Ex Sex...

[gldflcn]

This will probably stop rather quickly but I didn't see any threads regarding sex with an ex...exwife, exhusband, exgf or ex bf...whatever the case..
I personally think that ex sex is a great way to break a dry spell, its familiar, fun, relaxed and both know what the other wants..
Any thoughts??

 

[FlaminLeviathan]

This will probably stop rather quickly but I didn't see any threads regarding sex with an ex...exwife, exhusband, exgf or ex bf...whatever the case..
I personally think that ex sex is a great way to break a dry spell, its familiar, fun, relaxed and both know what the other wants..
Any thoughts??

Well aslong as both know its only for the sex then I dont see anythin wrong with it then again it could bring back memories and they might end up fallin for eachother again only to repeat the never endin cycle

 

[gldflcn]

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Well aslong as both know its only for the sex then I dont see anythin wrong with it then again it could bring back memories and they might end up fallin for eachother again only to repeat the never endin cycle

I would agree but from a man's standpoint is there a downside? other than the ex thinking it is a way to get back with you?
I have been in that situation and also have a couple of female friends that have admitted to thinking that sex was the way back in with her man.
would love to hear a females perspective..

 

[SexySeaNymph]

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I think it really depends on the feelings of the two people involved. I was in that situation once and HE was the one that thought it was a way back in. I just thought of it as sex.

 

[Forever_Gemini]

This will probably stop rather quickly but I didn't see any threads regarding sex with an ex...exwife, exhusband, exgf or ex bf...whatever the case..
I personally think that ex sex is a great way to break a dry spell, its familiar, fun, relaxed and both know what the other wants..
Any thoughts??

To me, this sounds like a booty call... nothing wrong with that!

 

[69forever]

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To me, this sounds like a booty call... nothing wrong with that!

I would love to have that opportunity again, such a talented mouth and pussy I have not met sinse. Or before. Alas, it'll never take place. Cann't seperate the emotions from the physical pleasure...thus never happen.

 

[brinkeedinkee]

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I would love to have that opportunity again, such a talented mouth and pussy I have not met sinse. Or before. Alas, it'll never take place. Cann't seperate the emotions from the physical pleasure...thus never happen.

I agree with 69...emotions run to strong. If that's not the case, snap it up.

 

[Forever_Gemini]

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I would love to have that opportunity again, such a talented mouth and pussy I have not met sinse. Or before. Alas, it'll never take place. Cann't seperate the emotions from the physical pleasure...thus never happen.

Unknown Quote:

"If I had my way with you, would you still respect me in the morning?"

... sort of curious if 'tis true..

 

[69forever]

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Unknown Quote:

"If I had my way with you, would you still respect me in the morning?"

... sort of curious if 'tis true..

Oh FG, i've learned a lot. You would have breakfast served to you and everything from it cleaned up, before I kissed your sweet cheek and bid goodbye. *leaving my phone number, e-mail, IM...*

 

[Forever_Gemini]

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Oh FG, i've learned a lot. You would have breakfast served to you and everything from it cleaned up, before I kissed your sweet cheek and bid goodbye. *leaving my phone number, e-mail, IM...*

Back to the original posted question: would you do that with your ex?!?

 

[gldflcn]

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Unknown Quote:

"If I had my way with you, would you still respect me in the morning?"

... sort of curious if 'tis true..

I would respect you...as long as you respected me..LOL
I appreciate the women weighing in the on the subject..

 

[gldflcn]

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I think it really depends on the feelings of the two people involved. I was in that situation once and HE was the one that thought it was a way back in. I just thought of it as sex.

SSN I was going to post on your thread but you were nice enough to post on mine I wanted to say that I looked at your pics and you are a very beautiful woman...thanks for sharing...

So if you were in it for the sex..how was it?? what did he do that made him worth messing with again??

 

[69forever]

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Back to the original posted question: would you do that with your ex?!?

I Know I couldn't. There could be no sex without all the old passion and love and bitterness spilling out. Cann't go there.

 

[Forever_Gemini]

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I Know I couldn't. There could be no sex without all the old passion and love and bitterness spilling out. Cann't go there.

I tend to agree...

So, are we still on, lmao

 

[69forever]

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I tend to agree...

So, are we still on, lmao

Whenever, wherever, how can I lick thee, let me count the ways.

 

[Succulent-one]

This will probably stop rather quickly but I didn't see any threads regarding sex with an ex...exwife, exhusband, exgf or ex bf...whatever the case..
I personally think that ex sex is a great way to break a dry spell, its familiar, fun, relaxed and both know what the other wants..
Any thoughts??

Euwwwww

You would have to be insane! They call it baggage for a reason! Sexual issues have been the cause of a couple of my breakups. No way would I want to be put in that siutation again.

 

[69forever]

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Euwwwww

You would have to be insane! They call it baggage for a reason! Sexual issues have been the cause of a couple of my breakups. No way would I want to be put in that siutation again.

I think sexual issues are number one for breakups, followed by money. Breakups for sexual reasons tend to be the most bitter.
You cheated...she cheated...dishonesty is a bitter pill to swallow.
And it leaves a bad taste in your mouth. As much as I will always love her, it could never happen again.

 

[gldflcn]

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I think sexual issues are number one for breakups, followed by money. Breakups for sexual reasons tend to be the most bitter.
You cheated...she cheated...dishonesty is a bitter pill to swallow.
And it leaves a bad taste in your mouth. As much as I will always love her, it could never happen again.

I think that when you end b/c of a sexual reason then it can just get REAL ugly REAL quick...but I was thinking about those time when you meet maybe stay together for a little bit and maybe have some pretty passionate sex, but the rest of it just doesn't work...so you separate...but to have one more roll in the sheets..

 

[SexySeaNymph]

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SSN I was going to post on your thread but you were nice enough to post on mine I wanted to say that I looked at your pics and you are a very beautiful woman...thanks for sharing...

So if you were in it for the sex..how was it?? what did he do that made him worth messing with again??

YW darling and thanks for looking.

The sex was fantastic! I never would've went back if it wasn't.

I think the reason I went back was because he was my first and only lover. I thought I was in love with him until I found out that he was being unfaithful. I left for a few months, but he was such an incredible lover that I just had to go back for more. He didn't have to do anything really...he could turn me on just by looking at me.

He wanted me back...said he was sorry, but I knew better. He would've just done it again. So I used him for sex a few times and then left him for good.

It took me a long time to find anyone that came even close to making me feel the way he did.

He was the only one I ever did that with and I know that given the chance I could never do that again.

 

[Arden]

Sex with my Ex?

~Smiles angelically~ HELL NO!

I lost all respect for him when we were married, and honestly, I wouldn't even consider letting him touch me today. Gives me the creeps even thinking about it!

But I won't pass judgement on those that 'Ex Sex' works for. The only thing I'd worry about in having 'Ex Sex' would be disease. I'd be concerned with how much the Ex has been playing the field. I hate surprises.

Gorgeous AV, SexySeaNymph... nice to meet you!

 

[SexySeaNymph]

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~Smiles angelically~ HELL NO!

I lost all respect for him when we were married, and honestly, I wouldn't even consider letting him touch me today. Gives me the creeps even thinking about it!

But I won't pass judgement on those that 'Ex Sex' works for. The only thing I'd worry about in having 'Ex Sex' would be disease. I'd be concerned with how much the Ex has been playing the field. I hate surprises.

Gorgeous AV, SexySeaNymph... nice to meet you!

I totally agree with your statement. Makes me sick to think of him now. Oh and it's a good thing we used condoms.

Thank you and nice to meet you too!

 

[69forever]

Re: Sex with my Ex?

~Smiles angelically~ HELL NO!

~snip~

Gorgeous AV, SexySeaNymph... nice to meet you!

I love the AV too SSN, but like your pics from the thread better.
Got that 'stang all put away for the winter? lol

 

[gldflcn]

Re: Sex with my Ex?

~Smiles angelically~ HELL NO!

I lost all respect for him when we were married, and honestly, I wouldn't even consider letting him touch me today. Gives me the creeps even thinking about it!

But I won't pass judgement on those that 'Ex Sex' works for. The only thing I'd worry about in having 'Ex Sex' would be disease. I'd be concerned with how much the Ex has been playing the field. I hate surprises.

Gorgeous AV, SexySeaNymph... nice to meet you!

thank you for checking in and sounding off Arden..
Like I had said I was just curious as to what people thought of it and who had actually dabbled....

 

[gldflcn]

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YW darling and thanks for looking.

The sex was fantastic! I never would've went back if it wasn't.

I think the reason I went back was because he was my first and only lover. I thought I was in love with him until I found out that he was being unfaithful. I left for a few months, but he was such an incredible lover that I just had to go back for more. He didn't have to do anything really...he could turn me on just by looking at me.

He wanted me back...said he was sorry, but I knew better. He would've just done it again. So I used him for sex a few times and then left him for good.

It took me a long time to find anyone that came even close to making me feel the way he did.

He was the only one I ever did that with and I know that given the chance I could never do that again.

Thank you for sharing SSN....
I must say the feeling of how good it was was one of the reasons that I went back...yes condoms are a good thing....
I think what makes it so good at times is it is familiar..you know what he wanted..he knew what you wanted and it didn't take work to get there..
I know with a new lover that it can be fun to see what works and if this works for them...but sometimes you just want to "get in..get out...get on with your day"....

 

[tonitits]

Like Arden if it was my ex-husband ----no WAY!!!!!!!!!!!


Now a couple of my boyfriends, I might consider it. It depends on the situation and what cause the split to start with. For instance the first guy I feel in love with, not my ex, he moved out of state and there was never the real closure to our relationship and he was a great lover, we were so young!!!!

And also had relationships based primarily on friendship and sex and are still friends. If NEITHER of us was involved with someone else and noone else that would be hurt by our hooking up one more time. Maybe. But as long as either one of us was with someone else. No way. And I also think that you both have to know what each is expecting out of it. If one is trying to get back with the other, forget it. Just a booty call or one night stand, maybe.

Just my opinion. But as for me, I have the man I want and no other will do!