Hello. This will be a LONG post and since I'll be looking at the replies, I'd appreciate it if you read the whole thing *first* 
And yes, I am demanding and exacting about how I'm creating my life. I like it that way. If you don't or you don't mske demands of yourself, please keep looking.. I'm sure your match is somewhere else.
Here's my basic info and a whole bunch of essay information about what I'm looking for.
My age: 37
location: Washington D.C.
Geographic range of your matches: I'm open to hearing from women in the midatlantic states and nevada.
Your educational level: PhD, but please don't hold it against me! ;-) I was also ordained in 1996.
Minimum education level desired for your matches: attended some undergrad
courses/obtained their Bachelor's.
Your current relationship status: I'm in a polyfidelitous relationship and within bounds, we both/all date others.
I'm open to hearing from women currently in another sexual relationship.
Type of relationship you might like to have with a match
iscreet but sexy; polyamorous (more than casual but not sexually exclusive); long- term/commited.
I'm ultra femme and prefer hearing from other women who identify as more femme
I'm actively bisexual and I'm open to hearing from any bi woman who is a potential match, involved with a man or not.
My "essay" answers.
First, I'm ideally looking for a bisexual (or better trisexual -- wanting both men and women at the same time-- long term polyfidelitous partner, who wants a matriarchal or female focused) bond but I'm also realistic enough to know that means I need to date/meet/relate to a lot of women in the process. So if you're a close match I'm open to almost whateverworks between us. (Though I'm *not* joining a threesome with you and your husband of less than 6 years. If you, I, him *and* my hubby all get along well together non-sexually, we *might* play as a threesome, if we *all* want it.) Please notice that I keep mentioning "female focused" and I'm serious. In my world a harem would be a bunch of women and a few, well trained splendid mean whose sole focus was my pleasure NOT a man's. So all you guys who think you might introduce me to your gfs for hot sex will find that I could care less if you enjoy yourselfand your sex experience will be terrible. So please save us both the bother and don't ask!
I'm a passionate, successful healer, entrepreneur, mentor, spiritualist, Domme, technology geek and personal development/freedom junkie. If you're into astrology at all (I am a little) I'm well described as a Leo-Leo. My friends would tell you that I'm a lot of fun at a party, though I'd rather be on a quiet strip of beach any day. With little prompting they'd tell you that I care deeply for them and that I've got it together, though I know how flaky I can be. They'd also tell you that I can be pretty domineering and controlling, though I think I do it from love, and they'd be right. I'm passionate about everything I do/think/feel or I don't bother with it. That's really honest and what I'm truly like! <g>.
I love to kiss, caress and taste all over. I enjoy the risk of semi-public intimacy. Sex talk and nudity are natural to me. I adore tasting & basking in my lover's essence. I dream about finding the woman who is equally passionate about herself, her ambition & her sexuality; who KNOWS great sex is in her head.
If you're into physical descriptions -- which I'm not... I truly believe that inner beauty is the most important -- I'm a very attractive (some tell me beautiful <g>) with a very curvy (not fat but still nice), size 12/8, "Marilyn Monroe-esque" 43/31/41 figure. My real(!!) 38DDD breasts compensate for a lot I'm definitely Pacific-Islander looking. I'm a non-smoker, drug/disease free and enjoy the rare glass of champagne. No kids (can't have my own) though I enjoy most kids' company. I've been married to the man of dreams for ten years but, he's still a man... and I learned a long time ago that I am definitely bisexual. I also prefer to have sex a lot more often than he does. My goal is a lifetime Heinlein-like "nest" though at this time I'm looking for a woman to include as a long term triad, V or quad. I've been in both before and I personally think a loving supportive triad is an amazing structure. I've been actively bi for 20+ years and have the great fortune of many incredible sexual experiences, including a few fabulous orgies! I also spent 4 months training as a Domme and I really enjoy finding an intelligent challenging but generally good little slave girl.
PLEASE NOTE: I am in a legal marriage with a straight D/D free husband and I have been practicing polyfidelity for the last 5+ years. We are ending a triad now because we're going different ways and we are actively looking for a triad or quad/nest partner. (I am also looking for a bisexual gf for a physically, mentally and emotionally intimate LTR.)
Jealous lesbians or other envious jealous insecure people need not read further. Please. No matter what you're thinking as you read this we are not a match and I will make you crazy because I have no reason at all to change and knowing you will not make me do it. (Truly, for if that was posible I'd have done it for a recent love who I almost moved heaven and earth for, until I regained my sanity.) Just know I wish you much success in your search.
Part of my life's pleasures include great sex, great food, learning, spiritual development, cities, playing with my dogs, nieces and nephews, sexy conversation, discussing interesting ideas and feeling really good... all of which I hope to do with you. I value honesty, determination, intelligence, creativity, personal development and persistence. I enjoy travel, good conversation, music, food and books; dancing, hanging out and generally I do only that which I think is fun, or that makes me and/or those I love happy. Fortunately I have the means to do that. I also travel a lot (mostly to Silicon Valley, Chicago, LA and San Fran) and am looking forward to relocating to Vegas May/June 2003. Want to join me?
I'M LOOKING FOR: I'm really looking for a woman who wants to become everything wonderful she knows she's capable of, even if she doesn't show that to others. (And she is willing to change herself or do whatever it takes to get what she wants.) She'll enjoy many of the same activities that I do, and is always willing to try something or go someplace new. I truly believe in a polyamorous life, going after all the joy, glorious pleasures and personal dreams that are out there to be had. My ideal woman is ambitious, sexy, smart, well-rounded, attractive, determined, mature, open-minded, self-aware and willing to be unconventional. If you want physical attibutes, she is also 23-47, dark haired, shorter, asian, hispanic or caucasian. Other preferred qualities include being ambitious, trisexual, talented, dynamic, dog and kid lover, libertarian, and asia-phile. You must be *committed* to honesty, truth, acceptance, growth, open-ness, mental, spiritual, emotional and physical fulfillment/connection and to be unfolding your true self, whoever that may be. However, if you smoke, are an alcoholic in training, use drugs, have or are at risk for any STDs, are semi-literate or don't like to use English, have big cultural hang-ups (about your culture or mine), hate reading and learning, and/or only want to be friends long enough to have sex with an experienced woman with big tits... I wish you luck in your search. Though I can appreciate you as you are, I am not the one you're looking for.
Are you dramatic, adventuresome, self-aware, joy-seeking, someone who loves to read, eat good food and travel; intelligent, open and enjoy the beach/lake/water? Are you also a dark haired woman with a healthy, voluptuous -- curvy, (meaning busty, can see your toes beyond your tummy... <g>) figure, who enjoys your body and the sexual pleasure you're capable of? That's the type of woman I'm looking for.
Are you looking for and willing to be a part of, an incredible relationship, no matter how long it lasts? Then what are you waiting for? If this (mostly) describes you write me NOW Tell me about you, how you match what I'm looking for and what you're looking for. A G/PG picture would be great too.
Other: I have the means to support another woman in the fulfillment of her dreams and am comfortable with someone who dreams of being a housewife and caretaker/support of a loving poly family (because I'd really love to have kids though I can't have them of my physical body) OR you want to be a big executive who likes the fact that we have a full time housekeeping staff... it's a dream we're creating together. Let's live it, shall we?
if you're interested write me back with a G/PG pic showing your faceand telling me as much as you can about yourself. You can reach me here or at ladyt727@literotica.org. I have a voice verification method already set up, or, if you'd prefer I call you and voice verify, please leave me a number in your email. I'll call within one day of getting your note. I'm completely uninterested in cyber and pic exchange. We meet fairly immediatately after talking on the phone and determine if we have good chemistry sand go from there.
Regardless of your interest in me, please know I wish you much success in your search!
xoxoxo,
Teresita
PS. Since we are technically a couple, I should probably add that my husband Dan is 5'11' 170 lbs, 37, d/d free, dark haired, cute with average 'mediterranean' looks, very kind caring and passionate with an outrageous sense of humor, a long lasting 7' thick, cut cock and a gene simmons tongue that he loves to use to lick pussy. He routinely lasts through 4-6 45 minute to 1 hr sessions with me and a female lover on a typical sat or sunday of sex. I don't know how he does it when he's alternating his cock between two sexy women who are lying 'missionary style' on top of each other, making us both cum more as our pussies are filled and our clits rub together. Wow, is it geting warm in here? 8-p
PPS here's something I wrote about a bi"virgin"... I'm looking for a bright passionate woman who desires a similar experience... is that you?
===========================
About that Virgin
we'll make it a time I broke in a virgin to really trisexual sex because the times with boys are best described as point and shoot. I was 35 and Maggie was 28, Dark haired and eyed, caucasian with the most delicious breasts and pussy. Her stupid boyfriend had broken up with her and told her that she was frigid because she didn't have orgasms with him It turned out that she loved being orally worshipped and he hated that -- though he thought it just normal that she spend hours deep throating his cock. :-(
They tried having a male focused threesome before which she only found frustrating because she realized the other woman got her all hot and bothered but *he* didn't want the other woman licking or pleasing her.
Anyway, I met her online and we had coffee and then we all had dinner where all of this came out. Then we went back to my place. Maggie and I started kissing after she asked me to hypnotize her so she could relax more deeply. As the relaxation and sense of freedom came over her she began to make the most delicious mewing sounds. Then she began wildly pulling off my clothes (fortunately I was only wearing my usual dress sans bra, etc.) while undoing her bra, pants and asking me to rip off her panties. I had my husband sit on the other side of me and we began three way kissing. Then she was trying to get my husband naked and virtually begging to have her "soaking wet panties be taken off. So I had her sit in front of him and take of his briefs by shimmying her legs down his. (this didn't work out so hot,) them together we ripped (literally in two pieces) off her panties and then I had her lie on the coffee table legs spread wide where we proceeded to devour her soaking wet pussy. She wanted to lick me, so I had her watch Dan first and then had thier two tongues practice on me. (Generous, aren't I?)
Then we all kissed with she and I trying to lick up as much juice as possible as I made her masturbate more on the table. Then I held her hand and walked her to the bedroom where Dan began fucking her from behind while she licked me as I lay in front of her with my legs spread. Then we did the usual things we do like I 69 with her and he alternates between our pussies. Then we ladies share his cum coated cock. She kept being amazed that he lasted so long. Then after he finally came in her mouth (since she amazingly loves to deep throat) he had his usual quick recovery after licking both of us while Maggie and I lay on each other missionary style, kissing and rubbing our breasts together.
In all it was quite a weekend!
More personals stuff, since there's space.
Some words that describe me:
Cute, successful, busty, , experienced - on the spiritual path: committed, emotive, sexual, sun lover, sensual, well read, charming, demanding, forgetful, spontaneous, lazy, intense, unpredictable, freedom loving and HONEST. Actively bi since I was a teen. Blessed with the love of many women. Two incredible, awesome, triads. Financially, emotionally, mentally and spiritually secure.
Some words that don't describe me:
Outdoorsy, organized, boring, quiet, meek, pretentious, stupid, silly, interested in the "show", complacent.
On any given moment I'd rather be:
reading (personal/spiritual development, fantasy, business) eating a great meal, enjoying a conversation, doing a healing/transformation, wandering outside in a big city, exploring a new place, helping someone change themselves, dancing/singing, listening to music that tells a story, becoming even more of Me.
Talk to me about these things and I'll be interested: Any of the "I'd rather be" items, musicals/theater, interesting movies, metaphysical anything, freedom/politics, erotic/sexy stories, your dreams and goals and plans, something you're passionately happy about and excited in, marketing/strategic thinking, especially as it applies to business.
Things that turn me on:
Superior intelligence. Knowing and liking yourself. Ambition. Passion. A nicely shaped breast. Great calves. Hair piled high that reveals a great neck. Dancing and glorious that feel like life. Kissing. Back rubs. Sex talk/stories.
Things that turn me off:
Smokers, drinkers... anyone who needs a drug to feel better. Complacency. morality and "values". Non-acceptance. Attitude of blame.
This is what I think makes a successful relationship: *communication*, *honesty*, *understanding*, shared interests, acceptance of "flaws" of self and others, sexual attraction <-- it all boils down to sharing mental, emotional, spiritual and physical intimacy... that makes a great relationship.
In case you're wondering (and you *care* <g>) here are the characteristics of my ideal intimate partners...
My intimate partner must be:
passionate, intelligent, spiritual, interested in personal development, non-smoker, non/light drinker, honest, compassionate, sexy, pleasure seeking, open to new thoughts/experiences, well read, an eternal student, goal oriented, accepting
and it would be great if she is:
attractive, busty, adventurous, , self-confident, positively motivated, financially secure, organized, at peace with herself.
I value/cherish:
the experience of joy, freedom, honesty, truth, determination, my family, especially my husband and sisters, caring for others, wisdom (especially when I hate it <g>), love, inner beauty, personal/spiritual/mental development, intelligence, creativity and persistence.
A few things I know:
1) Inside us, we have the power to do anything. Anything. Trouble is, we have to clear out all the garbage in our minds and hearts to tap that power and most are too complacent to do so.
2) Love is about acceptance, freedom, commitment to truth, and knowing that becoming all that you Are may lead in different paths... especially if you don't practice acceptance, freedom and truth!
3) You can change your thinking -- and therefore your actions and reactions -- about anything. If you want to, there is a method you can use for almost instantaneous change. You just have to find it. (And someone out there has already done it.)
4) God (or whatever you call the Creator of the Universe) has far better things in mind for us than we could ever give or imagine for ourselves. Most people never experience all the joy in their lives because they can't believe that God wants them to be filled with life.
5) We're all doing what we want. Always. Some people just happen to be aware of it.
6) My outside world mirrors my inside life. When it's screwed up or starting to get that way, I'm going to fix me, my thinking, my actions before I fix someone else.
I dream about:
- helping a thousand people create million dollar incomes
- establishing a clan/tribe where we practice the above beliefs
- creating a charitable foundation that truly supports women of all ages and races step into their own power
- finding the woman who helps the synergy of my husband and I so that the power of three becomes 7, 8 or 9
- living on an island (with an airstrip and mountains) where my retreat center is based that is dedicated to inner power and self transformation
And yes, I am demanding and exacting about how I'm creating my life. I like it that way. If you don't or you don't mske demands of yourself, please keep looking.. I'm sure your match is somewhere else.Here's my basic info and a whole bunch of essay information about what I'm looking for.
My age: 37
location: Washington D.C.
Geographic range of your matches: I'm open to hearing from women in the midatlantic states and nevada.
Your educational level: PhD, but please don't hold it against me! ;-) I was also ordained in 1996.
Minimum education level desired for your matches: attended some undergrad
courses/obtained their Bachelor's.
Your current relationship status: I'm in a polyfidelitous relationship and within bounds, we both/all date others.
I'm open to hearing from women currently in another sexual relationship.
Type of relationship you might like to have with a match
iscreet but sexy; polyamorous (more than casual but not sexually exclusive); long- term/commited.I'm ultra femme and prefer hearing from other women who identify as more femme
I'm actively bisexual and I'm open to hearing from any bi woman who is a potential match, involved with a man or not.
My "essay" answers.
First, I'm ideally looking for a bisexual (or better trisexual -- wanting both men and women at the same time-- long term polyfidelitous partner, who wants a matriarchal or female focused) bond but I'm also realistic enough to know that means I need to date/meet/relate to a lot of women in the process. So if you're a close match I'm open to almost whateverworks between us. (Though I'm *not* joining a threesome with you and your husband of less than 6 years. If you, I, him *and* my hubby all get along well together non-sexually, we *might* play as a threesome, if we *all* want it.) Please notice that I keep mentioning "female focused" and I'm serious. In my world a harem would be a bunch of women and a few, well trained splendid mean whose sole focus was my pleasure NOT a man's. So all you guys who think you might introduce me to your gfs for hot sex will find that I could care less if you enjoy yourselfand your sex experience will be terrible. So please save us both the bother and don't ask!
I'm a passionate, successful healer, entrepreneur, mentor, spiritualist, Domme, technology geek and personal development/freedom junkie. If you're into astrology at all (I am a little) I'm well described as a Leo-Leo. My friends would tell you that I'm a lot of fun at a party, though I'd rather be on a quiet strip of beach any day. With little prompting they'd tell you that I care deeply for them and that I've got it together, though I know how flaky I can be. They'd also tell you that I can be pretty domineering and controlling, though I think I do it from love, and they'd be right. I'm passionate about everything I do/think/feel or I don't bother with it. That's really honest and what I'm truly like! <g>.
I love to kiss, caress and taste all over. I enjoy the risk of semi-public intimacy. Sex talk and nudity are natural to me. I adore tasting & basking in my lover's essence. I dream about finding the woman who is equally passionate about herself, her ambition & her sexuality; who KNOWS great sex is in her head.
If you're into physical descriptions -- which I'm not... I truly believe that inner beauty is the most important -- I'm a very attractive (some tell me beautiful <g>) with a very curvy (not fat but still nice), size 12/8, "Marilyn Monroe-esque" 43/31/41 figure. My real(!!) 38DDD breasts compensate for a lot I'm definitely Pacific-Islander looking. I'm a non-smoker, drug/disease free and enjoy the rare glass of champagne. No kids (can't have my own) though I enjoy most kids' company. I've been married to the man of dreams for ten years but, he's still a man... and I learned a long time ago that I am definitely bisexual. I also prefer to have sex a lot more often than he does. My goal is a lifetime Heinlein-like "nest" though at this time I'm looking for a woman to include as a long term triad, V or quad. I've been in both before and I personally think a loving supportive triad is an amazing structure. I've been actively bi for 20+ years and have the great fortune of many incredible sexual experiences, including a few fabulous orgies!
I also spent 4 months training as a Domme and I really enjoy finding an intelligent challenging but generally good little slave girl.PLEASE NOTE: I am in a legal marriage with a straight D/D free husband and I have been practicing polyfidelity for the last 5+ years. We are ending a triad now because we're going different ways and we are actively looking for a triad or quad/nest partner. (I am also looking for a bisexual gf for a physically, mentally and emotionally intimate LTR.)
Jealous lesbians or other envious jealous insecure people need not read further. Please. No matter what you're thinking as you read this we are not a match and I will make you crazy because I have no reason at all to change and knowing you will not make me do it. (Truly, for if that was posible I'd have done it for a recent love who I almost moved heaven and earth for, until I regained my sanity.) Just know I wish you much success in your search.
Part of my life's pleasures include great sex, great food, learning, spiritual development, cities, playing with my dogs, nieces and nephews, sexy conversation, discussing interesting ideas and feeling really good... all of which I hope to do with you. I value honesty, determination, intelligence, creativity, personal development and persistence. I enjoy travel, good conversation, music, food and books; dancing, hanging out and generally I do only that which I think is fun, or that makes me and/or those I love happy. Fortunately I have the means to do that. I also travel a lot (mostly to Silicon Valley, Chicago, LA and San Fran) and am looking forward to relocating to Vegas May/June 2003. Want to join me?
I'M LOOKING FOR: I'm really looking for a woman who wants to become everything wonderful she knows she's capable of, even if she doesn't show that to others. (And she is willing to change herself or do whatever it takes to get what she wants.) She'll enjoy many of the same activities that I do, and is always willing to try something or go someplace new. I truly believe in a polyamorous life, going after all the joy, glorious pleasures and personal dreams that are out there to be had. My ideal woman is ambitious, sexy, smart, well-rounded, attractive, determined, mature, open-minded, self-aware and willing to be unconventional. If you want physical attibutes, she is also 23-47, dark haired, shorter, asian, hispanic or caucasian. Other preferred qualities include being ambitious, trisexual, talented, dynamic, dog and kid lover, libertarian, and asia-phile. You must be *committed* to honesty, truth, acceptance, growth, open-ness, mental, spiritual, emotional and physical fulfillment/connection and to be unfolding your true self, whoever that may be. However, if you smoke, are an alcoholic in training, use drugs, have or are at risk for any STDs, are semi-literate or don't like to use English, have big cultural hang-ups (about your culture or mine), hate reading and learning, and/or only want to be friends long enough to have sex with an experienced woman with big tits... I wish you luck in your search. Though I can appreciate you as you are, I am not the one you're looking for.
Are you dramatic, adventuresome, self-aware, joy-seeking, someone who loves to read, eat good food and travel; intelligent, open and enjoy the beach/lake/water? Are you also a dark haired woman with a healthy, voluptuous -- curvy, (meaning busty, can see your toes beyond your tummy... <g>) figure, who enjoys your body and the sexual pleasure you're capable of? That's the type of woman I'm looking for.
Are you looking for and willing to be a part of, an incredible relationship, no matter how long it lasts? Then what are you waiting for? If this (mostly) describes you write me NOW Tell me about you, how you match what I'm looking for and what you're looking for. A G/PG picture would be great too.
Other: I have the means to support another woman in the fulfillment of her dreams and am comfortable with someone who dreams of being a housewife and caretaker/support of a loving poly family (because I'd really love to have kids though I can't have them of my physical body) OR you want to be a big executive who likes the fact that we have a full time housekeeping staff... it's a dream we're creating together. Let's live it, shall we?
if you're interested write me back with a G/PG pic showing your faceand telling me as much as you can about yourself. You can reach me here or at ladyt727@literotica.org. I have a voice verification method already set up, or, if you'd prefer I call you and voice verify, please leave me a number in your email. I'll call within one day of getting your note. I'm completely uninterested in cyber and pic exchange. We meet fairly immediatately after talking on the phone and determine if we have good chemistry sand go from there.
Regardless of your interest in me, please know I wish you much success in your search!
xoxoxo,
Teresita
PS. Since we are technically a couple, I should probably add that my husband Dan is 5'11' 170 lbs, 37, d/d free, dark haired, cute with average 'mediterranean' looks, very kind caring and passionate with an outrageous sense of humor, a long lasting 7' thick, cut cock and a gene simmons tongue that he loves to use to lick pussy. He routinely lasts through 4-6 45 minute to 1 hr sessions with me and a female lover on a typical sat or sunday of sex. I don't know how he does it when he's alternating his cock between two sexy women who are lying 'missionary style' on top of each other, making us both cum more as our pussies are filled and our clits rub together. Wow, is it geting warm in here? 8-p
PPS here's something I wrote about a bi"virgin"... I'm looking for a bright passionate woman who desires a similar experience... is that you?
===========================
About that Virgin
we'll make it a time I broke in a virgin to really trisexual sex because the times with boys are best described as point and shoot. I was 35 and Maggie was 28, Dark haired and eyed, caucasian with the most delicious breasts and pussy. Her stupid boyfriend had broken up with her and told her that she was frigid because she didn't have orgasms with him It turned out that she loved being orally worshipped and he hated that -- though he thought it just normal that she spend hours deep throating his cock. :-(
They tried having a male focused threesome before which she only found frustrating because she realized the other woman got her all hot and bothered but *he* didn't want the other woman licking or pleasing her.
Anyway, I met her online and we had coffee and then we all had dinner where all of this came out. Then we went back to my place. Maggie and I started kissing after she asked me to hypnotize her so she could relax more deeply. As the relaxation and sense of freedom came over her she began to make the most delicious mewing sounds. Then she began wildly pulling off my clothes (fortunately I was only wearing my usual dress sans bra, etc.) while undoing her bra, pants and asking me to rip off her panties. I had my husband sit on the other side of me and we began three way kissing. Then she was trying to get my husband naked and virtually begging to have her "soaking wet panties be taken off. So I had her sit in front of him and take of his briefs by shimmying her legs down his. (this didn't work out so hot,) them together we ripped (literally in two pieces) off her panties and then I had her lie on the coffee table legs spread wide where we proceeded to devour her soaking wet pussy. She wanted to lick me, so I had her watch Dan first and then had thier two tongues practice on me. (Generous, aren't I?)
Then we all kissed with she and I trying to lick up as much juice as possible as I made her masturbate more on the table. Then I held her hand and walked her to the bedroom where Dan began fucking her from behind while she licked me as I lay in front of her with my legs spread. Then we did the usual things we do like I 69 with her and he alternates between our pussies. Then we ladies share his cum coated cock. She kept being amazed that he lasted so long. Then after he finally came in her mouth (since she amazingly loves to deep throat) he had his usual quick recovery after licking both of us while Maggie and I lay on each other missionary style, kissing and rubbing our breasts together.
In all it was quite a weekend!
More personals stuff, since there's space.
Some words that describe me:
Cute, successful, busty, , experienced - on the spiritual path: committed, emotive, sexual, sun lover, sensual, well read, charming, demanding, forgetful, spontaneous, lazy, intense, unpredictable, freedom loving and HONEST. Actively bi since I was a teen. Blessed with the love of many women. Two incredible, awesome, triads. Financially, emotionally, mentally and spiritually secure.
Some words that don't describe me:
Outdoorsy, organized, boring, quiet, meek, pretentious, stupid, silly, interested in the "show", complacent.
On any given moment I'd rather be:
reading (personal/spiritual development, fantasy, business) eating a great meal, enjoying a conversation, doing a healing/transformation, wandering outside in a big city, exploring a new place, helping someone change themselves, dancing/singing, listening to music that tells a story, becoming even more of Me.
Talk to me about these things and I'll be interested: Any of the "I'd rather be" items, musicals/theater, interesting movies, metaphysical anything, freedom/politics, erotic/sexy stories, your dreams and goals and plans, something you're passionately happy about and excited in, marketing/strategic thinking, especially as it applies to business.
Things that turn me on:
Superior intelligence. Knowing and liking yourself. Ambition. Passion. A nicely shaped breast. Great calves. Hair piled high that reveals a great neck. Dancing and glorious that feel like life. Kissing. Back rubs. Sex talk/stories.
Things that turn me off:
Smokers, drinkers... anyone who needs a drug to feel better. Complacency. morality and "values". Non-acceptance. Attitude of blame.
This is what I think makes a successful relationship: *communication*, *honesty*, *understanding*, shared interests, acceptance of "flaws" of self and others, sexual attraction <-- it all boils down to sharing mental, emotional, spiritual and physical intimacy... that makes a great relationship.
In case you're wondering (and you *care* <g>) here are the characteristics of my ideal intimate partners...
My intimate partner must be:
passionate, intelligent, spiritual, interested in personal development, non-smoker, non/light drinker, honest, compassionate, sexy, pleasure seeking, open to new thoughts/experiences, well read, an eternal student, goal oriented, accepting
and it would be great if she is:
attractive, busty, adventurous, , self-confident, positively motivated, financially secure, organized, at peace with herself.
I value/cherish:
the experience of joy, freedom, honesty, truth, determination, my family, especially my husband and sisters, caring for others, wisdom (especially when I hate it <g>), love, inner beauty, personal/spiritual/mental development, intelligence, creativity and persistence.
A few things I know:
1) Inside us, we have the power to do anything. Anything. Trouble is, we have to clear out all the garbage in our minds and hearts to tap that power and most are too complacent to do so.
2) Love is about acceptance, freedom, commitment to truth, and knowing that becoming all that you Are may lead in different paths... especially if you don't practice acceptance, freedom and truth!
3) You can change your thinking -- and therefore your actions and reactions -- about anything. If you want to, there is a method you can use for almost instantaneous change. You just have to find it. (And someone out there has already done it.)
4) God (or whatever you call the Creator of the Universe) has far better things in mind for us than we could ever give or imagine for ourselves. Most people never experience all the joy in their lives because they can't believe that God wants them to be filled with life.
5) We're all doing what we want. Always. Some people just happen to be aware of it.
6) My outside world mirrors my inside life. When it's screwed up or starting to get that way, I'm going to fix me, my thinking, my actions before I fix someone else.
I dream about:
- helping a thousand people create million dollar incomes
- establishing a clan/tribe where we practice the above beliefs
- creating a charitable foundation that truly supports women of all ages and races step into their own power
- finding the woman who helps the synergy of my husband and I so that the power of three becomes 7, 8 or 9
- living on an island (with an airstrip and mountains) where my retreat center is based that is dedicated to inner power and self transformation
