Exquisite anticipation

[nice lil troll]

The wonder of meeting someone new!

I am just bursting with excitment as I enter into a correspondance with a friend of a friend.

He is a Dom who seems, to this point, to have everything a princess could dream of in her Master. He is handsome, elegant, well mannered, a wonderful and compassionate Dom and incredibly funny.

I have only spoken with this wonder Dom on line, but my friend has spent month's working up to the appropriate introduction for us. She has known him in real life for many years. What better reference than that?

Yes, of course, we are not jumping to conclusions, but there are times when I become so excited about something and have no one to share it with. I just had to tell someone!

Who do you share those delicious little morsels of taboo information with?

The lifestyle can be so fulfilling, yet so lonely for those of us without access to a munch group etc.

Thanks, lit, for being here for me!

 

[CarolineOh]

Good for you! I hope it surpasses your expectations!

 

[DRxBlue]

Thank you VERY much!

Too often we must use this forum to spread sad news or warnings. This is a far better excercise in electronic data transfer.

i too, live on the fringes of civilization. It's a place that i've described, at least as far as a BDSM community is concerned, as the "outskirts of the rural areas surrounding the suburbs of the middle of nowhere".

If it weren't for Lit, i would have no idea how much interesting stuff i'm missing. (Hmmm.. mixed blessing there)

i really only wanted to send a hope that the possibilities you envision are outstripped by the actual results of your new venture.

i think you have found a wonderful family here, who will be glad to hear further developments. If the weather weren't so nice, i think you'd have had a lot more reaction already.

Thanks for the big smile,

 

[nice lil troll]

butterflies

Things are progressing nicely.

We have been talking quite regularly and much to my surprise, we are exploring all the possibilities. By that, I mean that we are considering the option of my friend and I joining this Dom in a poly situation.

Both my friend and the Dom have experience with poly, while I haven't.

Regardless, everytime I hear, "good girl", I get butterflies in my stomach and some other familiar twinges.

I was thinking that this thread might be a great place to journal some of what happens when moving from on line to real life. We are not engaging in a D/s relationship on line, but as many other threads suggest, there are many issues involved when first meeting a Dom or sub for the first time.

It also helps me to work through some of the many issues that are bound to slap me in the face and make me want to weep! Yes, I have been in this situation before and have some idea what to expect!

What do you think, everyone?

 

[zetacon4]

Hi Lil Troll!

I feel a bit jealous of you in a nice way. Sure will follow your progress. Would like to know what a good successful poly relationship is like. Don't know if I would be truly happy in one, but seems like a workable idea. Hope you experience all the happiness your heart can hold!

 

[nice lil troll]

Thank you everyone!

I appreciate the support given to an anonymous screen name

A bit of background:

My friend has been in the lifestyle for 20 years or so. She is a wonderfully attractive, sweet, kind and intelligent submissive who has been involved in the more formal aspect of BDSM for many years. She has been friends with Him for nearly that long.

She and I have been friends for about six months and are very close.

Initially, this began with her discussing me with Him and then her inviting me to contact Him. She feels that we will be "good for one another."

We began chatting and then went to a private chat room with my friend. The discussion twisted and turned until my friend and I found ourselves in a situation wherein we were being invited to explore poly with Him.

Oddly enough, he gives me those infamous butterflies with a single word or command. The thought of Him taking me, using me is highly exciting. But, in addition, the thought of sharing a household with my lovely friend is equally as exciting, reassuring, heartwarming. To live as a unit with shared responsitilities has many advantages, not the least of which is love and support.

She and I will be meeting sometime in the next three weeks. Then, if I feel comfortable, she will take me to Him. I am not certain as of yet as I have only been chatting with him for a short while, by comparison. However, I trust Him and respect Him if based only upon my friend's high regard for Him. If she says He is what He is, then I believe it.

We believe that our care for one another will take out many of the natural aspects of a new poly relationship. We will be able to manage those things that generally lead to power issues between subs and "pecking order."

This may not come to pass. Be aware of that. However, the worst that happens is that I will have made one, possibly two wonderful friends in real time.

A win/win situation, if you ask me!

 

[Cirrus]

I share your anticipation...my boyfriend and I have just last night formally agreed to begin a D/s relationship.

Hope all goes well, this Dom sounds great...one surely any sub would envy. Keep us posted, have fun, and best wishes.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

New Year ~ Feel Good Bump

In spite of all the "woe is me," "i need help," threads in the recent past, i came across this little gem.

For those of you with a silent dream, vocal opinion, or just tired of hearing how bad things can be, this bump's for you.

 

[Marquis]

Poly...

I'd be happy too.

 

[shy slave]

AA

What a good thread to start the new year with.

Three years on...any ideas what happened next??