Edging... variations?

[wouldloveto]

I have long been a fan of edging...

I cannot remember when this became a thing for me, but it is a favorite of mine. I think the eroticism of it heightened when I was introduced to BDSM, femdom to be specific. That was many years ago and one of the few 'domination' activities my wife enjoyed engaging in. Alas, she is not so interested anymore, but I still enjoy edging myself.

Yes, there are many threads here discussing this, but my reasons for starting this (besides purely selfish prurient interests) is to hear from others what they do to enhance edging activities.

I enjoy it alone, but not as much as having it done to me. I used to enjoy doing it with women, well mostly one in particular. Lately I imagine doing it to another man...

So, please chime in with any insights, scenarios, techniques, and any other juicy tidbits you might like to share.

Hopefully this will not only be informative, but also fun, sexy, and erotic for any and all. Especially me... as I continue this lovely practice.

 

[cdstefi]

I like to do it with a tight cock ring, and coconut oil. The tight ring produces a really nice hard shaft and bulging glans (I'm circumcised), and seems to diminish the urge to cum while still allowing me to stay fully erect. Polishing the apple and teasing my shaft is exquisite agony.

 

[JeanPanty]

Pillow humping is always a good idea. Especially if you're wearing silky panties...

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I have been "edging" since my cock first got hard. In my younger years, I used to edge for perhaps hours on end as I read the Penthouse Letters (and Variations) lying on my bed in my 3rd floor bedroom. I didn't realize it was called edging (or maybe it wasn't back then), but I never wanted to cum too quickly. I wanted to prolong the experience of stroking my cock as I read and fantasized about the "real" letters that related other's sexual experiences. My cock has been my closest friend for most of my life.

I'd always wanted to get to the most erotic part of what I was reading before I'd let myself cum. Over the years, the level of eroticism steadily increased as I would edge to videos, rentals and then online, straight, bi and gay - group, bukkake, gangbang, etc.

Now, I read emails, or chat - drink in one hand, cock in the other, which makes chatting somewhat difficult at times - Haha. I use only my forefinger and thumb, or my fingers shaped into a claw and pulling on my cockhead from above - lubricated by my spit and leaking precum - and tickle my balls. I like to taste my precum while edging, and when I cum, I usually lick my cum off my fingers and swallow it. I still "edge" for a very long time - which is the definition of edging - delaying orgasm. I like to bring myself to the "edge" numerous times before I allow myself to cum.

Variations - On rare occasions, I'd use a short vibrating penis shaped dildo just there in my ass as I stroked. I tried a sleeve, but didn't really enjoy that as much.

 

[wouldloveto]

I have been "edging" since my cock first got hard. In my younger years, I used to edge for perhaps hours on end as I read the Penthouse Letters (and Variations) lying on my bed in my 3rd floor bedroom. I didn't realize it was called edging (or maybe it wasn't back then), but I never wanted to cum too quickly. I wanted to prolong the experience of stroking my cock as I read and fantasized about the "real" letters that related other's sexual experiences. My cock has been my closest friend for most of my life.

I'd always wanted to get to the most erotic part of what I was reading before I'd let myself cum. Over the years, the level of eroticism steadily increased as I would edge to videos, rentals and then online, straight, bi and gay - group, bukkake, gangbang, etc.

Now, I read emails, or chat - drink in one hand, cock in the other, which makes chatting somewhat difficult at times - Haha. I use only my forefinger and thumb, or my fingers shaped into a claw and pulling on my cockhead from above - lubricated by my spit and leaking precum - and tickle my balls. I like to taste my precum while edging, and when I cum, I usually lick my cum off my fingers and swallow it. I still "edge" for a very long time - which is the definition of edging - delaying orgasm. I like to bring myself to the "edge" numerous times before I allow myself to cum.

Variations - On rare occasions, I'd use a short vibrating penis shaped dildo just there in my ass as I stroked. I tried a sleeve, but didn't really enjoy that as much.

Nice, that is the sort of thing I was after.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I have long been a fan of edging...

I cannot remember when this became a thing for me, but it is a favorite of mine. I think the eroticism of it heightened when I was introduced to BDSM, femdom to be specific. That was many years ago and one of the few 'domination' activities my wife enjoyed engaging in. Alas, she is not so interested anymore, but I still enjoy edging myself.

Yes, there are many threads here discussing this, but my reasons for starting this (besides purely selfish prurient interests) is to hear from others what they do to enhance edging activities.

I enjoy it alone, but not as much as having it done to me. I used to enjoy doing it with women, well mostly one in particular. Lately I imagine doing it to another man...

So, please chime in with any insights, scenarios, techniques, and any other juicy tidbits you might like to share.

Hopefully this will not only be informative, but also fun, sexy, and erotic for any and all. Especially me... as I continue this lovely practice.

I really like the statement about you fantasizing doing it with another guy. I used to have a FWB id meet every other week. We had mutual sessions of edging each other. Basically id be licking and stroking his cock until it turned color. Id tease it some and hed be leaking precum like crazy. Id get him so close and the secret was communicating to me he was very close to cumming. Id just stop stimulation and just start telling him how delicious his cock was and how good it felt in my mouth. Id brush my fingers across his inner thighs and even caress his hard nipples. Focusing on other parts of his body to keep him engaged and not directly on his penis. The cool thing is id sadistically lick the tip gently and his cock would twitch and id hear him moan. I knew he desired to just have me plunge my mouth on his cock but I held back. Then id stand up and present my hard cock before him. Without hesitation hed start sucking me and stroking me. Id tell him things like sucking his cock was making me hard like this and how good his mouth felt on my dick. The verbal and stern moans of lust and exchange drove him crazy. Hed say things like “ you like sucking my cock dont you sissy boy!” When i was close id have him stop and id start sucking him again, making his orgasm build. I could tell he was close by how tense his body was and start to see his balls drawing up into his body. His cock would be turning purple and the twitching became more frequent. Sometimes we would just simply stop and watch porn for a bit without jerking. Wed talk about the scene and how hot it was. Our cocks rock hard although sometimes they would get semi soft. As soon as we went back at mutual oral it quickly get hard again. On a few occasions id climb on top of him and kiss while our cocks rubbed together or id lean up and let the tip tease my sphincter. Yea I almost just had him fuck me but there was no lube and i didnt want him to wear a condom. Finally it got to the point our bodies couldnt take it so we frotted and stroked each other until we shot our huge ropes all over each of our cocks. Id keep rubbing his balls as he stroked us together.

 

[KyleR215]

For me, edging is the agony endured by not allowing myself to cum, usually all day but sometimes when I have the time it is a day or two.

What do I do to enhance the activity? When it is warm enough, I like to be completely naked for the entire time. I like to use a plug and sit on it, rock my hips against it, raise and lower myself on it. This helps to stimulate the prostate leaving me aroused and leaking.

Then, I will alternate between watching vids, reading through lit posts or reading stories to keep myself at peak arousal. Again, this is all day long. When I am finally done for the day, head to bed and have the most amazing orgasm.

 

[Wonderer67]

I love extended intense edging.

I have been edging since I first was masturbating… prolonging the pleasure and then busting a huge and intense nut.

Over time, I enjoy edging and don’t care about cumming as much. My wife controls my orgasm, and likes to watch me edge but not cum.

So, please chime in with any insights, scenarios, techniques, and any other juicy tidbits you might like to share.

My wife uses a hitachi and sometimes I will edge using it. About a year ago we got this attachment for it, and it makes edging sessions crazy! I can edge for so long and get crazy close to cumming. I got it on amazon.
Wand Essentials Masturbator Wand Attachment
https://a.co/d/bilEODA

Also, adding cock bands around the base of my cock and one around my balls really makes everything much tighter and more intense. Reccomend.

 

[phil97405]

I love to play with my nipples. They are pretty big and very sensitive, and I love to touch myself there. I gently touch and caress them, and as I feel myself becoming more aroused, I get more aggressive with my nipples—pinching, pulling, and twisting them with my thumbs and forefingers. I really can’t tell you how hot it makes me!

My ass is another erogenous zone for me. I like to fondle, grope, squeeze, and even slap my ass, and sometimes, I rub oil on my ass and touch and finger-fuck myself there, or use a toy back there. That makes me feel nasty, and that feeling really turns me on even more.

While I’m arousing myself by playing with my nipples and ass, I always watch myself in a full-length mirror. I just love that! It makes me so hot as well! I edge like this absolutely as long as I can standing it and try to prolong my pleasure as much as I can.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I will alternate between watching vids, reading through lit posts or reading stories to keep myself at peak arousal. Again, this is all day long. When I am finally done for the day, head to bed and have the most amazing orgasm.

Just as I'm doing right now.

I love extended intense edging.

I have been edging since I first was masturbating… prolonging the pleasure and then busting a huge and intense nut.

Ah, yes. When I first started masturbating and whenever I had the time, I would edge for maybe hours.

 

[sandybrooke]

It's been part of my masturbation almost all my life, before I knew what it was called. My go to is dragging soft shit across my cock as I'm dancing on the edge of orgasm.
I've heard myself moan as I cum and surprised myself

 

[Smoothshavendad]

It's been part of my masturbation almost all my life, before I knew what it was called. My go to is dragging soft shit across my cock as I'm dancing on the edge of orgasm.
I've heard myself moan as I cum and surprised myself

Slippery panties!!!!

 

[johnnyampleed]

To keep it exciting I have variations in edging that usually breakdown in three stages:

I. Inspiration - watching videos, chatrooms, reading stories, wearing sexy clothing, and fantasizing about something I recently observed while light rubbing.

II. Light and Moderate Teasing - I target my erogenous zones (nipples, cock, balls, ass) by using hands or applying fabric (spandex, panties, pantyhose) or toys like nipple caps or clamps, a variety of cock sleeves, a variety of cock rings (some that vibrate, some that include the balls), different lubes and anal toys.

III. Going to the Edge. Mix any of the above categories and activities together to bring me right to the edge.

Edging depends a lot on sufficient time and place (bedroom, bathroom, den). Hotel rooms are the best. I use mirrors to watch myself and love to taste my precum.