Embracing my Submissiveness

[~Dream~]

If you enjoy putting yourself out for others or I prefer to say giving others "your all"or if the thought of being controlled sexually gets You hot, you register on the submissive spectrum.

An educated submissive uses her/his head and heart when selecting a dominant either for a BDSM scene or a relationship.
This is critical because the sub must be able to trust her/his partner to SAFELY lead them through the most formidable of BDSM activities..

Willingness to obey ,is closely related to the ability to trust.In addition,through OBEDIENCE during play, a submissive takes an active role in ensuring his or her own safety. Submissive and needy however,are NOT SYNONYMOUS.No Dom can be there 24/7.

I have a very submissive nature obviously,and I truly LOVE serving my Master Artful.It is ot just a physical experience for me,my heart is literally FILLED to overflowing whenI am following His orders and making Him feel like a King,like He deserves to feel
I get my needs fulfilled by serving Him.

I'm pretty much that way outside of Our relationship tho too and I DO take our online LDR relationship VERY VERY seriously also.
It is quite REAL to us both and even more so that we have met skin-to -skin.

I have embraced my submissiveness fully as I also know that I love cooking dinners for friends,listening to those in need,offering my help with anything I can and this is also partly cause I am so submissive..I'm a good,hard worker,and I wish to contribute everything I can to the world.
I volunteer at our local hospital,and I know it may seem strange to some people,but I discovered that I am happiest and most fulfilled when I am giving..

By far,the most important service to me,beyond being that of a single mother,is truly serving and obeying my Master.All of the other things I do would have to come second to the man who decided to take possession of me..
If He didnt want me to spend my time on those other things,as far as I'm concerned,that would be His decision,and I would obey willingly.I really do believe that my place is by His side(or at HIS FEET) doesnt really matter which for I am STILL Loved..and I take my position as His submissive slave ,VERY seriously,in my heart,I embrace it.. ~

 

[KillerMuffin]

No offense intended in this question.

Now that you've done the ol' skin to skin thing, what kinds of differences has it made in your actual D/s relationship? If you don't mind answering. I'm geniunely curious.

 

[~Dream~]

NO offense taken dear K.M.

No offense intended in this question.

Now that you've done the ol' skin to skin thing, what kinds of differences has it made in your actual D/s relationship? If you don't mind answering. I'm geniunely curious.

thank-you for asking...
The differences it has made for ME personally ,as I cannot and will not speak for my Master is that for one,Feeling Him skin-to-skin has obviously greatly itensified my feelings,my DESIRE if you will,for Him.
Being able to hear His voice ,see the look in His eyes whe He gave me commands brought me to new heights of respect for Him.it's quite hard to maintain a LDR,I know,but as I have previously stated we have trust,honesty,and deep abiding communication between us..that I feel ,is the cornerstone to our relationship.


being able to really experience the may pleasures firsthand,the spreader bars,the blindfold,being cuffed ad spanked,made me only crave for more!! I am anxiously and breathtakingly awaiting whatever my Master has in store for me next..
Seeing Him enjoy even the simplest things with me such as my feeding the ducks at a beautiful park He took me too brought joy to my heart.

I think that even if we had not yet met face to face already that we would STILL be together as our love is very strong for one another..Meeting only "heated" everything up for us both I think
just as I mischievously planned(mwahahaha) lol

 

[KillerMuffin]

I'm mining for selfish reasons, hope you don't mind too much.

I know you two played before you met and presumably you're still doing so. At least I'd hope you were having fun!

How have things changed for your play from the way you did and felt about it before meeting to the way you do and feel about it afterwards?

Please don't feel that you have to validate your prior to meeting relationship (I hope you don't), because I always thought it was perfectly valid myself.

 

[~Dream~]

well personally...

I really do think HOW we "play" is our own business BUT just for YOU KM..lol I'll say it has increased ad intensified..MASTER WILL know how and when it is the correct time to itroduce me to "new ideas' and other things to incorporate into OUR relationship as time goes on..that's why He is the Master and I am the slave...
I guess I'm not really sure exactly what specific kind of info you are wanting from me dear ,but perhaps if you werte a bit more clear and concise with me,I could oblige with answers to your questions

 

[P. B. Walker]

On a separate topic...

are those your legs in your AV KM?

- PBW

 

[~Dream~]

bummer PBW..

On a separate topic...

are those your legs in your AV KM?

- PBW

you dont like MINE??

 

[P. B. Walker]

Re: bummer PBW..

you dont like MINE??

OH that is a given... those legs are too sexy

PBW

 

[A Desert Rose]

what about

MY FEET? no one even noticed my feet.

Oh well, what I want to say was, I think your comfort level and Art's has really changed, has it not Dream? The level of trust, respect and comfort since you met skin-to-skin must really be noticable with you both.
Rose

 

[~Dream~]

Re: what about

MY FEET? no one even noticed my feet.

Oh well, what I want to say was, I think your comfort level and Art's has really changed, has it not Dream? The level of trust, respect and comfort since you met skin-to-skin must really be noticable with you both.
Rose

lol@ Foot fetish? Rose? hehe yes sweety I would definately say we are BOTH MORE COMFORTABLE,more relaxed with each other,for real..yes I trust Him even more than I ever imagined and I respect Him ever so much after SEEING 1st hand all the effort and trouble He went through to make things soo pleasurable for me... by the way there was 1 time that totally touched my heart when Master put my foot on His lap and Massaged my foot and He said 'Baby,I love your feet,I love them cause they are part of YOU" the significance of that was that I have a disability which affects my feet and my Master,my Love spoke from His heart,as NO man had EVER done for me before...I knew right then and there that I WOULD LOVE this man forever...


BTW..ty ..PBW

 

[Quint]

Re: what about

MY FEET? no one even noticed my feet.

Rose, my mom has that same pair of sandals. It took me the 1.4 seconds to realize that my mother would never paint her toenails that color before I stopped hyperventilating.

 

[artful]

FEET

Rose, my mom has that same pair of sandals. It took me the 1.4 seconds to realize that my mother would never paint her toenails that color before I stopped hyperventilating.

Quint,...it took ALL my willpower to not spew my O/J on my keyboard,...watch that!!!

ADR,...check the time and date,...but I posted to your feet in another thread before you made your post of NOBODY noticing your FEET!

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: Re: what about

Rose, my mom has that same pair of sandals. It took me the 1.4 seconds to realize that my mother would never paint her toenails that color before I stopped hyperventilating.

~~~~~~~~~LMAO My daughter has the same pair too!
And she paints her toenails really funky!
Rose

 

[Quint]

Re: FEET

Quint,...it took ALL my willpower to not spew my O/J on my keyboard,...watch that!!!

I can only hope that T has your amazing power of will, O Determined One. *cheeky grin*

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: FEET

Quint,...it took ALL my willpower to not spew my O/J on my keyboard,...watch that!!!

ADR,...check the time and date,...but I posted to your feet in another thread before you made your post of NOBODY noticing your FEET!

~~~~~~aw thanks Art.
Rose

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Dream, what an absolutely wonderful opening post! Thank you. I think you've really described submissive well, at least for me.


dixi

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Re: Embracing my Submissiveness

Dream, what an absolutely wonderful opening post! Thank you. I think you've really described submissive well, at least for me.


dixi

TY SOO MUCH Dixie..Did I tell you that I'm hoping Master gets me one of those that you are wearing in your avy?? mmmm

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Oh I know what you mean Dream. Master allowed me to order one of those too. I'm anxiously awaiting its arrival. I found that pic on the net and just had to have it for my av.


dixi

 

[~Dream~]

hey DIXIE??

i FIND MYSELF JUST WANTING TO "TRY OUT" ALL KINDS OF NEW TOYS..HOW BOUT YOU?

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Re: hey DIXIE??

OMG YES!! Master has been away for a while and is back now. I can't think of anything I'd like to do more than try out all kinds of new toys. Honestly, so far just about everything we've tried has been just wonderful!

dixi

 

[~Dream~]

It's just like..

the more I read..the more curious I become..and then I just get sooo soo EXCITED thiking about new positions,scenes.toys,desires etc..does it ever end? lol..God,I hope not!!