Ettiquite question

CutieMouse said:
If one's neighbors (apartment building) are being mmm... loud, to the point of disruptive, whilst umm... "entertaining" one another (I'm not discussing movie night, BTW), is there a polite way to bring it up, without being the annoying wet blanket of a downstairs neighbor? I don't want to be a pain in the ass, but by the third hour of squeaking bedsprings and some chick screaming "OHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGOD!" (and it being 3am), I really really wanted to knock on his door and point out that in a pinch, panties do make a good gag substitute. (I didn't do so, as I thought it might reveal a bit more about *me* than I'd like my neighbors to know, and it felt a bit rude...)

LOL Oh, my gosh. If you do that, PLEASE post their response.

Beyond that I'd wait till the next day and say something. Interupting their . . . fun might make them a tad bit bitchy. Then if they won't be nice about it take it to the next level, your manager. If that doesn't work bring in the police. But it's always best to start with talking to them. Cause what if you went directly the manager and it turns out that all you had to do was ask them? They'd be pissed you brought in the manager.
 
CutieMouse said:
If one's neighbors (apartment building) are being mmm... loud, to the point of disruptive, whilst umm... "entertaining" one another (I'm not discussing movie night, BTW), is there a polite way to bring it up, without being the annoying wet blanket of a downstairs neighbor? I don't want to be a pain in the ass, but by the third hour of squeaking bedsprings and some chick screaming "OHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGOD!" (and it being 3am), I really really wanted to knock on his door and point out that in a pinch, panties do make a good gag substitute. (I didn't do so, as I thought it might reveal a bit more about *me* than I'd like my neighbors to know, and it felt a bit rude...)

Leave an anonymous note about it. "The whole building can hear you, please keep it down. "

Next note "Don't make us call the cops. Think of the report."
 
brioche said:
Leave an anonymous note about it. "The whole building can hear you, please keep it down. "

Next note "Don't make us call the cops. Think of the report."

Actually that might work better. Less embarrassing for all involved.
 
I fear I have been that girl for my Daddy's neighbors! E lives on the third floor, there are four floors and two apartments per floor, and I am pretty sure the entire place could hear me. :eek: One time in the summer the first-floor tenants (the only ones with a yard) were having an outdoor party, and Daddy's windows were open...and rather than calling out to God, I was squealing "DADDY! DADDY!" I bet they loooooved me. :eek:
 
My way would be to say something in a non-confrontational way, as in making cheeky humour of it so they are aware. Something along the lines of 'Hmmm, you two really know how to have fun and lift the roof off, though I'm not sure I can remain looking my glamourous self if I get woken at 3am by passionate gasps too often'. Most people would take the hint and remember to bite their lip or muffle it to some degree, if not then perhaps a stronger message or ask the Manager's advice. You could also as an alternative option ask him cheekily if he would mind kissing his friend when the moment arrives so you do not get disturbed from your dreams.

Catalina :catroar:
 
I'm with cat on this one... a humorous approach may work best.

"Hi there Tiger! You sure made the missus happy last night, I wish I got some that made me yell like that!"

Or "Wow! I sure am jealous of <insert name for gal here>, after the way she was going on last night! OMG! You must be awesome!"

Or *hand neighbor a ball gag* "Enjoy, with my compliments! Please use it after midnight!"
 
Evil_Geoff said:
Or *hand neighbor a ball gag* "Enjoy, with my compliments! Please use it after midnight!"
LOL! Love that one. If someone did that to me, it would make me laugh, I wouldn't be at all offended, AND I'd get the message.
 
Evil_Geoff said:
I'm with cat on this one... a humorous approach may work best.

"Hi there Tiger! You sure made the missus happy last night, I wish I got some that made me yell like that!"

Or "Wow! I sure am jealous of <insert name for gal here>, after the way she was going on last night! OMG! You must be awesome!"

Or *hand neighbor a ball gag* "Enjoy, with my compliments! Please use it after midnight!"

LOL :D
 
I also agree that humor will go miles on this and smooth over a potentially awkward situation.
Evil_Geoff said:
Or *hand neighbor a ball gag* "Enjoy, with my compliments! Please use it after midnight!"
This is my absolute favorite solution ever! :D
 
Yasashii_Kaze said:
I also agree that humor will go miles on this and smooth over a potentially awkward situation.

This is my absolute favorite solution ever! :D

LOL It's mine, too. Leave it to EG to come up with that great a suggestion. hehe
 
I was in the position of being the noisy one once (well actually I've always been noisy but that's another story) My neighbour, whose bedroom was through the wall poor thing, just dropped it into the conversation next time we saw each other, she put it humorously saying she was jealous and I took no offence and tried extra hard to keep the noise down from then on. Was a little embarrassing but not enough for any change in our neighbourly good terms.
 
I remember when my mom was staying with us she made some comment about us shutting the door when we were having sex. :eek: The door had been shut. :eek: I was a lot more careful after that.
 
My first boyfriend where I stayed at his parents home on many occasions, his room was next door to his parents; It haunts me to this day that I am a bit of a screamer and no-one ever said a word!!!
 
graceanne said:
LOL It's mine, too. Leave it to EG to come up with that great a suggestion. hehe


http://www.smilies4u.net/images/no_no/no_no_012.gif Hey, he might be pretty, but I don't think we look anything alike, though it is nice to know he agrees with me sometimes, especially with humour!! http://www.smilies4u.net/images/smile_grins_freude/smile_grins_freude_schilder_007.gif Mind you, I'm not sure I would want to give away a ball gag, and not have it used on me. :D


Catalina http://home.versatel.nl/topdownloads/erotiek/13.gif
 
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catalina_francisco said:
http://www.smilies4u.net/images/no_no/no_no_012.gif Hey, he might be pretty, but I don't think we look anything alike, though it is nice to know he agrees with me sometimes, especially with humour!! http://www.smilies4u.net/images/smile_grins_freude/smile_grins_freude_schilder_007.gif Mind you, I'm not sure I would want to give away a ball gag, and not have it used on me. :D


Catalina http://home.versatel.nl/topdownloads/erotiek/13.gif

God, cat, I love your smilies. lol
 
CutieMouse said:
It feels a bit awkward... Tuesday night, he got home from work and was hanging out relaxing to his favorite CD. Of Punk Metal. At 3am. I am all for unwinding after work, but waking CutieMouse up from a dead sleep with this vauge *THUD THUD THUD <insert muffled angst ridden punk lyrics here> THUDTHUDTHUDTHUDTHUD <angst> THUD!* results in one sleepy, pissed, vintage lingerie clad redhead banging on your door so hard you'd think it was the cops. (He did apologize profusely, and came downstairs to offer me a pound of gorumet coffee beans the next morning as an apology. LOL)

I don't wanna be the grumpy neighbor. I'm the quietest person in this entire wing of the building, and I know that; I don't expect other people to be as quiet as I am, I just hate getting woken up from a dead sleep. :(

*puts on punk music, turns it up high, waits with hopes for a vintage lingerie clad redhead to come banging on my door*

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
*puts on punk music, turns it up high, waits with hopes for a vintage lingerie clad redhead to come banging on my door*

Fury :rose:

*runs down to luxtry records to get some dead kennedys, and a new stereo with kick ass speakers*

Ok now I'm ready.
 
CutieMouse said:
If one's neighbors (apartment building) are being mmm... loud, to the point of disruptive, whilst umm... "entertaining" one another (I'm not discussing movie night, BTW), is there a polite way to bring it up, without being the annoying wet blanket of a downstairs neighbor? I don't want to be a pain in the ass, but by the third hour of squeaking bedsprings and some chick screaming "OHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGOD!" (and it being 3am), I really really wanted to knock on his door and point out that in a pinch, panties do make a good gag substitute. (I didn't do so, as I thought it might reveal a bit more about *me* than I'd like my neighbors to know, and it felt a bit rude...)

Proper etiquette: Bang loudly on their door and tell them to "shut the fuck up!"

That's the only real way of doing this while actually accomplishing the goal.
 
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