Enema question

[Filling_KK]

OK, my wife is becoming quite the little anal queen and it is wonderful! While it is never really messy, we decided to make everything *really* clean the other night and use an enema.......it made turned into a very messy affair.

We have one the "spike" style enemas and I did everything just as I had always read. She got on all fours, I filled her out and she evacuated into the toilet, we repeated this two more times fro a total of three times until nothing but clean water came out. So far so good. She said she squeezed everything out that she could.

We got into bed and fooled around for awhile, kissing, blowjobs, teasing, etc until I started playing with her ass. A bit of licking and then fingering with well lubed fingers, but she wanted more so she got on all fours, I lubed us both well and slipped my very stiff cock into her ass. Things were OK for awhile, but it was soon evident that this was becoming a bit messy, I even pulled out several times to wipe off, something I have never done before, before finally cumming deep into her ass.

We were both shocked how something that is usually relatively clean became so very messy after we tried to make it very clean!

Where did we go wrong? I've never heard of anything like this happening before, but we are both enema virgins, so to speak! I welcome any advice on tips about this in case we ever decide to try this again, but for now, I think we'll probably pass on the spike! Sorry if this is a bit gross for anyone, but we just want to know why this hapened.

Thanks!

 

[SweetErika]

I'm not really sure what you mean by "spike-style" enema...are you talking about a bag with a tube and nozzle, a bulb, or a disposable fleet-type bottle?

One possibility for the mess could be that she had feces higher in her intestine/colon, and the water just kind of liquified it (do you see what I mean?). I've read anal and enemas are best done following (or no more than a few hours) after a bowel movement so there's as little as possible in there.

I suppose another cause of it could be the amount of water absorbed through three enemas could have hydrated her enough to make for a loose stool.

Finally (though this is by no means comprehensive...I don't know a lot about this), it's possible the enema didn't go deep enough and/or she didn't hold it long enough and/or there wasn't a sufficient quantity of water to cleanse well.

I'd suggest reading some more and trying again. There's lots of great info out there ( like THIS site ), and there are some little tips I've found really useful (though I've only done this a few times for medical purposes), like:

I found laying on my side was significantly more comfortable than any other position. The reason I mention trying other positions is it might be more comfortable to take more water in a different position.

Adding things to the water like a little salt helps reduce absorption if over- hydration is an issue.

 

[Shale]

You seem to have described what in the US is the brand name "Fleets" enema, a small amount of water. By giving three in a row you probably put too much water in and didn't wait for all of it to settle.

Try giving one Fleet while lying on the LEFT side position, and stay lying there for a good while. The left side is important, because that allows gravity to put the water in the decending colon.

(It is possible, however, that if you lay there for a while the enema water will disappear. The colon absorbs water and a small amount has been known to be absorbed. Serious enemas for impaction are usually mineral oil which won't absorb.)

You can't be too fast with these things, the colon moves at its own slow pace (unless you're a tourist in Mexico).

Shale, the Nursing Assistant

 

[SweetErika]

You seem to have described what in the US is the brand name "Fleets" enema, a small amount of water. By giving three in a row you probably put too much water in and didn't wait for all of it to settle.

Try giving one Fleet while lying on the LEFT side position, and stay lying there for a good while. The left side is important, because that allows gravity to put the water in the ascending colon.

(It is possible, however, that if you lay there for a while the enema water will disappear. The colon absorbs water and a small amount has been known to be absorbed. Serious enemas for impaction are usually mineral oil which won't absorb.)

You can't be too fast with these things, the colon moves at its own slow pace (unless you're a tourist in Mexico).

Shale, the Nursing Assistant

I've heard it's best to dump out the solution in the Fleet bottle, replacing it with warm water. I understand the solution is a laxative (and it can burn like hell, BTW)...would the water idea be best for pre-anal cleansing purposes?

I didn't know about the left side thing...I'm glad we have some pros around here.

As I said, all I have is a bit of experience, but I definitely got better results with as much water and time possible each time.

F_KK, if you are using the Fleet type, I'm guessing you're not getting enough water in or something. The reuseable enemas (though I found they're often in drugstores with the feminine products and sold for douching) are fairly inexpensive (around $10, if I recall), I found easier to use, and do a better job.

 

[Lovernotkiller]

hmmm

Ok i am no expert, but knowing what i know about that part, i would say the water was deffinetly your problem mate. Even with and enema, its better to not have one at all, then one with a lot of water. My 2 cents

 

[Shale]

I didn't know about the left side thing...I'm glad we have some pros around here.

Actually, SweetErika, your avatar is just about right for receiving an enema, and it would be my pleasure to administer it.

 

[Filling_KK]

Thanks for the responses everyone! BTW, when I said spike style, I was referring to a bulb style.

I think you guys are right, it was probably a case of too much water......live and learn! Two questions,, first, how long should she keep it in after administering the enema, and second, is ther any certain amount of timewe should wait for anal play after giving her an enema?

Thanks again!!!

 

[LadyTigeress]

Time wise, I find it best to wait a half hour after the final expulsion before he mounts/rims me. This gives my lower colon a chance to regrow all of the healthy bacteria - very important stuff.

I use a fountain enema - the old red bag. I use plain, warm water, and do it in the shower. I let it fill my body as much as it can hold, then tap dance around a bit. I repeat that twice more, letting each time, go longer, as much as I can, then shower finally.

I enjoy anal sex a lot, and we use the Doc Johnson lubricant - it's a little spendy, but I can take my husband's cock very easily with it.

LT

 

[YellowShirt]

I'm just curious as to why if you said that you had never had any problems before you felt the need to do an enema in the first place? In actuallity, there is very little feces in the rectum until you actually feel the need to defecate. And before you feel the need, it is much higher in the plumbing and not solid yet. It is possible that by doing three you actually caused a premature expulsion that wasn't "prepared" yet. If you weren't having problems before, try sticking to that.

 

[Eilan]

I'm just curious as to why if you said that you had never had any problems before you felt the need to do an enema in the first place? In actuallity, there is very little feces in the rectum until you actually feel the need to defecate. And before you feel the need, it is much higher in the plumbing and not solid yet. It is possible that by doing three you actually caused a premature expulsion that wasn't "prepared" yet. If you weren't having problems before, try sticking to that.

I agree with you. I've mentioned in other threads that I find the prospect of an enema more daunting than anal sex, but that's mainly because I had a not-so-positive experience with enemas in an emergency room when I was a lot younger.

Of course, that's just my preference/experience. YMMV.

 

[Filling_KK]

I'm just curious as to why if you said that you had never had any problems before you felt the need to do an enema in the first place? In actuallity, there is very little feces in the rectum until you actually feel the need to defecate. And before you feel the need, it is much higher in the plumbing and not solid yet. It is possible that by doing three you actually caused a premature expulsion that wasn't "prepared" yet. If you weren't having problems before, try sticking to that.

No argument there. It was just something we had never done and we were going to engage in a lot of ass play so I suggested it. I guess the big reasons were to try something new and just to make her super clean.

I'm sure we'll try it again someday, but with a few changes. Ya gotta play to learn!