sassy_bitch
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I've been having phone sex with an online lover for a while now. I want to make things more.....steamy. What are some good lines to throw in to pull her over the top? Kinky is always good
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Rrrosyn
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You're ten steps above me all ready. My phone sex skills are bad. Very bad. I think my toys and the fact that I am quiet during sex and/or masturbation has a big part to play in that.
I also don't talk dirty. Geesh... the more I think about it, the more embarrassed I feel.
I also don't talk dirty. Geesh... the more I think about it, the more embarrassed I feel.
on_the_verge
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You just need a nasty and comforting teacher that will be open to it all. Suggestions are nice to hear and try, but actually diving into it and learning how to be a "good" cyber lover is the trick or may be?
Hi R,
I'm not very experienced, but I found myself enjoying phone sex very much as my partners likewise. Being verbal--noisy even is part of the key. I don't know...it's kind of like relaxing and having fun. We usually start by just talking and then talking about various sexual experience and getting comfortable and eventually you find something that turns one or the other of you on. And so on, and so forth. Nothing very profound, I realize. I just *love* hearing my phone lover coming and coming and coming. I find it quite a lot of fun and really prefer it to cyber by a LONG ways.
Of course if you ever want some private lessons, get in touch ;-),
Best,
Stephen
I'm not very experienced, but I found myself enjoying phone sex very much as my partners likewise. Being verbal--noisy even is part of the key. I don't know...it's kind of like relaxing and having fun. We usually start by just talking and then talking about various sexual experience and getting comfortable and eventually you find something that turns one or the other of you on. And so on, and so forth. Nothing very profound, I realize. I just *love* hearing my phone lover coming and coming and coming. I find it quite a lot of fun and really prefer it to cyber by a LONG ways.
Of course if you ever want some private lessons, get in touch ;-),
Best,
Stephen
Rrrosyn said:
Opportunity
Talking on the phone is a great opportunity to say how you feel about sexual situations, and it is sometimes easier than when you are with the person. If you are talking to your lover, it's a great chance to compare notes or talk about things you have done together and how they made you feel. When we have sex, we all to often never mention it again. Sometimes telling someone how something they did was so exciting to you can be a wonderful gift that costs you nothing to give. Words are so powerful that we miss out when we exclude language from our sex. When I was very young, I was talking to girlfriend on the phone. We were talking about sex, but not talking dirty. I just mentioned that I thought she had a really beautiful pussy. She started to cry. I said, "what's wrong?" She said no one had every said that to her and it was one of the nicest things anybody had ever said to her. Then she got really turned on.
Just give your phone sex buddy permission to say anything they want to and be encouraging and supportive. The fun will take care of itself.
Talking on the phone is a great opportunity to say how you feel about sexual situations, and it is sometimes easier than when you are with the person. If you are talking to your lover, it's a great chance to compare notes or talk about things you have done together and how they made you feel. When we have sex, we all to often never mention it again. Sometimes telling someone how something they did was so exciting to you can be a wonderful gift that costs you nothing to give. Words are so powerful that we miss out when we exclude language from our sex. When I was very young, I was talking to girlfriend on the phone. We were talking about sex, but not talking dirty. I just mentioned that I thought she had a really beautiful pussy. She started to cry. I said, "what's wrong?" She said no one had every said that to her and it was one of the nicest things anybody had ever said to her. Then she got really turned on.
Just give your phone sex buddy permission to say anything they want to and be encouraging and supportive. The fun will take care of itself.
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One thing I do that my lover enjoys is me telling her what to do with her dildo. I tell her what to do with it as she pretends its me. And then when I hear her cumming over and over again... mmm....
lovetoread
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Okay I dont get it,phone sex that is.
Maybe its because I have never participated-I'm shy ya'll know-but I dunno if the thought of playing with myself while someone hears it is a turn on....
Is it not a bit embarrassing? How do you plunge in and get it started?
Maybe its because I have never participated-I'm shy ya'll know-but I dunno if the thought of playing with myself while someone hears it is a turn on....
Is it not a bit embarrassing? How do you plunge in and get it started?
Embarrassed is the last thing i've ever felt during phone sex.....aroused, excited, naughty, hot-yes, yes, yes and yes!
The first time i did it it just sorted of happened...two friends talking about sex late one night......and ended with two orgasms =)
It makes me feel very sensual and sexual letting him hear me, and hearing the excitement in his voice is fantastic! I guess it's all about desire...him wanting me so bad, but only being able to hearf me and vice versa.
The only prob was once it was way too tempting to finish what we started on the phone in my bed! Just be careful if he is close by you may recieve a visitor after you hang up the phone
The first time i did it it just sorted of happened...two friends talking about sex late one night......and ended with two orgasms =)
It makes me feel very sensual and sexual letting him hear me, and hearing the excitement in his voice is fantastic! I guess it's all about desire...him wanting me so bad, but only being able to hearf me and vice versa.
The only prob was once it was way too tempting to finish what we started on the phone in my bed! Just be careful if he is close by you may recieve a visitor after you hang up the phone
lovetoread
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I am very tempted to do it,but being that I would be a virgin -gee that sounds strange- I am most afraid of not knowing what to do.
As for being tempted....ahh...now that would be a great fear.....
As for being tempted....ahh...now that would be a great fear.....
kodiakrocks
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What does Realy Really experienced mean?
You could do it...don't be shy...hesitate only for wisdom sake
- if invited...consider it carefully....and not for everyone
-your postings indicate the gift of words , but wow, can imagine what yours sound like
Yes. WORDS heard can bring TOUCH so close!
You could do it...don't be shy...hesitate only for wisdom sake
- if invited...consider it carefully....and not for everyone
-your postings indicate the gift of words , but wow, can imagine what yours sound like
Yes. WORDS heard can bring TOUCH so close!
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Re: What does Realy Really experienced mean?
Oh my...you really think I could do it with the right person?
I would be so nervous....
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As for the really really experienced part.... it just means I have posted over 300 posts...
kodiakrocks said:
Oh my...you really think I could do it with the right person?
I would be so nervous....
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As for the really really experienced part.... it just means I have posted over 300 posts...
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A word of caution
Phone sex is unbelievable--you have to experience it to know. But a word of warning: if your phone friend is long distance, it can be an expensive form of pleasure!! The first time I called a guy pal--just a pal and we ended up having the hotest phone sex--to the point where you don't care if your own grandmother picked up the phone and heard what you were saying or doing...and talking about something takes longer than doing it w/o talking...sooooooo....2.5 hours later....a few more times and then 3 weeks later the phone bill arrives!
Phone cards are a great solution--just make sure you have enough time on them.
Phone sex is unbelievable--you have to experience it to know. But a word of warning: if your phone friend is long distance, it can be an expensive form of pleasure!! The first time I called a guy pal--just a pal and we ended up having the hotest phone sex--to the point where you don't care if your own grandmother picked up the phone and heard what you were saying or doing...and talking about something takes longer than doing it w/o talking...sooooooo....2.5 hours later....a few more times and then 3 weeks later the phone bill arrives!
Phone cards are a great solution--just make sure you have enough time on them.
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Phone Sex can be fun, I haven't done it in about a year or so. I guess I am good at it I was having phone sex with this one women and she would IM me like twice a day saying she had to "talk" to me. It got so addicting after a while we must of had phone sex about 50 times over the period of a month. I didn't have anyone to be with at the time and it was like having a lover for a month. And the best part was she was calling me so I didn't have to worry about the whole phone bill thing. Love... you dont know what you are missing, phone sex sure beats just playing with your self any day. The sound of some one moaning and groaning descirbing to you hot they are while screaming your name, dont tell me that doesn't turn you on?
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Re: Re: What does Realy Really experienced mean?
You can definitely do it, and really enjoy it, if you find the right person to do it with. Trust me, there are a lot of us out there who hesitated and weren't sure it was something we could do or that we would like, and it turned out to be a terrific experience.
A caring partner will understand your nervousness and take the lead, letting you go as slowly as you need to, showing you what kinds of things the two of you could try and might like. I was very lucky to find someone like that and have been absolutely amazed by how great it is.
lovetoread said:
You can definitely do it, and really enjoy it, if you find the right person to do it with. Trust me, there are a lot of us out there who hesitated and weren't sure it was something we could do or that we would like, and it turned out to be a terrific experience.
A caring partner will understand your nervousness and take the lead, letting you go as slowly as you need to, showing you what kinds of things the two of you could try and might like. I was very lucky to find someone like that and have been absolutely amazed by how great it is.
lovetoread
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Thank you very much for the wonderful support and information.
I will give this idea some deep thought.
*kisses and hugs to all*
I will give this idea some deep thought.
*kisses and hugs to all*
Ice Princess
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You know, the easiest way to get around the long distance charges is just to use a voice chat program like MSN. If you and your partner sign on, you can activate the talk feature and talk just like you were on the phone and there's no charge to the phone bill. If you pay per hour for your Internet service or something, you could run up a bill, but if you pay a flat monthly rate like I do, it's a great deal.
I would suggets MSN over Yahoo because the last time I tried Yahoo, they still had a sort of two-way radio setup so that you could send OR receive but not do both at the same time. On MSN, it's just like a telephone.
I would suggets MSN over Yahoo because the last time I tried Yahoo, they still had a sort of two-way radio setup so that you could send OR receive but not do both at the same time. On MSN, it's just like a telephone.
Cornholio_1968
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More Ideas
How about letting him listen how soppy and wet your pussy becomes as you talk to him.
Get a vibrator or let someone else fuck you so that your pussy would be extra wet when you let him hear it.
How about letting him listen how soppy and wet your pussy becomes as you talk to him.
Get a vibrator or let someone else fuck you so that your pussy would be extra wet when you let him hear it.
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Rrrosyn,
When I hear the gal on the other end getting all worked up, breathing heavy and moaning I almost cum on the spot. Talking isn't necessary. Phone sex can be whatever you want it to be.
Rrrosyn said:
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Rrrosyn,
When I hear the gal on the other end getting all worked up, breathing heavy and moaning I almost cum on the spot. Talking isn't necessary. Phone sex can be whatever you want it to be.
lovetoread
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Re: More Ideas
I would have a hard enough time letting someone hear my voice much less anything else.....
Besides, if you have someone to do you before you talk,why be on the phone?
Cornholio_1968 said:
I would have a hard enough time letting someone hear my voice much less anything else.....
Besides, if you have someone to do you before you talk,why be on the phone?
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I think I have the same problems as lovetoread and Rrrosyn. I am really quiet and too shy. I can't believe any woman would get off on hearing me say nothing.
Also if you have someone to help you before hand, why are you using the phone? Am I missing something that is that great?
Also if you have someone to help you before hand, why are you using the phone? Am I missing something that is that great?
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Let me say this as someone who happens to enjoy phone sex. You may not think the person on the other end will enjoy "hearing you say nothing". But that's not for you to determine. The person on the other end needs to encourage you because you can't know what they want, unless you've previously discussed it. And discussing it isn't the same as experiencing it. The experience is different from person to person, I happen to enjoy hearing breathing and moaning more than "ohhh baby frig my clit". But I've had expierence when the person on the other end said "tell me what you're doing".
It's subjective, and it's whatever you want it to be. It also depends on the experience of the participants, and who they are.
I can understand being shy, I remember feeling funny when someone asked me to tell them what I was doing. But I was rewarded with a sharp intake of breath for my efforts and the more turned on she got, the more turned on I got and wa-la ...lol
I've also had normal conversations, and the calls didn't always start out as phone sex. So if you're the type of person who isn't very verbal, you need to find someone who gets turned on by that to talk to. Unless you're willing to be coached. You may feel funny, you may like it.
You never know till you try.
BrassMonkey said:
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Let me say this as someone who happens to enjoy phone sex. You may not think the person on the other end will enjoy "hearing you say nothing". But that's not for you to determine. The person on the other end needs to encourage you because you can't know what they want, unless you've previously discussed it. And discussing it isn't the same as experiencing it. The experience is different from person to person, I happen to enjoy hearing breathing and moaning more than "ohhh baby frig my clit". But I've had expierence when the person on the other end said "tell me what you're doing".
It's subjective, and it's whatever you want it to be. It also depends on the experience of the participants, and who they are.
I can understand being shy, I remember feeling funny when someone asked me to tell them what I was doing. But I was rewarded with a sharp intake of breath for my efforts and the more turned on she got, the more turned on I got and wa-la ...lol
I've also had normal conversations, and the calls didn't always start out as phone sex. So if you're the type of person who isn't very verbal, you need to find someone who gets turned on by that to talk to. Unless you're willing to be coached. You may feel funny, you may like it.
You never know till you try.
