that day and went straight home to jacked off ... reliving what had happened just a few hours prior.

anyways i would love to approach her and ask her out to lunch but with her being married i'm finding it very difficult. it's driving me nuts because it's happening at work, shes married, i'm a bit shy but i want her so bad

any suggestions??

 

[Guest]

Leave it alone

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[SweetErika]

Yeah, don't shit where you eat.

You could be imagining things. Maybe she's just chilly and has to pee or is itchy from a yeast infection. She could be having financial troubles and looking for a sexual harassment settlement. She might be having marriage difficulties and just wants some attention.

There are lots of things it could be, and most of them don't bode well for you. If you don't want to give your job away to someone else and/or deal with an angry husband, stick to wanking in the privacy of your home and finding someone available (single and not at work) to have fun with.

 

[Eilan]

The OP and this guy must work at the same place.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

a married woman who's a huge flirt!! not only is she a huge flirt but she also shows physical signs of being turned on - erect nipples and squeezing her thighs together when speaking i'm speaking to her at her desk. last week when i approached her while she was doing filing, it appeared to me that she started grinding her pussy a bit up against the corner of the filing cabinet drawer!!! she saw me quickly glance down which made her stop. i was blown away and could feel my cock starting to grow. i was so absolutely turned on like never before that i left the office early that day and went straight home to jacked off ... reliving what had happened just a few hours prior.

anyways i would love to approach her and ask her out to lunch but with her being married i'm finding it very difficult. it's driving me nuts because it's happening at work, shes married, i'm a bit shy but i want her so bad

any suggestions??

If she was happy with what she has at home, she wouldn’t be flirting would she?

Just ask her if she wants to grab a bite for lunch one day, and if she is does, go to a fast-food place, preferably somewhere public where other co-workers go, so no one will get suspicious. Don’t do it too often or people might begin to wonder. During lunch, ask her if she would like to meet for drinks or something one evening. She won’t be offended even if she says no.

Nothing wrong with getting a little on the side once in a while, as long as you keep it discreet and don’t try to screw up her home-life.

And don’t let the nay-sayers and bible-thumpers discourage you. This is not the 1950s, and women don’t wear chastity belts anyone, She is old enough to know what she wants.

 

[coastal-boy]

depends on your job and how much you value it. People who don't have a job will of course answer this differently.

 

[satindesire]

I find it absolutely hilarious that when people say "Don't fuck a married woman at work" suddenly they get accused of being moral police and bible thumpers.



These days, common sense isn't so common anymore, is it?

 

[bailadora]

OP, as a former HR professional, I've got three words for you: Don't do it.

It's not worth it.

These days, common sense isn't so common anymore, is it?

Apparently not.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

a married woman who's a huge flirt!! not only is she a huge flirt but she also shows physical signs of being turned on - erect nipples and squeezing her thighs together when speaking i'm speaking to her at her desk. last week when i approached her while she was doing filing, it appeared to me that she started grinding her pussy a bit up against the corner of the filing cabinet drawer!!! she saw me quickly glance down which made her stop. i was blown away and could feel my cock starting to grow. i was so absolutely turned on like never before that i left the office early that day and went straight home to jacked off ... reliving what had happened just a few hours prior.

anyways i would love to approach her and ask her out to lunch but with her being married i'm finding it very difficult. it's driving me nuts because it's happening at work, shes married, i'm a bit shy but i want her so bad

any suggestions??

In the real world! How many people do you know that got fired for having an affair with someone at work? Technically, it may be against the rules, but in the real world, no one ever gets fired for it.

Neither of you are children, and if she didn’t want you, she wouldn’t be flirting with you. People have affairs all the time, and if you pass-up this opportunity, you will be kicking yourself later on. She wants you, and you want her, so ask yourself, if no one finds out, what’s the harm?

These nay-sayers and bible thumpers are just jealous because no one flirts with them anymore. At least you have someone who is interested in you. It’s ok to ask her to have a harmless lunch with you; no harm in that. Don’t let this opportunity pass; you never know, this could be the love of your life.

 

[krisl]

thanks for all your replies, i feel a bit stupid and embarrassed now, but at the same time an odd sense of relief. i'm definitely gonna steer clear instead of jeopardizing my career and reputation.

i'll think with my other head when i'm here instead

cheers

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

thanks for all your replies, i feel a bit stupid and embarrassed now, but at the same time an odd sense of relief. i'm definitely gonna steer clear instead of jeopardizing my career and reputation.

i'll think with my other head when i'm here instead

cheers

This is Saturday, let us know how you feel after you see her at work Monday. No harm in having lunch with her, besides, you don't want her to think there is something wrong with you do you?

 

[bailadora]

In the real world! How many people do you know that got fired for having an affair with someone at work? Technically, it may be against the rules, but in the real world, no one ever gets fired for it.

Hello?!!?

Former HR professional here: I handled this shit all the time. Sexual harassment charges not withstanding, people absolutely DO get demoted and/or fired for this kind of stuff.

People think they are being discrete, but office affairs almost ALWAYS have a way of being discovered.

So, in case you missed it before: DON'T DO IT! It's not worth your job or your professional reputation. This kind of stuff WILL follow you from job to job because those who do the hiring absolutely DO check references. No one needs that sort of grief, especially in today's shitty economy.

 

[coastal-boy]

In the real world! How many people do you know that got fired for having an affair with someone at work? Technically, it may be against the rules, but in the real world, no one ever gets fired for it.

Neither of you are children, and if she didn’t want you, she wouldn’t be flirting with you. People have affairs all the time, and if you pass-up this opportunity, you will be kicking yourself later on. She wants you, and you want her, so ask yourself, if no one finds out, what’s the harm?

These nay-sayers and bible thumpers are just jealous because no one flirts with them anymore. At least you have someone who is interested in you. It’s ok to ask her to have a harmless lunch with you; no harm in that. Don’t let this opportunity pass; you never know, this could be the love of your life.

you are a fucking full-fledged 100% idiot. Then again, in your World...which is largely in your head...what you are saying may be true. How many different threads have you been laughed at? Well...add one more "alpha boy"

 

[Eilan]

This is Saturday, let us know how you feel after you see her at work Monday. No harm in having lunch with her, besides, you don't want her to think there is something wrong with you do you?

Don't be projecting your ED issues on other people.

 

[krisl]

This is Saturday, let us know how you feel after you see her at work Monday. No harm in having lunch with her, besides, you don't want her to think there is something wrong with you do you?[/QUOTE



i'm willing to take the chance, thanks for your concern though (if any) LOL

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

This is Saturday, let us know how you feel after you see her at work Monday. No harm in having lunch with her, besides, you don't want her to think there is something wrong with you do you?[/QUOTE



i'm willing to take the chance, thanks for your concern though (if any) LOL

No offense, but as if you say, "she was grinding her pussy up against the corner of the filing cabinet drawer", and you wimp out, she may start thinking that you are a scared little boy, and start teasing you. In fact, the whole office could end up teasing you.

But then again, if you didn't want to bed her, why did you make the post in the first place?

Good luck with it anyway.

 

[krisl]

if the whole office starts 'teasing' me than i'm really f*cked! might need a cold shower

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

if the whole office starts 'teasing' me than i'm really f*cked! might need a cold shower

Rumors spread around offices, (you know that), and you aren't the only who knows that she is flirting with you. People who work in offices love to gossip, and regardless of whether there is any truth to the rumor, they will still talk, so you might as well get laid. Your single, so for you, there is no downside. That's all I am saying.

 

[Guest]

delete

 

[satindesire]

Because the only thing in life that's worth anything is getting your dick wet. The only downside is losing your job, negative gossip around the office, being known as "That guy that breaks up marriages" and an entire office full of people that don't trust or like you anymore.

But yeah, fucking some married woman was TOTALLY worth it!

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Deleted due to irrelevancy to the original post

 

[SweetErika]

thanks for all your replies, i feel a bit stupid and embarrassed now, but at the same time an odd sense of relief. i'm definitely gonna steer clear instead of jeopardizing my career and reputation.

i'll think with my other head when i'm here instead

cheers

That sounds like a great plan.

Meanwhile, there's nothing wrong with enjoying the fantasy at home. Women can smell creepiness and desperation miles away, so don't look for signs she's horny, undress her with your eyes or stare, make comments to coworkers, etc., at work; you're best off keeping it strictly professional, friendly and cool.

And, no, she's not going to think less of you if you don't ask her out or try to get in her panties. Guys who think that way are usually the very creepy, predatory types, and it sounds like that's not your style (which is good, because that can affect your career as well if women aren't comfortable working around you).

 

[silverwhisper]

nasty deeds quoth:
in the real world! how many people do you know that got fired for having an affair with someone at work?

i'm beginning to wonder whether nasty deeds has spent any time in the real world.

ed

 

[Mrtouf]

I think you need to ask for more work to take your mind off the smoking hot woman.

 

[thirty]

Hello?!!?

Former HR professional here: I handled this shit all the time. Sexual harassment charges not withstanding, people absolutely DO get demoted and/or fired for this kind of stuff.

People think they are being discrete, but office affairs almost ALWAYS have a way of being discovered.

So, in case you missed it before: DON'T DO IT! It's not worth your job or your professional reputation. This kind of stuff WILL follow you from job to job because those who do the hiring absolutely DO check references. No one needs that sort of grief, especially in today's shitty economy.

Sexual harassment means one of them is unwilling to do it.

It will not be called sexual harassment if two of them had a good time.

I never had sex with my colleagues, but I used to fuck a girl from our vendor and another woman from our client. I didn't lose my job for these.