Erections while receiving anal

I've never had a cock in my ass (I'd love to through).... but I've used dildos. I'll be totally turned on and not hard plenty of times. Once I do get hard though, it stays.
 
Echoing others

I have not had a real penis inside me, but want that. I have only used various dildoes, vibrators, plugs, and my fingers. I noticed I get pretty soft but the pleasant feelings lie elsewhere. I feel fortunate that one time in a shower I we able to slip two fingers into myself and streamed pretty nicely, all the while being partially soft. But, when gently gripped, I can swell.
 
I have not had a real penis inside me, but want that. I have only used various dildoes, vibrators, plugs, and my fingers. I noticed I get pretty soft but the pleasant feelings lie elsewhere. I feel fortunate that one time in a shower I we able to slip two fingers into myself and streamed pretty nicely, all the while being partially soft. But, when gently gripped, I can swell.

Older men being fucked often do not get rock hard, but enjoy the pleasure and do cum. I have that happen with my husband, and I still cum semi-hard. I like feeling him in me, taking his time and enjoying me with no pressure on my part to perform, but to give him pleasure.
 
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Older me being fucked often do not get rock hard, but enjoy the pleasure and do cum. I have hat happen with my husband, and I still cum semi-hard. I like feeling him in me, taking his time and enjoying me with no pressure on my part to perform, but to give him pleasure.

Oh, the pleasure :heart:
 
This guy says erection—
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This guy says it interferes —
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I enjoy a hard cock working my ass. My primary focus is the way it makes me feel and the sensation of a cock in my ass. I have a tight ass and find it far easier to be penetrated when I’m soft. I am conditioned to that as I put a lot of concentration into relaxing enough for him to get inside me. Once he’s in, then I can let go and begin to enjoy the ride. When I get hard, I tighten up around a cock and the sensation is great for both of us.

I don’t care if I orgasm when being fucked, but often find that I will orgasm hands free wether or not I’m hard, semi or soft. There have been times when semi or soft that I have released a vast pool of cum, of the amount I have never ejaculated before.

There are many pleasures to being fucked. Not everything revolves around being hard and shooting a load. Sometimes all I need to be satisfied is the sublime tingling feeling in my sphincter and of cum draining out me when he's had his way.
 
I enjoy a hard cock working my ass. My primary focus is the way it makes me feel and the sensation of a cock in my ass. I have a tight ass and find it far easier to be penetrated when I’m soft. I am conditioned to that as I put a lot of concentration into relaxing enough for him to get inside me. Once he’s in, then I can let go and begin to enjoy the ride. When I get hard, I tighten up around a cock and the sensation is great for both of us.

I don’t care if I orgasm when being fucked, but often find that I will orgasm hands free wether or not I’m hard, semi or soft. There have been times when semi or soft that I have released a vast pool of cum, of the amount I have never ejaculated before.

There are many pleasures to being fucked. Not everything revolves around being hard and shooting a load. Sometimes all I need to be satisfied is the sublime tingling feeling in my sphincter and of cum draining out me when he's had his way.

A little off topic but there are times I prefer receiving anal sex over vaginal sex. A lot of what 2way describes here is pretty spot on. There is also a delicious and deep taboo reaction I have that makes it more intense for me. I orgasm without touching myself most of the time with anal but only half the time vaginally. So, not just you boys who enjoy a nice firm cock there. ;)
 
A little off topic but there are times I prefer receiving anal sex over vaginal sex. A lot of what 2way describes here is pretty spot on. There is also a delicious and deep taboo reaction I have that makes it more intense for me. I orgasm without touching myself most of the time with anal but only half the time vaginally. So, not just you boys who enjoy a nice firm cock there. ;)
So, Annie, my experiences with anal are that it turns out to be harder, faster, rougher and more long lasting than vaginal -- much more. Is that typical in your experiences?
 
Always limp

Interesting thread. The original post verbalizes then opposite of what I think when I watch porn and yet at the same time, exactly the same thing. “How can that be?”

I’ve never had sex with a man but I’ve used toys extensively. Ridden them, taken them “doggy style,” and used them missionary. Every time I’m penetrated, I lose my erection. If I stop the motion and focus, i might be able to regain my erection as long as I’m not focusing on the movement of the dildo. But I can’t do both. As a result, the porn that I am most attracted to is that when the bottom is limp. If he’s erect (because I can’t relate), my mind goes to “yeah that’s a chemically enhanced erection” and I don’t enjoy it as much.

Just because I can’t keep an erection doesn’t mean that I can’t get an orgasm, and DEFINITELY doesn’t mean I’m not enjoying it. I used to be able to mold my prostate and would leak like a sieve, making a massive mess. By that time I would be so worked up I could stroke my limp cock to an orgasm very quickly.

I went past tense in the last paragraph because I was diagnosed with prostate cancer about 4 years ago and had removal surgery. I’m fine. My PSA is undetectable so the only sympathy I will entertain is that anal penetration just ain’t the same anymore and and I can’t make anything drool anymore.

Dammit.

Still, because of my history I can enjoy porn where the bottom gets hard, but much more so when the bottom’s limp package swings uselessly limp. If the bottom “has to be” hard, I prefer it not to be touched by either person. Just let it swing. It just seems more submissive to me.
 
So, Annie, my experiences with anal are that it turns out to be harder, faster, rougher and more long lasting than vaginal -- much more. Is that typical in your experiences?

Definitely longer lasting. The rest depends on who you are having fun with, though you're lucky if they know how to start slow, make sure everything is good and then go hard and fast. ;)
 
depends on the partner and if your into whats going on, sometimes background noise is the issue
 
A little off topic but there are times I prefer receiving anal sex over vaginal sex. A lot of what 2way describes here is pretty spot on. There is also a delicious and deep taboo reaction I have that makes it more intense for me. I orgasm without touching myself most of the time with anal but only half the time vaginally. So, not just you boys who enjoy a nice firm cock there. ;)


Oh, did you say "firm cock?":heart:
 
i think this issue is caused by the role in this relationship. There are two main types- dominant and submissive. I think in your case you are feeling yourself by the both sides. That's why you are always hard by this experience. You should be happy of it cuz a lot of people dream about that, and they have to use pills to achieve it. In case you'll need some type of medicaments for a hard boner and an unforgettable experience, I suggest you to read attentively the description and purchase only from qualified suppliers. I am personally using the levitra pills, cuz I find them better in comparison with other products. Good luck! :nana:
 
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Curious about others here.

As I've mentioned before, I've never been with a guy, but I've been using dildos/vibrators pretty regularly for 35 years or so. During any kind of anal play, until I've cum once, my cock is virtually always rock-hard.

Not boasting or anything, as it's not an accomplishment and it's nothing I can control. But watching gay porn, I'm amazed at commonly seeing guys taking a nice cock in the ass and their own cock is completely soft. I guess we're all wired slightly differently for sex, but when I see that I'm like "how is that possible?"

Is that the case with some guys, that receiving anal sex interferes with the mechanics of their erection?

For me, it doesn't really matter because I always focus on the pleasure I'm getting being anally penetrated. if my cock is hard - bonus! if not, no big deal because I'm busy enjoying getting fucked and my cock isn't needed at the moment....other than to release some semen when I cum.
 
I get soft quickly

My cock gets soft with anal play. In fact, the more I get into anal the softer it goes. This is all with toys as I am still a virgin. Going soft used to bother me until I learned it was very common.
 
Curious about others here.

As I've mentioned before, I've never been with a guy, but I've been using dildos/vibrators pretty regularly for 35 years or so. But watching gay porn, I'm amazed at commonly seeing guys taking a nice cock in the ass and their own cock is completely soft. I guess we're all wired slightly differently for sex, but when I see that I'm like "how is that possible?"

I think you maybe making the mistake of confusing gay porn from reality.

You don't know how many different shoots or setups that performer (the bottom) has been in that day, and you don't know how many times he has been erect and how many times he has cum already.

Most porn actors (both male and female) do more than one scene a day. I know it is challenging for me to get it up and cum 3, 4, 5 times a day.

Just a thought.
 
sometimes my cock gets firm, but often soft, i have some nice hands free softcock cums when mounted and love my soft cock flapping about and squirting all over
 
It took me a long time or never too get hard while receiving. Not that I wasn’t enjoying it. Though I lean much more top.
 
I’d had to say off and on. I’d say during a normal fucking I start out hard then it goes down and comes back. During a more erotic session I’ll be hard the whole time. This weekend I was on my hands and knees and my wife pushed me up against the headboard and pinned me while aggressively fucking me. I was hard the whole time. But it doesn’t matter hard or soft I always seem to cum.
 
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