Exploring one's kinks with a partner - your take?

[KinkyStuff]

Long time lurker, first time poster - thank you authors for some wonderful stories, please continue

So I have many kinks, but to summarise, all consensual, above age etc, and as long as both parties enjoy, it's all good with me

My current partner is very understanding and loving, and knows as much about me as anyone else has before. To give a quick run down of my kinks then: (Is this even the right way to do/say this?...)

I like watersports, nappies (diapers) (a central part of my kinks) lycra/spandex and anything shiny like satin knickers, pantyhose etc, pvc, rubber, getting both wet and messy in nappies, exploring what turns my partner on, giving oral much mor than receiving, and well, just enjoying female sexuality and sensuality in all it's kinkyness...

I'm 40, my girlfriend a few years older, and she knows about the above, but I also like some of the incest stories on here, particularly involving peeing / sons wearing mom's underwear etc. I'm attracted to bbw / older women, but love my current gf and find her very sexy. She's slim, and while I'm writing, I'd like to say I'm not looking for anyone else.

My question is about how much of yourselves you've shared. How much are you comfortable with? Is my compulsion to share everything self destructive? I want to use Literotica as a creative outlet just to share some fantasies. For instance, som mother-son stuff; but then I don't actually want to fuck my mum. I don't know. This has turned into a bit more of a stream of conciousness ramble than I'd intended, but hey, this is me, and I hope to get some interesting feedback / opinions anyway...

Happy writing,
KinkyStuff

 

[subwannabe]

Only you can answer your own question. Everyone's relationships are complex and different. If you have shared these things with your current girlfriend and it has not been self destructive then you have your answer with this relationship. You would probably get different results with a different relationship. There is a mate tor everyone and your odds change with every relationship based on a variety of factors. If you were to start a relationship with someone nonsexual who likes missionary only then you could expect her to run out the back door.