Emotional Housecleaning For the New Year

juicylips

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I think we all carry things around with us that cause hurt, pain and stress.

Dump them here on this thread. DON'T pick them back up on the way out:)

Grief, anger, disappointment, old lovers, etc.

Tell me what you are dumping and if you are really brave, why:)

Let's start out the new year with fresh attitudes and a clean slate. (Yes, I am going to believe that is possible)

Cassidy,
who is definitely looking ahead...
 
juicylips said:
I think we all carry things around with us that cause hurt, pain and stress.

Dump them here on this thread. DON'T pick them back up on the way out:)

Grief, anger, disappointment, old lovers, etc.

Tell me what you are dumping and if you are really brave, why:)

Let's start out the new year with fresh attitudes and a clean slate. (Yes, I am going to believe that is possible)

Cassidy,
who is definitely looking ahead...

This is Great...since I'm a new one to the board.....I don't hate anyone, I don't have serect Pm's with any woman here and don't LUST after anyone YET.

I am Dumping being impatient with people in general. Oh I'm sure I will rag once in a while here if provoked, but I am going to try to be a better person. Yeah Yeah we all say that every New year but I'm gunna try to make it last longer than just Jan.

Happy Holidays to all here on Lit. I really enjoy reading your stuff.

Sexy ....Mr. Bean's friend........Tim1
 
juicylips said:
I think we all carry things around with us that cause hurt, pain and stress.

Dump them here on this thread. DON'T pick them back up on the way out:)

Grief, anger, disappointment, old lovers, etc.

Tell me what you are dumping and if you are really brave, why:)

Let's start out the new year with fresh attitudes and a clean slate. (Yes, I am going to believe that is possible)

Cassidy,
who is definitely looking ahead...


Cass.....I left the man I planned to Marry. Not because I wanted to, but because he made some very bad choices that eventually changed our future together....forever. So, I leave my 'past' heartbreak here in this thread.
I leave behind as well all the emotional stress that I have had to endure.
I leave behind the rose colored glasses that blinded me from seeing the truth.

SummerRose,
Who sees things much more clearer now.

*This New Year for me is looking brighter all the time*
 
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Southern37 said:


My wife. And yes im brave...i think she might kick my ass.

Let's hope if she kicks your ass, it will propel you into estevies arms:)

Cassidy
 
I'm dumping my insecurities... God damn it, I know I'm a good looking man - and now I'm going to start acting like it! :)
 
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juicylips said:


Let's hope if she kicks your ass, it will propel you into estevies arms:)

Cassidy


Don't you know it.!!!!
 
I'm going to dump my obsession with my sister-in-law who I've wanted to sleep with for almost 30 years. I know she's attracted to me but she loves her sister (my wife) more than me as it should be. I know it's just unhealthy for me to obsess about a woman like that for 30 years so I'm dumping that lust and desire right here before it causes me to hurt two people I care about deeply.

So there! :)
 
I'm dumping my feelings of insecurity that I have allowed to affect my well being for the last two years. I will now allow myself to believe that I deserve to be happy, and to accept and finally believe the many compliments I do receive from people I care about.:)
 
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SummerRose said:



Cass.....I left the man I planned to Marry. Not because I wanted to, but because he made some very bad choices that eventually changed our future together....forever. So, I leave my 'past' heartbreak here in this thread.
I leave behind as well all the emotional stress that I have had to endure.
I leave behind the rose colored glasses that blinded me from seeing the truth.

SummerRose,
Who sees things much more clearer now.

*This New Year for me is looking brighter all the time*

SummerRose,
I think you are in for a fantastic 2002!!!

You can throw away those rose colored glasses, because how you see him, is how he really is....lucky girl:)

Cassidy
 
Thanks for the opportunity to start over. My best friend has done something that has hurt me very deeply. I'm gonna try to forgive and keep the 20+ year friendship strong. Wish me luck!;)
 
wow I got alote of shit to dump

it's in a pile over there <---
If you want any of it PEASE take it.
 
Fly....

Where did you go??

Got tired of inspiring lust in me with your hottie av??:D

Cassidy
 
I can't stand people that don't pitch in when they ought
to....esp. at my job where we are currently short-staffed!
I know I do much more than my share.....but it drives
me friggin nuts to see one particular co-worker of mine
not moving their butt in gear and getting things done
like they should be. ARGH!

Just my 2 cents for now......

TJ
 
juicylips said:
Fly....

Where did you go??

Got tired of inspiring lust in me with your hottie av??:D

Cassidy

av went bye-bye
I didn't want that many e-mails, and PM's and such.
 
Dumpity do dah.....

A LOT to dump here....

I'm dumping the pain and insecurity that I got from the disaster, recently-ended 5 year relationship.

Dumping the anger I feel toward my ex - it's just wasted energy that I'd like to use for other things......

Dumping my "why me" attitude that I've had lately. Fuck it! Gonna start looking to good things...and say "Why not me?"

Dumping the shit and negativity that I've been feeling lately...and do what John Prine says:

You'll be leaving on a new train
Far away from this world of pain
And when you look out your window you'll see
Your home your baby and your family
No melted ice cube in a paper cup
Hell you'll be happy you'll be all shook up
The friends that greet you will be
Simple and plain
When you step down from that new train

Thanks for the outlet, Cass...... :)

Nigel
 
Fly_On_Wall said:
lol

It's a figure of speach....

:D you know that too so stop teaseing me :p

Awww...sweetie..I could never stop teasing you!!!

And what would you do if I did?? I know you would miss me:D

Cassidy
 
juicylips said:
Tell me what you are dumping and if you are really brave, why

I am leaving my husband. No matter what you read or what you see others do the pain is unbelievable. I still love him,but our marriage was not a good one,we got married because I was pregnant,but still 12 years is a long time to be together.

I wish to leave the hurt and anger and the guilt I feel behind on this thread.

Thanks JL,if this works you will be my new crush...;)
 
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lovetoread said:



Thanks JL,if this works you will be my new crush...;)

ltr...I would be soooo honored:)

Cassidy
 
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