Enough is Enough?

[Nicole]

When do you decide it's enough for you? How to walk away?

Just when do you know you've had enough crap? I know I used to be a very happy person, no worries in the world, always trying to help others out, smiling at strangers and always taking the time to make sure others were happy.

I'm not that person anymore, and I don't like who I am. How can I change that? I'm no longer happy, I don't smile as much, and I certainly don't go out of my way anymore to make others happy, it's a little hard when your not happy yourself.

Just when do I decide that enough is enough and walk away from what is making me this way? Why am I staying if I'm not happy?

I know you can't answer this for me I just really needed to vent about this.

Thanks .... Now on with whatever it was you were doing. I feel better already having finally written this down.

 

[Purple Haze]

What's making you unhappy, Nicole?

 

[Nicole]

Too many to mention Purple, and I guess looking back on my question, I answered myself didn't I?

Now is the time to walk. I just don't know how too, or even if I want to.

I'm turning into a sad human being and that's killing me more than anything. I never used to get depressed, now I seem to be more depressed than I am happy.

I just hope I don't upset anyone on here, and if I already have then I am truly sorry for that.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

I make a plan. What do I want? What do I need before I can have that? Keep working backwards until the steps are laid out. Then begin.

 

[Laurel]

I'm not that person anymore, and I don't like who I am. How can I change that? I'm no longer happy, I don't smile as much, and I certainly don't go out of my way anymore to make others happy, it's a little hard when your not happy yourself.

Figure out precisely what makes you unhappy and change it. If it's your job, dust off your resume and start hunting. If it's the relationship you're in (be it a love interest or a friendship or a family member), either work to fix what's not working or get out. It's amazing how one or two assholes or recurring bad situations in your life can bring you down.

 

[Laurel]

Damnit Dixon. Not only were you faster, but you worded it better.

 

[April]

Nicole, want to talk?

 

[Angel]

Nikki, look at your post, sweetie. You've just taken the first step.

Only YOU know whats making you so damned unhappy. And I think based on what you just wrote you've realized what it was.




If you need to talk you know where I am.