Explain Online Attraction to Me.

[Rex1960]

A very happy ending, I must say.
My attractions haven't quite ended that way, lol. I usually just want to fuck their brains out.
JL

... and what else than the brain could it be here in cyberspace...
not to mention that i bet you're good at it

Rex

 

[russell]

attractions

it is very weird ...sometimes after i get to know someone and i have talked to them on the phone i can hear their vocie in their writing.. sometimes i can hear them before we talk on the phone...
btw Rex...JL is AWESOME

 

[Starblayde]

Re: attractions

btw Rex...JL is AWESOME

Seconded, Motion carried!

 

[sunstruck]

Jumping Jesus On A Pogo Stick

I'd like to see that.

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

So when are you going to tell us how this

person is JL???? There are inquiring minds want to know!

Hope you are having a great day

Holden

 

[Private Vasquez]

Re: Spanner in the works

Any way, I dont trust online attractions and yea I have had them and I think they are great. However As much as I might click with a lass online, I need to click with her physicaly. The internet is a great place to meet people, esp those with similiar views as one's self but personally for me I need both the physical and the mental.

I'm so with you on that one. I have lots of friends online. Very good friends, but I refuse to let things go further than friendship. There have been feelings, but it's as simple as not acting on them. For me, it's very easy to not act on certain feelings online because it is just the computer and not someone standing in front of you.

More power to those who have found love online, it's just not my cup of tea.

 

[Oilpainter]

It is ironic but also very apt that attraction online starts with spirit which shines through in the words one writes as opposed to physical attraction. I think it is the spirit behind the words which attracts others more than anything.

 

[nasty]

It's your AV, Juicy. No, seriously. i agree with everyone that says, it's the words, and style that people post.

 

[juicylips]

Re: So when are you going to tell us how this

person is JL???? There are inquiring minds want to know!

Hope you are having a great day

Holden

Hello, H.

I'm not speaking of any particular person. There have been very few that have attracted me instantly and they know who they are.

I was just wondering how everyone else responded to certain people online. Was it just the words, attitude they conveyed or the whole package.
JL

 

[bluemuse]

Intangibles....

Much like r/l attraction, I find that there are many intangibles with online attraction. Oddly enough......there really is chemistry (at least for me) possible between two people online. This flies in the face of everything that I've ever believed........I'm a very organic based person. And as such........I will need to see, feel, and smell him to fill in those last few blanks........before taking the attraction to the next level.

The thing that I enjoy about online relationships (friendships), is that there is a freedom in expressing yourself........I don't put up any fronts.......no masks.......I'm just myself. Of course there is always the chance that the other person is completely bullshitting you. But hey.....THAT happens in r/l as well........doesn't it?



bluemuse

 

[plasticman33]

Re: Intangibles....

Much like r/l attraction, I find that there are many intangibles with online attraction. Oddly enough......there really is chemistry (at least for me) possible between two people online. This flies in the face of everything that I've ever believed........I'm a very organic based person. And as such........I will need to see, feel, and smell him to fill in those last few blanks........before taking the attraction to the next level.

The thing that I enjoy about online relationships (friendships), is that there is a freedom in expressing yourself........I don't put up any fronts.......no masks.......I'm just myself. Of course there is always the chance that the other person is completely bullshitting you. But hey.....THAT happens in r/l as well........doesn't it?



bluemuse

I'm hopping the next flight for the coast! You can see, feel and smell me all you want!!! (I'm not bullshitting)

(Maybe a little, about the flight that is!)

 

[bluemuse]

Re: Re: Intangibles....

I'm hopping the next flight for the coast! You can see, feel and smell me all you want!!! (I'm not bullshitting)

(Maybe a little, about the flight that is!)

A little bullshitting is to be expected...lol! Hey! Weren't you out my way last week?



bluemuse

 

[LukkyKnight]

How does it work for you?

Online attraction is like the sound of a freezer ziploc bag full of Pinot Grigio hitting the pavement behind you after some chump drops it from a third story apartment, making you wonder what happened and why you're damp in places you weren't a moment ago.

 

[Private Vasquez]

Re: Re: Explain Online Attraction to Me.

freezer ziploc bag full of Pinot Grigio

I hate when people keep their pinot in plastic bags.

 

[LukkyKnight]

I understand, Vasq, but I pondered the question and that's what came out. You turn around and it's not obvious, there's an inexplicable nature to the whole affair, but even though your heart's beating a little more rapidly it's not a threat response...

 

[Private Vasquez]

That's true, and those are the feelings that I choose not to act on.

 

[LukkyKnight]

Not?

Ah well, once upon a time I found magic, and I would not undo it now. It's been many, many years... um... winter of 98-99 sometime, and the cold swirled 'round me inside and out until a crytalline moment - a beautiful bond blossomed. No, I'd not have missed that...

 

[Dream_Chaser]

being a dreaded newbie

I was instantly attracted to a lady here. she was fun and flirty at first but when I tried to grow closer she slammed the door or in this case stopped the swing in my face. live and learn, I go slower now

 

[juicylips]

That's true, and those are the feelings that I choose not to act on.

You are so right, PV.

You do have a choice on whether to act on something or not. It's not easy when the attraction is really strong, but you can make a decision and stick to it.

Maybe I should clarify a bit. Not necessarily the attraction, but how far you take it. If you allow it to interfere with real life, or allow your emotions to progress farther than mere attraction. Again, it does happen. You recognize it and fix it..in my case...I do it almost immediately.
JL

SB....I'm still working on that part. Immediately is taking longer.

 

[TWB]

It is all a wonderful fucking mystery to me, JL.

 

[bluemuse]

Re: being a dreaded newbie

I was instantly attracted to a lady here. she was fun and flirty at first but when I tried to grow closer she slammed the door or in this case stopped the swing in my face. live and learn, I go slower now

Poor baby! Did you get slapped down?



bluemuse

 

[Dream_Chaser]

Re: Re: being a dreaded newbie

Poor baby! Did you get slapped down?



bluemuse

Yep but it was worth it. her touch was magnificent (in my dreams anyway). if she chose to do it that way again she might find that she would be pressed against that swing with me right behind her grinding

 

[bluemuse]

Re: Re: Re: being a dreaded newbie

Yep but it was worth it. her touch was magnificent (in my dreams anyway). if she chose to do it that way again she might find that she would be pressed against that swing with me right behind her grinding

There you go again! *SLAP*



bluemuse

 

[Dream_Chaser]

Wow

I don't learn quickly do I?

 

[plasticman33]

Re: Re: Re: Intangibles....

A little bullshitting is to be expected...lol! Hey! Weren't you out my way last week?



bluemuse

Yep! Out in the desert though, you said temperatures over 90 were to much for you, remember?