enema advice needed

[taooman]

My Girlfriend and i are new to this scene, although so far i enjoy being her sub very much. she loves to take the strapon and fuck me like her bitch, and frankly, i love that too. We are very open about our bodies, but she is very much against any kind of fecal matter on the strapon afterwards. To get around this, i usually give myself an enema a couple hours before we have anal play just to be sure i am cleaned out, i wouldnt want my dom to be upset with me.

My question is, how long after giving myself an enema should i wait before strapon play. i dont use the solution that comes in them, just plain warm water. i just want to make sure im being safe, she sometimes gets a little rough and i dont need any injuries down there. anyone with experience in the area that can help would be greatly appreciated

 

[english vicky]

My Girlfriend and i are new to this scene, although so far i enjoy being her sub very much. she loves to take the strapon and fuck me like her bitch, and frankly, i love that too. We are very open about our bodies, but she is very much against any kind of fecal matter on the strapon afterwards. To get around this, i usually give myself an enema a couple hours before we have anal play just to be sure i am cleaned out, i wouldnt want my dom to be upset with me.

My question is, how long after giving myself an enema should i wait before strapon play. i dont use the solution that comes in them, just plain warm water. i just want to make sure im being safe, she sometimes gets a little rough and i dont need any injuries down there. anyone with experience in the area that can help would be greatly appreciated

I don't have an answer to your question i'm afraid. i just wanted to say well done for coming here to ask. it's nice to see people being sensible and safety aware whilst having their fun!

Sure someone will help soon, they're generally a helpful bunch!

 

[Desdemona]

welcome

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=266656 We have a nice library with some good info on enemas. That's a good place to start.

 

[s'lara]

Welcome.

This thread is a good place to begin in terms of enemas prior to a scene.

For enema techniques, please see the following links:

http://www.naturalmom.com/articleb.htm
http://www.colonichealth.com/erecipes.htm
http://www.independenthealth.net/cl...ma-recipes.html
http://enemas.nu/recipes1.htm
http://www.enematips.com/enemarecipes.html

Good luck and safe cleansing.

lara

 

[Pure]

//how long after giving myself an enema should i wait before strapon play.//

with some experience, I don't see why there should be any wait after you're cleaned up. (the experience having to do with whether you're flushed out, and any water has left the scene.)

with less experience, you might want to wait a half hour to see of there's more liquid to be expelled.

//she sometimes gets a little rough and i dont need any injuries down there.//

this seems like a different topic, as I don't see any protection from injuries by waiting. what's needed is adequate lube and some experience with the size of the object. further unless the object is pretty flexible, there are limits as to how far it may be inserted with injury. since the ass wasn't designed for fucking it will react to heavy or prolonged use; evidence that things are going a bit far are tiny bits of blood.

 

[taooman]

Follow up

Well the main reason i ask is because i read somewhere that enemas and colonics and things of the sort can dry you out in there pretty badly, and time should be given to allow the body to absorb more moisture. i just want to make sure.

Yeah, she does get rough with me, but nothing more than i can take. we are still brand newbies to this scene, but we did agree on a safeword so she knows when im not just begging her to stop as part of play. I am definatly thankful for places like this where i can ask a question like this and not have people flaming me for it, thanks guys

 

[Pet4you]

oh boy, a secret of mine is escaping..

I love enamas...
i get so horny and wet.. anyway..

you dont want to do the enama all the time, it can flush out some important things in ours bowls.
And it can cause problems... I mean.. if your body actually steals water, and you cant fell the difference, you might gets sweats, and dehydrated.. So.. you have to be careful.. just remember no alchol enama's because it was just in my local paper, a woman gave her husband a white wine enema.. 2 bottles.. her husband died, and she's in trial for murder. So i ask, no alchol enamas..even though its very kinky,and very drunk.

Realize, if you make the enemas to hot or to cold, you can get cramping, which you like pain, go for it.. but, many dont.. so stick with luke warm water. Make sure there is no air in it... i can stress that enough. personal experiance..


wait as long as you need to..
I wait an hour or two.. sometimes 30 minutes...
I have to eat.. i feel so empty..
and my dom is bi.. so he understands it too..

the best suggestion i can say, is have your girl try it.. that way, both of you will know whats up.. Im sorry, but.. when we are under the kit, and you have one watching, and they are like how do you feel.. i just want to switch places with them, let them know.. so they arent in a hurry, so they understand.

Take as long as you need to, It your body, and if you feel its not ready yet, wait on it.. go watch a movie, read chaper in a book... and when your ready.. go for it.

this is my opinion, other can tell you different,
gain all,
and know it..
for everyone is different.

who knwos, you may need five minutes to play with the strap on.. or u need a couple hours. who knwos.. only you do.

 

[taooman]

oh boy, a secret of mine is escaping..

Thanks for your tips. ive been reading guides and stuff about enemas but nothing really goes into detail about what i need to know. believe me i already learned the hard way about not getting out all the air, and about the temp for that matter. lol, live and learn.

 

[Kirabeth]

not sure where this fits but I was reading this and thought about something I did once.


I had to have surgey a while back and I went into the hospital and sat waiting on the doctor to come in , and while waiting the nusre came in and hooke dup my iv;s gave me a gown to wear and said the doctor will be in, in a moment and then we will take you down and dummy me said but wait aren't you gonna give me an enama, she said no and I said but I was looking forward to it I want it. She went out laughing and the Doctor came in laughing, and I never could figure out why they didn't just give it to me.

 

[Etoile]

just remember no alchol enama's because it was just in my local paper, a woman gave her husband a white wine enema.. 2 bottles.. her husband died, and she's in trial for murder. So i ask, no alchol enamas..even though its very kinky,and very drunk.

Good lord, was this woman an idiot? One of the first things on most enema information sites is that alcohol enemas are not advisable. I've heard of mixing in small amounts of alcohol with copious amounts of water, but I wouldn't even try that. The alcohol would be directly absorbed, and you would get extremely drunk extremely fast, and - as this woman apparently found out - can kill you very easily.

Personally, I've only ever had water and dairy enemas. I've had rough anal play shortly after a normal water enema, and never had any problems. If you're concerned, you could use lube - and yes, put it on the inside too! I suspect the time-to-play may end up being equal, though, because I am very careful with evacuation - always have to make sure it's all empty before doing anything.

 

[Desdemona]

not sure where this fits but I was reading this and thought about something I did once.


I had to have surgey a while back and I went into the hospital and sat waiting on the doctor to come in , and while waiting the nusre came in and hooke dup my iv;s gave me a gown to wear and said the doctor will be in, in a moment and then we will take you down and dummy me said but wait aren't you gonna give me an enama, she said no and I said but I was looking forward to it I want it. She went out laughing and the Doctor came in laughing, and I never could figure out why they didn't just give it to me.

Cute story. They probably didn't give it to you because it wasn't deemed medically necessary. These days, every procedure has to be justified. That includes enemas.

 

[taooman]

Maybe they just knew you wanted it for non-medical reasons.. lol