Erotic Humiliation

i love it when i,m forced to put sexy lingerie&high heels&short skirt on,and give me dirty comments as you naughty slut/cocktease.And specially in front of family(it,s the taboo surround it),or when i must choose wife her lingerie&shoes when she goes out or working(teacher),it,s such a turn on when i,m left at home and she wears stockings&garterbelt,open crotch panties in front of her students or in pub&restaurant etc,i like all humiliation when wife is in control
 
As a male beta cuckold...caged and sexless....i sooo enjoy see my hotwife have sex with her black bulls....i love it to watch from near when big black cocks slide into her white pussy....and when the bulls then tell me that i am not a real man...i am happy and humiliated
Geil!
 
There’s just a feeling I get when she says humiliating things sometimes that’s such a turn on. It’s not all the time but I seem to want it more as I get older.
 
Ten years ago my Dom and I visited the Folsom Street Fair and I agreed to wear latex short-shorts and a mask. I wanted the anonymity. He walked me with a leash attached to my collar and decided to remove the mask. I was basically naked. I was so humiliated. He's openly gay but I am not. Half the spectators stand there with phones or cameras taking pictures. So we returned to Seattle and a month or so later my Dom showed me a photo of us he found online. There we were. Easily identifiable for the world to see. The photo is trademarked/watermarked and licensed by a photoshare company. In other words, it will never go away. Someone makes money off our image. Once the initial anger wore off I was aroused by this exposure
 
^Due to the blow back and possible consequences to my professional life (Job, friends, family, etc.) this type of experience would not work out well for me. I might enjoy the humiliation factor and be aroused by it, but that would wear off pretty fast after getting fired from my job, ostracized by friends and family, and so on.
 
Wife likes to talk during sex. I don’t know how humiliating it is because it’s the 2 of us but it is erotic. We have a squirting dildo she straps on and fucks me a couple of times she mixed my cum in with the fake cum and fucked me. Then told me all about how she really came in my ass or that she got me pregnant. Another time she dressed me up in makeup and a nightgown. She pulled my panties down and bent me over and pounded me.
 
I don't have family or friends and scrub floors and toilets for a living. I also wait tables at a crappy little backwoods bar on Friday and Saturday nights, where they hired me because I have big tits, will dress like a slut and keep my fat mouth shut when guys say mean stuff and put their hands all over my body. I work for tips and used to make more money the less i wore, but it doesn't seem to matter how much I take off anymore. I have no modesty or pride and even less shame, so I don't humiliate easily but love it when they try.
 
What a good little SLUT
Obviously speaking for myself here, but this kinda response makes the whole concept seem thoroughly unappealing
Someone shared an insightful view that’s about her own perspective and you use it to degrade her
Humiliation as I understand it is about a specific dynamic, whether particular to a specific person, situation, context, rp or whatever it might be
It doesn’t mean that anyone who mentions it also enjoys being called degrading names by some rando
 
Obviously speaking for myself here, but this kinda response makes the whole concept seem thoroughly unappealing
Someone shared an insightful view that’s about her own perspective and you use it to degrade her
Humiliation as I understand it is about a specific dynamic, whether particular to a specific person, situation, context, rp or whatever it might be
It doesn’t mean that anyone who mentions it also enjoys being called degrading names by some rando

Some peoples ideas are what they see in the extreme memes that are posted all over.
 
For me there is a difference between humiliation and being degraded.

While this may be okay for some, being led naked on a leash into a public bathroom and being told to lick a toilet seat would be degrading FOR ME, and not be humiliation. But that does not mean I will not do humiliating things. Oh gosh no...

For me, it has to be more than an increasing list of humiliating/degrading tasks just to see if they can cross them off their list as I do them. Checked boxes do not turn me on. But if it is something my Dom really has always wanted to see, try, or routinely do, and its so kinky that few others would, to show my devotion… I’ll probably do it. In that way, the more humiliating the better because it really sets me apart.

The sticking point is that I have to be convinced its really something kinky they have always wanted to do. With my point above, I would have a real hard time thinking my Dom truly wanted to see a toilet licked for eroticism sake. But being told, “I have always wanted to see people’s reactions to a naked man staked out in a public park”, has more eroticism elements too it, and is more convincible. Soooooo... it is something that I might do. Talk about showing loyalty!

I realize the above is a bad example, but it’s a very individual thing, just as the original poster eluded too.
 
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