Everyone's slightly bi?

PoliteSuccubus

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I told my friend that while I am totally straight that I enjoy looking at the female form as beatiful. She said that was my bi side coming out, and everyone is a bit bi.

I'm not sexually attracted to women, so...I don't see that reasoning.

I also like how fluidly beatiful some animals are, and the lay snow drifts across the road late at night and catches the light from the lamps, and.............well, a lot of things.

So I don't see how that could be the logical conculsion.

Thoughts?
 
PoliteSuccubus:
"I also like how fluidly beautiful some animals are.."

That's your bestiality side coming out..

I agree with you, I'm tired of hearing how everyone is slightly bi, or has a bisexual side, or is naturally bi. I believe the human brain can appreciate beauty regardless of the gender, or species, or state-of-being of any object. I also believe that all, healthy, human beings can deeply love other humans, again, regardless of gender. To label that bisexuality does both a disservice to bisexuals and the multitude of different emotions and feelings a person can have.
 
Never's only saying this cause if she ever has bi leanings, she's gotta come find me.

Not everyones bi, or gay or straight. But everyone is one of those categories, dammit.
 
Help help I'm being repressed.

Stop repressing me, you bastard

Hang on, you're not a repressed gay man, carry on.
 
We are all sexual. That is really all one can ever say. Choose a label if you must. I think the doing so just limits the possibilities.
 
bi tendencies...?

I agree hole heartedly that societies need to label and catagorize
every aspect of human behavior...is frustrating, to say the least.
Especially if you are an individual who cann't be neatly stuffed
into one slot or another.

We are human beings. Humans have sexual relationships as a
part of living. As long as it's sexual relations between consenting
adults, it's nobodys business but their own what gender or form
is involved.

Being a bi male has been particularly difficult emotionally and
socially. Gays and straights alike look at you as a freak. I hate
it. I am who I am...took me a lot of years to get to this point. lol
 
I guess I'd like to think that everyone has the potential to be bi. This goes back to my ideas about being attracted to a person rather than what they keep in their pants. I'd like to think that if Jerry Falwell met a guy who really embodied everything he's ever wanted in a partner, they could have a loving relationship. (Not bloody likely, I know!)

And I think I speak for Netzach as well as myself in saying that the word "bisexual" is too limiting. :)
 
I think everyone has some curiosity at times, to one degree or another. But I disagree that everyone is slightly bisexual. I guess it would be like saying I'm slightly straight because I'm attracted to guys, when I'm bisexual.
 
Come to think of it, I'd prefer it if everyone was slightly bi.
 
Never said:
PoliteSuccubus:
"I also like how fluidly beautiful some animals are.."

That's your bestiality side coming out..

I agree with you, I'm tired of hearing how everyone is slightly bi, or has a bisexual side, or is naturally bi. I believe the human brain can appreciate beauty regardless of the gender, or species, or state-of-being of any object. I also believe that all, healthy, human beings can deeply love other humans, again, regardless of gender. To label that bisexuality does both a disservice to bisexuals and the multitude of different emotions and feelings a person can have.

I agree, and I think that is very well put.
 
I disagree totally with everyone having a slightly bi bent. While it is possible (and probable) that most people have thought about it
when they were younger or even played with someone once, it does not mean they are or were meant to be bisexual.

Beauty can and should be appreciated in whatever form one finds it. Thinking the female form is beautiful (if one is female or vice versa if one is a male) is not bisexual in the least.

Not that it matters, aunty mine. I know you are truly beautiful soul
who sees light and form where ever she looks.

lil girl

:rose:
 
apet4you said:
I disagree totally with everyone having a slightly bi bent. While it is possible (and probable) that most people have thought about it
when they were younger or even played with someone once, it does not mean they are or were meant to be bisexual.

Beauty can and should be appreciated in whatever form one finds it. Thinking the female form is beautiful (if one is female or vice versa if one is a male) is not bisexual in the least.

Not that it matters, aunty mine. I know you are truly beautiful soul
who sees light and form where ever she looks.

lil girl

:rose:


Thats right.
I get asked if I am a lesbian why do I do bdsm scenes with guys. I dont see the conflict myself. Just because Im lesbian doesnt mean I think males are icky to the touch or something.
 
Well, love and appreciation of beauty are not always factors of sexuality. I may find a painting beautiful, it doesn't mean i want to fuck it. I may love my best friend, but that still doesn't mean i want to fuck him, which is actually something I wish people would quit assuming.
 
I can't speak for everyone else but I am slighlty bi curious. I don't know if its just a faze or what but part of me wants to take the next step and experiment with a guy and the other part is telling me not to :(
 
Dumpling said:
But then how much is slightly ( like 50/50 ):D

Slighty
1. A small amount
2. Enough for them to be interested in me.

Actually, I guess I don't want everyone to be slightly bi, I just want everyone to have bad taste.
 
Never said:
Slighty
1. A small amount
2. Enough for them to be interested in me.

Actually, I guess I don't want everyone to be slightly bi, I just want everyone to have bad taste.
Oh I dont know Hun :) you proably taste VERY SWEET ;) >:kiss:
 
Never said:
I don't think so, I've been told I'm quite lemony.
I proably would sweeten you up:D keep it in Mind :) I'll be back again to check up on you:D
In the mean time SWEET Dreams here is a ((((Never))))) and I-----
throw you a :kiss:
Dumpling-->:rose: :kiss:
 
Dumpling said:
I proably would sweeten you up:D keep it in Mind :) I'll be back again to check up on you:D
In the mean time SWEET Dreams here is a ((((Never))))) and I-----
throw you a :kiss:
Dumpling-->:rose: :kiss:
Mhhhh,the last one off and the first one on again :)
well I Never would have thought :D -->:kiss:
 
i hate labels, but as a necessary evil i would say i am bi, i don't think everyone is bi, but i agree with alot that has been said here, i am often attracted to a person, their gender often plays little role, however on the otherhand i am def highly attracted to both men and women, i do crave both in a sexual sense, but again as for relationships it depends on the person, being open to all possibilities is what i enjoy.
 
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