Embarassing male problem !?!?

[TirelessTongue]

I just got home from a date not long ago with this girl. She was a nice girl whom I found attractive and it was my first date with her. She was kinda touchy/feely with me (not sexual) but I guess some women are like that and some are not. But the problem is that part of me is excited when the rest of me isn't, or shouldn't be. Lets just say, my boxers were wet from Pre-come all night. Its an embarassing feeling when I am walking and I feel my cold, wet boxers rubbing against my leg. I could be just sitting down talking with this girl, eating, walking.....or whatever and my pre-come would be running.

Anyone else have this problem?

By the way, this isn't the first time this has happened and it has happened for years. And this most certainly won't be the last.

 

[asenath]

That's kind of funny. Hehe.

 

[Machiavellian]

Wish i was a guy to give you some words of wisdom, but hell - even women get wet spots!

 

[midwestyankee]

Buy some shorts made of a more absorbent material. If that doesn't do it, consider getting shorts made specifically for runners and outdoor enthusiasts from a material called CoolMax. It wicks moisture away from the skin.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

awww..... that's so cute

 

[BlueSugar]

when was the last time you jerked off before the date?
i'm sure that was some odd factor.

personally, if it isn't a first date - or i know the person and we're finally out on a first date... and I catch a wet spot, I make excuses to get back to the house...or car, which ever is more empty.

 

[asenath]

Wish i was a guy to give you some words of wisdom, but hell - even women get wet spots!

At least we get to wear panty liners.

 

[TirelessTongue]

If we are kissing, forget it..... I've soaked through a pair of jeans before. And to the poster to said to jerk off before a date, I'm sorry .......that just won't cut it. I've tried that one already

Briefs or boxers, its still a problem. But funny thing is I don't have to be hard to have this problem. I can just have a semi and it will just drip like a leaky faucet.........

Thanks for the replies anyway.

 

[hook848]

Idea for the guys

Alright if your like me your probably single and like to look at porn online but hate the mess of the aftermath right? yeah thats what i thought you could use a condom but why waist them, you might need one suddenly right? well i tried this a few weeks ago because i precum a lot and didn't like putting my boxers in the laundry all wet, so i simply took a sandwich bag and a rubber band, put the sandwich bag over the tip of my cock (simi erect leaving enough room to comfortably become erect) and put the rubber band just behind the head, you'll have to find one that best fits you, i use one of the long stretched out red ones and double it, its tight but it works well, this way you can sit there and play with yourself even bring yourself to orgasm and be able to control where your cum goes, you can do this all day if you have nothing to do and when your done go in the bathroom take it off wash up rinse out the sandwich bag, let dry and no ones the wiser, it works fairly well to tell you the truth

This post never received a reply. Someone may have been spoofing and noone took the bait. Who knows? Maybe you can modify the technique.

 

[herradura]

You might try swathing the head of your cock in some gauze before the date. I mean, women excuse themselves to the facilities before sex all the time, right? If it looks like things will proceed apace, go to the can, flush the gauze, come out and get busy.

And...

If your "package" is ever discovered, simply tell them that you caught your pecker in your fly, and ask if they will kiss it and make it better.

 

[fgarvb1]

Tell her that you are a horny bastard and that she turns you on so much that you have no control over it.

Heh, I bet you get some more often than not.

 

[TirelessTongue]

Sorry buddy....... I want to stay on good terms with this girl. In most cases, telling a girl that would warrant a slap in the face and a quick end of a nice night together.

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

Well I know what you mean

I work in a building with some very nice looking woman. As with any guy my cock is up and down all day long. I get the leakage too. I don't worry about it too much as this is just the way it is. I will worry about it when it stops happening.

Sorry I don't have anything to offer other then you are not alone

Holden

 

[Noor]

I just got home from a date not long ago with this girl. She was a nice girl whom I found attractive and it was my first date with her. She was kinda touchy/feely with me (not sexual) but I guess some women are like that and some are not. But the problem is that part of me is excited when the rest of me isn't, or shouldn't be. Lets just say, my boxers were wet from Pre-come all night. Its an embarassing feeling when I am walking and I feel my cold, wet boxers rubbing against my leg. I could be just sitting down talking with this girl, eating, walking.....or whatever and my pre-come would be running.

Anyone else have this problem?

I am not male, but I have this problem with some men. even in cyber there are men who just get me wet, even if we are not cyberring or are no longer cyber partners. I guess I try and focus on the good feeling of it.

 

[lovechild27]

bengay on your nuts? maybe the burning will curb the arousal


Wack off more than once


Or just learn to deal with it. Your not the first guy (or GIRL) to get some wet spots. She cant tell at all...so just relax and realize its natural!

 

[Betticus]

I've had the problem before with very sexy chicks. I end up going to the restroom a lot to clean up. Unless I'm in danger of soaking through the pants then I'll fold up a paper towel and put it between my cock and the underwear and hope it stays in place.

 

[TirelessTongue]

Wow, its pretty cool to hear about others who have the same problem. I will try one of those tricks to stay dry whenever I get into one of those situations.

Thank God I don't live in Canada........ that shit would freeze. I'd have to thaw my cock out just to take a piss

 

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[hook848]

Wow, its pretty cool to hear about others who have the same problem.

There are probably a lot of guys with a similar problem. Its never been a big problem for me but it does remind of a first date of mine.

A girl and I hiked up to a mountain lake for a swim and picnic. It was a three hour hike in and I think I was hard and leaking the whole time. When we got to the lake she stripped down to a white two-piece bikini. HELLO. The water was ice cold and I got some relief. But the hike back down was even worse. Hard and leaking. She must have noticed. We had left my motorcycle at the trailhead and during the ride back to town I felt her wetness soak thru the back of my pants.

On a lighter note, Saturday Night Live did a parody on mini-pads for men. They were called peni-pads.

Good luck with this girl Tongue. If you get to the point where you can share your problem with her, I hope it is a turn on for her.

Hook

 

[TirelessTongue]

Thanks Hook, my biggest concern right now is wondering if this girl wants a second date !

It ended with a goodnight kiss, a hug, and she told me to call her again sometime. But I know how deceiving women can be !

 

[shelleb4]

Hello tongue,
i have a suggestion not yet suggested.
Along with the pads thing and briefs instead of boxers pay some attention to your prostate.

right, im a nurse and here goes:
precum along with come is sent into your boxers by your prostate. If your bowel is full, this can stimulate your prostate, so try making sure your emptying this on a regular basis.

now im just female:
id be thrilled that i could do this to a man, and would find it a turn on, not off. Us females think in very similar ways to men, how would you feel if she was getting very wet when with you?
Exactly!

 

[TirelessTongue]

If I found or knew she was getting very wet with me, I'd find it a big turn on. I'd also be flattered as well.

 

[GeorgeWBush]

The only time i did that was when i was in school on the bus and i would get a panty shot from some of the girls. I would clean at school.

But i realy adt to clean up after i was in line at a concert the crowd pushed thight and the girl wiggled her butt and got me hard.

She just turned her head smiled and moved her butt hard against my dick and we bascly fucked with are clothing on.

 

[PrincessHoney]

wear dark clothes.... NEEVER GREY!

i get wet knckers all the time... but it feels good!

 

[hook848]

Thanks Hook, my biggest concern right now is wondering if this girl wants a second date !

It ended with a goodnight kiss, a hug, and she told me to call her again sometime. But I know how deceiving women can be !

People have posted some practical solutions for dealing with the leaking. IMO the ideal solution would be a partner willing to help you relieve some sexual tension.

Can't help you getting that second date. You'll have to make that happen. There is some interesting insight into how women feel about being approached and what they find attractive on the "How to handle being ugly" thread.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=242444&pagenumber=2

It doesn't sound like your date ended all that bad. If it makes you feel any better, my last date ended a little differently. And the end of our date I drove her back to her car. About two seconds after I turned off my car she was out the door saying only "You can call me." I hadn't even undone my seat belt. Go figure. I did call her and learned thru a friend of a friend she is just super shy and low on self-confidence.

Anyway, I hope this helps and you give her a call. I know you can't just whip it out and say "Look what you're doing to me." But maybe you'll get to the point where you can look back on this and laugh about it together.

Hook