Evolving kinks

[switchersm]

I guess it's a bit like people with crippling mental illnesses who end up compulsively hoarding useless items.

First you start piling up comics you'll never read, then those eventually get buried under the excess furniture and unwashed clothes which start spilling out the door and into the living room and before you know it there's an unplugged double-door fridge in your 1 by 3 bathroom crammed with unidentified meats and it's oozing yellow slime from the base.

In my opinion, you describe compulsive and therefore pathological behavior that requires treatment.

But Missmixalot didn't ask about it. She asks the question whether kinks have evolved and changed. This is something completely different.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

My desire to be degraded grew (not sure if that's an evolution) and nothing was ever enough until I hit a point where I hated myself for what I was willing to do, and what it did to me, so I had to get out.

 

[subdudeme13]

My desire to be degraded grew (not sure if that's an evolution) and nothing was ever enough until I hit a point where I hated myself for what I was willing to do, and what it did to me, so I had to get out.

For sure our experiences have been different but what "scared" me was how far I was willing to go. I am putty in the hands of a skilled Domme and lucky for me they were all had more common sense than I did or do!

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

For sure our experiences have been different but what "scared" me was how far I was willing to go. I am putty in the hands of a skilled Domme and lucky for me they were all had more common sense than I did or do!

I get that. Unfortunately the guy who took me down that road didn't have the common sense.

 

[subdudeme13]

I get that. Unfortunately the guy who took me down that road didn't have the common sense.

I think it may be women have more common sense than men. I have switched and was always afraid I might go too far and did not have the experience as a top. I hope it was not a real bad experience for you. I know I was gagged a couple of times because I made too much noise, or so I was told!

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

It was the best experience of my life because it was totally degrading. It was the worst for the same reason.

 

[subdudeme13]

It was the best experience of my life because it was totally degrading. It was the worst for the same reason.

I have often thought I cannot be degraded because I love it so much. I guess if I was sent to a dive bar to give blow jobs to bums that might do it.

 

[Playwithmee]

I have never experienced being degraded, though it’s a fantasy of mine. But as a white male executive I have done degrading things such as go to porn theaters and be with other strangers that were so disgusting. It would get me off knowing how low I was willing to go, but I’m sure the limits have not been met, which is scary and exciting at the same time.

 

[Osacar]

Because I know her, there’s less action and more thoughts, resulting in the same energy, emotions and excitement

 

[lowcollar]

My kinks have definately evolved. Two years ago, after having sex for 40 years, I crossdressed for the first time.