Hi all - first time poster. I have some questions on exploring some bondage and such. I hope this is the appropriate place (versus the How To forum). If so, please let me know!
My wife and I (both in our late 30's) have experimented with scarves but would like to go a step further and try some actual bondage. I have looked at a couple of sites and found some pretty incredible stuff. She loves the idea of wrist and ankle restraints, as well as some padded cuffs. I have suggested the idea of a collar but so far she isn't really sure of the idea. In "real" life, she is ALWAYS in control and I think the idea of truly coming under someones control kind of freaks her out some. I have told her that losing control doesn't mean she is powerless. She is my wife and I would never hurt or humiliate her unless she wanted me to.
Anyway, any suggestions on how to go about easing her mind on such things, sites for the gear, etc, and in general some basic guidelines? I appreciate your suggestions!
My wife and I (both in our late 30's) have experimented with scarves but would like to go a step further and try some actual bondage. I have looked at a couple of sites and found some pretty incredible stuff. She loves the idea of wrist and ankle restraints, as well as some padded cuffs. I have suggested the idea of a collar but so far she isn't really sure of the idea. In "real" life, she is ALWAYS in control and I think the idea of truly coming under someones control kind of freaks her out some. I have told her that losing control doesn't mean she is powerless. She is my wife and I would never hurt or humiliate her unless she wanted me to.
Anyway, any suggestions on how to go about easing her mind on such things, sites for the gear, etc, and in general some basic guidelines? I appreciate your suggestions!
