Extramarital Affairs

Have u engaged in 1 or more extramarital affairs?

  • Yes

    Votes: 44 44.9%
  • No

    Votes: 34 34.7%
  • Currently seeking a playmate

    Votes: 20 20.4%

  • Total voters
    98
  • Poll closed .
cant say i have........but its not like i havent thought about it!:D
 
I never did or even considered when I was married. But since I've been divorced I admit I have dabbled with 2 married men and one the night before his wedding.
I had no idea they were married until after we did the deed.
 
hotncmom said:
I never did or even considered when I was married. But since I've been divorced I admit I have dabbled with 2 married men and one the night before his wedding.
I had no idea they were married until after we did the deed.
My Ex-wife was fucking one of my best friends........I must admit........it wasnt a very good feeling!:(
 
Well, I was embarrassed the first time. A dumbass the second time.
There was no third time. Although the guy I "met" during his bachelor party called me when he returned from his honeymoon.
:heart: :heart: :heart:
 
Im guessing to say that marrage wont last too long!!!:D
 
I was highly tempted. He was one hot babe. But I understand many people separate the sex act from love so he truly loves her but just wanted to get down my panties again.
Boys are so naughty...and what a fine line between that naughty and nice huh?
 
yeah...i usually get involved with lonely wives whose husbands are too busy playing golf or something. no conscious effort on my part to look for lonely wives, but they seem to be everywhere.

being single, i have no problem giving them time..

but they do make great lovers.... :) being frustrated with their husbands, i guess they have to pour out their energies elsewhere.
 
oh yeah women too

Damn Strongice,
I just realized that I wouldn't think twice about the man if his horny lonely wife wanted to fool around with me and I was attracted to her. I have to go back and re-think this.

Besides are those guys playing golf or playing with me?
 
Hey HotMom,
No doubt a fine line.
I love my woman.....but still love another womans lips on my cock.
Acting like a dog?..............Yes......... I guess....but other than that...I love her...and treat her good.
Maybe too much whiskey tonight!
:)
 
skme said:
My Ex-wife was fucking one of my best friends........I must admit........it wasnt a very good feeling!:(

hiya honey... isn't it amazing how all a guy's mates seem to want to shag his wife... did you ever fancy a friend's wife love? not did anything but sort of toyed with the idea... i've spent all my married life either fighting off his mates, the ones i didn't fancy, or giving in to the ones i did take a fancy to... some mates!!!

just as well he knew about most of them and approved... even though they never 'knew he knew', if you get my meaning... but that's just our kinky ways.
 
Hey Lorrilove -

When I realized my marriage was crumbling I do recall that I actually started considering an affair. I almost forgot about that.

It was with another married man who LOVES his wife. LOL.
I decided to muster up the balls and just leave my husband instead of adding cheating the long list of love gone bad.

I must have some kind of yes face though cuz since I've been dating I have met more married men looking for a hook up than anything.

Hence why I have taken a sabbatical on guys my age and have enjoyed the young stud buffet a bit.

Kisses hun!
 
Missing category:

"have you fantasized about an extra-marital affair, but not actually gone through with it?"

That would be me. I love my wife too much to risk hurting her.

D--
 
I've had one brief affair....
i've had a marriage void of sex and any affection for the past 2 years. I stay for personal reasons.

while I'm not actively "looking" for another man, I wouldn't turn one down should he come knocking on my back door ;)
 
well as everyone's being so honest here, i might as well make a public confession... i had a one night fling with a guy just the other evening... went out for a drink and pleasant evening out with an old friend (male) and finished up screwing with him on a sofa back at the place he was staying.

it was fun and made a lovely change from the routine... i don't recommend every married person try it as openly as that of course... my husband knew i'd probably wind up having sex with the guy when he gave permission for me to go out with another man for the evening.
 
lorri........your nectar at the lips of every man that desires a sexual equal
 
Hi ladies,

Thanks for sharing. I wonder if it takes more courage for women to stray than men?

I was married for 20 yrs and started looking so I left. I knew the marriage was over and knew there was something better out there. However, once I left man was a I dumb ass dumb dumb dumb.

First guy I connected with I met at a bar. Man, he rocked. We left the bar went to his office and that was my first one night stand. I later found out he was getting married in 2 days and I was his bachelor party fling. He called me after he returned from his honeymoon but I never met him again.

Then I met one hottie at a Xmas party laterr that year and I was pretty drunk. He walked me home from the party then we made out then I sucked him off. I found out the next day when we had a date to go to the mountains and go bike riding, that he was married. I kissed him and told him to go home fuck his wife and remember me but I won't see him. I still run into him at times and he is one "tasty" tempation.

Then I met a Dr. while I was traveling for business and we had too many drinks and we fooled around in my room. When I asked him for his number he said, "Well, I can't." We enjoyed the breakfast together and shared a passionate kiss and went our separate ways.

Although I enjoyed the passionate sex and admit I even liked being the other woman, I won't do that anymore. I follow the girl code. I now have a screening process.

Thanks for sharing.
 
hotncmom said:
Hi ladies,

Thanks for sharing. I wonder if it takes more courage for women to stray than men?

I was married for 20 yrs and started looking so I left. I knew the marriage was over and knew there was something better out there. However, once I left man was a I dumb ass dumb dumb dumb.

First guy I connected with I met at a bar. Man, he rocked. We left the bar went to his office and that was my first one night stand. I later found out he was getting married in 2 days and I was his bachelor party fling. He called me after he returned from his honeymoon but I never met him again.

Then I met one hottie at a Xmas party laterr that year and I was pretty drunk. He walked me home from the party then we made out then I sucked him off. I found out the next day when we had a date to go to the mountains and go bike riding, that he was married. I kissed him and told him to go home fuck his wife and remember me but I won't see him. I still run into him at times and he is one "tasty" tempation.

Then I met a Dr. while I was traveling for business and we had too many drinks and we fooled around in my room. When I asked him for his number he said, "Well, I can't." We enjoyed the breakfast together and shared a passionate kiss and went our separate ways.

Although I enjoyed the passionate sex and admit I even liked being the other woman, I won't do that anymore. I follow the girl code. I now have a screening process.

Thanks for sharing.

this is what makes me sad about vanilla marriages... the cheating that goes on... i'm not really qualified to be making confessions on this thread, cos to be honest hubby and me opened our marriage up to rid it of all the destructive possessive jealousy about 24 yrs ago... we both tale lovers with the other's knowledge and permission, it's kept us sane over the years, we're both oversexed and in need of added spice from time to time... don't get me wrong, folks who love and live for each other alone have our deepest admiration, it's just not for us, and it takes all sorts...

you did the right thing and you are doing the right thing by your standards 'mom'... but another confession from the slut here, i just adore being the other woman with all the associated naughty secrets and added adrenalin rush with fear of discovery.:devil:

if they can't hang on to him, who am i to judge harshly and refuse a nice horny bonk.

we do have our standards though, and a screening process... no real strangers without a rubber... and cleanliness is essential, if he smells, he don't get it.
 
Lorrilove,
Love ur post.

So yeah...what am I? A nympho with morals??? That's what my gf's now call me. I just don't want my gal pals to distrust me around their men.

I am pretty hard on ladies who hold sex over their hubby's head as a reward or not willing to be open etc. I understand why they stray. And of course, I understand why they stray to hotties like me, u and babydoll. I tell them all the time, "If you don't fuck him someone else will."

Ok...since we are REALLY being honest here.

The first guy I thought we hit it off so well that he'd leave her for me!!! OMG that is so damn funny.

The second guy at the party...I was embarrassed cuz all my friends found out about it and I still see him at social events but never with this invisible wife of his. So I still enjoy teasing the hell out of him. Cuz I am a naughty thing.

With the Dr. I never asked if he was married. He was hot as hell. We were far from our significant others and I seduced him. OK, there I said it.

:devil:

But no more married men...I mean it. So many horny men so little time!!!
 
hotncmom said:
Lorrilove,
Love ur post.

So yeah...what am I? A nympho with morals??? That's what my gf's now call me. I just don't want my gal pals to distrust me around their men.

I am pretty hard on ladies who hold sex over their hubby's head as a reward or not willing to be open etc. I understand why they stray. And of course, I understand why they stray to hotties like me, u and babydoll. I tell them all the time, "If you don't fuck him someone else will."

Ok...since we are REALLY being honest here.

The first guy I thought we hit it off so well that he'd leave her for me!!! OMG that is so damn funny.

The second guy at the party...I was embarrassed cuz all my friends found out about it and I still see him at social events but never with this invisible wife of his. So I still enjoy teasing the hell out of him. Cuz I am a naughty thing.

With the Dr. I never asked if he was married. He was hot as hell. We were far from our significant others and I seduced him. OK, there I said it.

:devil:

But no more married men...I mean it. So many horny men so little time!!!

nympho with morals, i like that honey:D makes me a nympho with no morals:devil: :D i really do get in a state with it at times, permanently wet and can't stop fucking... climbing the bloody walls with arousal and frustration.

glad you share my view on the business of couples not making it right at home... my twisted hubby has a saying, he always rubs it in when some cuckholded guy is crying into his beer about a cheating wife... paul says, "who's fault is it mate... the hungry must be fed... and her cunt's too high up to eat fucking grass".... horrid man he is, i love him:D
 
LMAO!!!!

He's a bad boy. He must be spanked!

You guys are about every married man's dream (open or bi- wife) on this thread.

I just prefer to stay single now and pick and choose from the buffet.
So I am making up for lost time.


Kisses,

Mom

I found the cure for vaginal dryness "LEAVE HIM!"
 
I must confess that I have had an extramarital affair. I had it after I figured out that my marriage was over. I don't think you could have one and consider with a serious relationship with one person. I must admit the affair was the hottest sex I have ever had and hope that the sex will be just as hot after my divorce.


hotncmom said:
Have u engaged in one or more extramarital affairs?
 
Welcome to the thread Divetimesc.

I also wonder how someone can continue to have a serious relationship with their partner while they are engaged in another relationship. I know some can do that but not me.

Yes, the sex will be as hot if not hotter!!! However, may not be the same as making love to your soul mate...or so I have heard.

Although my friends said the first person after my spouse would be difficult, I found the first sexual encounter after my break up to be sooooo easy!
 
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