Extramarital Affairs

Have u engaged in 1 or more extramarital affairs?

  • Yes

    Votes: 44 44.9%
  • No

    Votes: 34 34.7%
  • Currently seeking a playmate

    Votes: 20 20.4%

  • Total voters
    98
  • Poll closed .
Hopefully things will continue to be very hot and I will find the perfect woman that makes my first experience as a new single man very exciting.
 
Nope, I've never cheated...although it has crossed my mind.....I wouldn't do it though.
 
olderwoman said:
Nope, I've never cheated...although it has crossed my mind.....I wouldn't do it though.

What about on-line or phone play?
Is that cheating?
 
MrMikelobe1952 said:
What about on-line or phone play?
Is that cheating?

not in reality sweetheart, that's playing;) everyone should be able to at least play to relieve the tension and boredom... i really can't see how anyone could have a legit reason to ban a bit of innocent role play with friends.


evryone here on this board is here cos they're not 100% fulfilled by what they have... otherwise they wouldn't need to be here.

my hubby's standing behind me with his hand on my shoulder this very minute... now he just kissed my neck and made me have to correct a couple of typo's, giggle!! we really do feel for people who aren't even allowed to play.
 
I told my honey not to feel like he needs to hide his "online playing" but he doesn't get the hint. But he doesn't feel comfortable sharing those fantasies with me or role playing. I'm pretty open minded as long as one is honest with me. I had to tell warn him last year that real meets with another woman is completely off limits unless we talk about it.
Otherwise, it's back to condom use with him and since he loves not using a condom with me. So...I'm cool if he gets horny and hard by someone else as long as his pecker is all mine.
:)
 
Hmmmm, I agree

I am more than happy to indulge in a few fantasies online, but the step to offline would be fatal for our marriage
 
Well,
Someone just enlightened me that while I have posted that I just because I never had an extramarital affair while I was married doesn't mean that I have not participated in an extramarital affair!!!

So damn...I change my answer on the poll but since I have been the other woman I have engaged in an extramarital affair. My thinking was all screwed. I focused on the fact that I never cheated on my ex as my criteria.

I too am guilty of adultery!!! Yikes...don't stone me.

:devil:
 
Re: Huh? Sex?

Lady Cassandra said:
Hey, I went into menopause when I was 36 and so my question is - what is sex? :eek:


No way hun...since I went into menopause my honey can't keep up with me. I highly recommend it. Actually my sex drive increased YIPPPEEEE!!!
 
I find it interesting that so many people are more conservative here.
Cool
 
My affair

I had an affair with a coworker who wanted to get pregnant. she had some fertility probs and her husband had some erectile probs so I stepped in. We got together several times and totally enjoyed it but with no success. Now she has moved out of state. we still talk but haven't seen each other for a few years.
 
hotncmom said:
Have u engaged in one or more extramarital affairs?

yes ... a number of them, some with married women who prefer married men for non-commitment purposes ...
 
Re: Re: Huh? Sex?

hotncmom said:
No way hun...since I went into menopause my honey can't keep up with me. I highly recommend it. Actually my sex drive increased YIPPPEEEE!!!

Definitely agree with you there. I want it now more than before the hot flashes! *lol*
 
LorriLove said:
nympho with morals, i like that honey:D makes me a nympho with no morals:devil: :D i really do get in a state with it at times, permanently wet and can't stop fucking... climbing the bloody walls with arousal and frustration.


Ok another confession my immoral nymphomaniac sis. Remembe how u had that one night stand recently? Well I had a two morning stand...and yes, he's married. Even worse I knew beforehand so I can't play the "I didn't know card."

What can I say? We met here. Emailed for months. Met in
person and things progressed from there.

Afterward I felt like I lost my virginity and that everyone could see it in my eyes, the Scarlet Letter so to say, but I am not sure how long this will go on. I just know that we thoroughly like each other as friends and enjoy each other.

Maybe I just wanna be like my gal Lorrilove.
Kisses,
Mom
 
hotncmom said:
Ok another confession my immoral nymphomaniac sis. Remembe how u had that one night stand recently? Well I had a two morning stand...and yes, he's married. Even worse I knew beforehand so I can't play the "I didn't know card."

What can I say? We met here. Emailed for months. Met in
person and things progressed from there.

Afterward I felt like I lost my virginity and that everyone could see it in my eyes, the Scarlet Letter so to say, but I am not sure how long this will go on. I just know that we thoroughly like each other as friends and enjoy each other.

Maybe I just wanna be like my gal Lorrilove.
Kisses,
Mom

hiya darling mum:kiss: :D so glad you had fun honey, and don't worry about the illicit side of it with a married guy... i find that so much more of a buzz when i'm shagging some other woman's pet meat pole:devil: :p :D

i hope it lasts love, i hope you remain friends and remain part time lovers if that's what he wants as well.
 
*raising hand. Never thought I would in a million years, but the perfect situation presented itself. But for that perfect situation I would NEVER, I repeat, NEVER have done it and probably never will again. All of which is beside the point, as I'll be kicked out of the girl club for sure. Ah well. The price we pay for unbelievably hot sex!
 
hotncmom said:
Ok another confession my immoral nymphomaniac sis. Remembe how u had that one night stand recently? Well I had a two morning stand...and yes, he's married. Even worse I knew beforehand so I can't play the "I didn't know card."

What can I say? We met here. Emailed for months. Met in
person and things progressed from there.

Afterward I felt like I lost my virginity and that everyone could see it in my eyes, the Scarlet Letter so to say, but I am not sure how long this will go on. I just know that we thoroughly like each other as friends and enjoy each other.

Maybe I just wanna be like my gal Lorrilove.
Kisses,
Mom

Good for you Hotmom. I am glad to see that you are having some fun. Wish more women would just enjoy sex for the pleasure and not worry so much about a committment. Now if I could just find a woman like you. lol. :kiss: :rose:
 
hausfrau said:
*raising hand. Never thought I would in a million years, but the perfect situation presented itself. But for that perfect situation I would NEVER, I repeat, NEVER have done it and probably never will again. All of which is beside the point, as I'll be kicked out of the girl club for sure. Ah well. The price we pay for unbelievably hot sex!

Yes, I have always been a firm believer in the "girl code." I would not call myself a desperate housewife or a mistress type, like you said, the situation presented itself and I have no regrets. We both understand and respect our boundaries and that it is not a permanent arrangement.

But my "girl code" card is looking rather tainted, for that I feel like crud.

Licks to you,
MOM :p :rose:
 
Yeah, mom, we can feel like crud together about the girl card thing. Otherwise, my situation is perfect and I have absolutely no regret whatsoever. [shrug].
 
we can shrug together. i still follow the code when it comes to being with my friends' lovers, hubby or ex. There's just too many too choose from out there to mess up good friendships. You know...men come and go but a best girlfriend is forever.
 
Totally with you there, mom. If I actually KNEW the woman??? Was FRIENDS with her???? No way would I be having an affair with the husband/boyfriend/SO. No. Fucking. Way. I do have some scruples left. pffft. Some, anyhow.
 
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