Erection?

[sosexy]

I was at a party and there is a guy I like who was there. I'm very new to sex, and I don't know much about men, however I wore a low cut haltertop, and dressed as nicely as I could. The guy was very nice and sweet to me, one thing I want to ask is, when we sat down, the whole time he was holding his hands over his private parts, almost to protect them, why did he do this?
I was hoping maybe it was interest.

 

[Tele2047]

If he's as new to it as you, then it's very likely it was an erection. Men are often embarassed (at least in my experience as a male) about people seeing it in public, and even more so if it was seen by someone they were interested in but weren't sure if they were interested in return. Men, however, are easily aroused.

If you're new to the game I wouldn't suggest jumping into sex with just anyone. Be sure you're educated about sex (birth control, yourself, etc) before you start having any sexual relationship.

 

[sosexy]

He is older than me, however we were at a very formal gathering/party, not somewhere where an erection would be "acceptable"
however I really wanted to believe that my presence made him hard..maybe I was imagining things cause I wanted it to be true...
I just don't know when my "charms" are working

 

[Tele2047]

It's possible.

Every man is different, as every woman is different. They're all aroused by different things, you might have just been so damn hot he couldn't help himself or maybe it was some way you talked to him or some subject you were talking about. Sorry to say, but it might it might not have been an erection at all, some men just find that position comfortable (yes, men can cross their legs and often put their hands in the crotch area).

If you're interested in him maybe you should call/email/whatever him and set up something. As with all meetings with people you don't really know, you should be careful until you get to know him.

 

[sosexy]

absolutely, normally I don't even think about it when men sit in that position, just this time though, he was sort of cupping his privates as if he was protecting himself, that's what made me wonder.

 

[rcuhljr]

I spend 8 hours a day like that just so I'm not bothering other people

 

[taolanes]

I really wanted to believe that my presence made him hard..maybe I was imagining things cause I wanted it to be true...

It seems like you never experienced an erection, but we don't just push a button

It's usually triggered by something we find sexy, whether it's a hot girl or some inner sexual thought. I would guess that your appearance was what caused it. You must be pretty hot

 

[Ravin the Poet]

I wouldn't worry about that much at all. Get him hard or not, you still like to the guy and thats what matters most. Don't spend time on things like this, because you will NEVER get an answer, unless you are brave enough to ask him straight out.


Ravin

 

[Lust Engine]

Hell, for anyone knows he could just have a busted zipper! Or spilled a beer down front! A myriad of things could be the cause.

Who knows? It's interesting speculating but that's about the best we can do at this point unless you outright asked him.

 

[AppleBiter]

It's interesting speculating but that's about the best we can do at this point unless you outright asked him.

*snickers* "Pardon me, sir, but do you happen to have a flaming boner?"

 

[TBKahuna123]

He is older than me, however we were at a very formal gathering/party, not somewhere where an erection would be "acceptable"

Well if it were a formal setting and he were wearing dress slacks, he might have been experiencing the most annoying of male wardrobe malfunctions: the "unpitched tent". This is where the pleats around the front of your pants make it look like you have a full on errection, when there really isn't anything there. Quite often I'll fold my hands in my lap to prevent this.

That said, if I were sitting mext to a pretty girl with a low cut halter top, I'd probably be experiencing a "pitched tent", and there's a better than average chance he was experiencing that as well.

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

Why not just ask him?

Why not say, I noticed the other day at the fuction that you seemed to keep your hands in your lap at all times. Now I don't mean to embarass you but did you spill some spinach dip on your pants???? Or was there another reason??

Holden

 

[Tele2047]

Why not say, I noticed the other day at the fuction that you seemed to keep your hands in your lap at all times. Now I don't mean to embarass you but did you spill some spinach dip on your pants???? Or was there another reason??

Holden

If he were embarassed about it he'd probably lie.

 

[jman900]

i tend to get an erection sometimes when a girl sits on my lap, but i wont even be thinking about ne thing sexual and it pops up, i mean should i be embarresed about this?

 

[Tele2047]

Well I don't think we should be embarassed by our biological functions, but some people are

 

[taolanes]

i tend to get an erection sometimes when a girl sits on my lap, but i wont even be thinking about ne thing sexual and it pops up, i mean should i be embarresed about this?

Nah, I think girls appreciate it

 

[phoenix1224]

Next time something like that happens... Just reach down, cup his crotch in your hand, and ask, "Is this for me?"

 

[MR.GGG]

A Woody ...

IT is the worlds most obvious COMPLIMENT. However in our modern PC environment he may have been considering a court or Ethics hearing for sexual harrassment or even ASSAULT - even SHOWING an erection can be classified as an assault in some circumstances. The friggin Rules of Conduct that many Universities now live by I'm surprised young males don't have to leave their nuts with the dean prior to admission!!

If it was just a party then, ya, I say he was staring at your titties (and whatever else you were trying to show him) and imagining his dick sliding between them as you sucked his knob. If he was sufficiently PUMPED with testosterone (and how many young guys aren't?) then you're lucky he didn't look like he'd spilled the dip in his lap. Just hope it didn't LOOK like the spinach dip. I'm not sure if they have shots for THAT yet.

 

[Pyro Paul]

Well I don't think we should be embarassed by our biological functions, but some people are

in this day in age, people cherish the fact that they can control their bodly functions and present themselves in unnattural ways. when a guy has a raging hard-on its very embaressing because your a savage! you cant control your Sexual thoughts and instantly become aroused at simple things.

asides, in parties or public functions, a hard-on tends to stick out. (in more ways than one) if your talking about really hard hitting political policys that could change this countrys money usage its kinda distraction if the person your talking to has a giant bulg pointing out at you. very disturbing too.

 

[sosexy]

I thought maybe he had a slight erection,,, it's just difficult to know as a girl. And there was no spinach spot lol! maybe he was just getting comfortable, who knows.

 

[taolanes]

I'm still thinking it was an erection. Every guy has covered one up in their lifetime. People don't randomly put their hand on their crotch unless there is a reason

 

[thrity]

It happens

It happened to me sometimes, just like someone said, men are very easy to be aroused, I am.

It's embarrassed to be seen when your cock erects in a public area, especially when your pants are tight or stretchy.

I could be arouse when I imagine I'm have sex with the woman toghther with me at the moment.