Exposed ??

[CaptainAhab]

My SO and I love the "exhibitionist" stories on literotica. Both of us want her to be able to flash men in a public place like the mall, but we are really concerned with either getting kicked out or getting into a spot that we can't get out of with an over eager voyer.

Has anyone actually done this sort of thing, or is it strictly for fantasy??

 

[EJFan]

NIP

hey capt.

NIP, or naked in public, is not purely a fantasy type thing. it's quite real and often practiced. there are sites w/voyeur pics (like projectvoyeur.com) that people take of themselves or others while NIP.

since i've never had this particular kink, i can't speak from experience. from a psychological point of view, however, i CAN say that the possibility of getting caught is part of the turn-on. you take a risk when you expose yourself to someone in public and it's not very legal. if you do it and get away with it, that's the pay-off... and if you're doing it as a couple, i'd imagine it's a pay-off that continues all the way home and right up to the point where you're sweaty and balled up on the living room floor.

 

[Machiavellian]

I would suggest using EXTREME caution - it is against the law in allot of places, you might want to consder leaving it a fantasy or somehow practicing it among friends that won't take offence to it.

 

[white_mage_goddess]

Let me second that. You can go to jail for this. I'm an exhibitionist myself, but I recommend limiting your public activities to an occasional grope and saving nudity for the internet There are plenty of people more than happy to watch you on webcam!

You can also get off on a little verbal exhibitionism in public. Like going through the drive through at mcdonalds and saying to the employee "I just had awesome nasty anal sex with my bf/gf and it felt so good!"

 

[peachykeen]

I kind of have a problem with this 'flashing' thing. I mean, okay, on the one hand you can say, 'oh it's just a little harmless thing, what's the big deal' if that's how you feel about it. The problem is that it is non-consensual. Whomever it is that you are flashing, if it is just a random thing as opposed to a set-up, is just going on about their daily business and has every right to do so without being confronted with someone else's naked bits.

Now, obviously, many of us - and I presume most of us here - perhaps do not really mind being confronted with someone else's naked bits. However is it right to then assume that it is okay with everyone in the entire world? You have no way of knowing whether or not the 'flashee' will just think "oh hey wow, there go some naked bits, cool" or if they might, in fact, find it anything from mildly disturbing to downright upsetting. In short, I just don't think you have a right to inflict your particular perv on whoever, whenever, even though it may seem to you harmless fun. Aside from being generally inappropriate and risky, it's just plain rude and inconsiderate. The people at the mall aren't there for your amusement, they're there to go to Penney's and buy some towels and get an Orange Julius.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Depends where you live. There are places where it is perfectly acceptable and you will not risk any legal repercussions. That being said, I agree it is not always so cool to assume others are going to want to be flashed, especially in an environment where there may be children. If you still want to go ahead, I would suggest not picking places like malls as they are confined, so get away is difficult if someone is going to get nasty...and they are usually crowded so there is a greater risk of objection.

Of course, there can also be accidental flashings like the time I had no underwear on and forgot, bending over to look at something on a lower shelf in a shop....when I felt the breeze, I jumped up and spun around to see an elderly couple walking toward the shop with enormous grins from ear to ear.

Probably some of the best places are those less populated and open..a beach, forest path, side of the road etc. Sort of might take the pleasure out of it if you end up arrested or mass abused. Have fun and play safe.

Catalina