eating own cum

[nippleclamp]

my partner is desperate for me to lick my cum from her tits or eat her pussy after i have cum inside her. i find this really horny but after i have cum i just cant do it. anyone with tips or hints to help me fulfill her fantasy. thanks

 

[wnt2cumnu]

I had a problem with making myself do that for the first time, once I would cum, I was no longer excited and was not in the mood. I explained the situat io on to my g/f at the time, she was the one wanting me to do it, so I told her she would just have to find a way to make me want to eat it. It started with her sucking me off then kissing me with a mouth full of cum,
Then one night after sex, she just sat down on my face, it worked out good.

 

[nepalistripper]

i know rite? i've often fantasied about that, but never could bring myself to do it. i have licked my wifes pussy rite after another guys come in her tho. and she this past september got me to come in her, then immediately went down the hall in our hotel to fuck her customer, who first ate her pussy without knowing i had just filled it with come. she didnt tell him but we had a good laugh after she was paid and done.

 

[Missingout]

I think it is really common for a man right after he cums to change his mind. I always wanted to for years but lost interest as soon as I came.

What changed me is that my wife became dominate and made me. Now everytime I cum I clean it up and am very eager to do so.
The best is cleaning up another guy from her.

 

[JKayle]

The thought of it does push buttons for me, but apart from a couple of times when I was denied the chance to change my mind, I lose the inclination a second after cumming.

 

[billrichards41]

Just tell her no... tell her next time... tell her you are not gay... and if she keeps insisting ask her why... and if all else fails take a timid lick and call it a day.
If none of that works find a girl who isn't trying to turn you into a cum eater...

 

[subwannabe]

Let her tie you up so that you can't change your mind.

 

[SweetErika]

Just tell her no... tell her next time... tell her you are not gay... and if she keeps insisting ask her why... and if all else fails take a timid lick and call it a day.
If none of that works find a girl who isn't trying to turn you into a cum eater...

Shit, and here I've been thinking you're a pretty reasonable guy based on your other posts!

Tasting/eating one's own cum/juices has absolutely nothing to do with their sexual orientation. If my partner wants me to lick my own juices off of a body part or toy, does that make me a lesbian? Should I refuse or do it half-assed because I'm not a lesbian? Are all guys who enjoy creampies gay, according to you?

Furthermore, there's absolutely nothing wrong with being a "cum eater." TONS of women and men do and really enjoy it, or at least incorporate the act into their fantasies. It's a hot component of the sex lives of many M/F couples.

If the OP's partner is into it and the OP is willing to do it in theory, why shouldn't they try to find a workaround for the loss-of-desire-after-ejaculating issue?

Nippleclamp, I think it's great that you're open to the idea and seeking a solution so you can give it a go! FWIW, some people who are into various forms of cum eating have mentioned making cum ice cubes in advance then thawing them out quickly just to body temp so the ejaculate doesn't spoil or anything. I've also heard of refrigerating cum from earlier in the day (and possibly one day in advance as well), then doing the same warming procedure. If you have a reasonable refractory period/can ejaculate more than once in a session, you could come on your partner then lick it off once you get aroused again or collect your cum from a first round and put it on her before the second. Obviously, if you collect and want to reapply it in specific spots, you'd need to use a needleless syringe or something to suck it up and squirt it on your partner.

None of these are as ideal as just ejaculating on her and licking it off, but hopefully you can do something that will allow you to try this out if you both decide it's worth some extra effort!

 

[billrichards41]

Shit, and here I've been thinking you're a pretty reasonable guy based on your other posts!

Tasting/eating one's own cum/juices has absolutely nothing to do with their sexual orientation. If my partner wants me to lick my own juices off of a body part or toy, does that make me a lesbian? Should I refuse or do it half-assed because I'm not a lesbian? Are all guys who enjoy creampies gay, according to you?

Furthermore, there's absolutely nothing wrong with being a "cum eater." TONS of women and men do and really enjoy it, or at least incorporate the act into their fantasies. It's a hot component of the sex lives of many M/F couples.

If the OP's partner is into it and the OP is willing to do it in theory, why shouldn't they try to find a workaround for the loss-of-desire-after-ejaculating issue?

Nippleclamp, I think it's great that you're open to the idea and seeking a solution so you can give it a go! FWIW, some people who are into various forms of cum eating have mentioned making cum ice cubes in advance then thawing them out quickly just to body temp so the ejaculate doesn't spoil or anything. I've also heard of refrigerating cum from earlier in the day (and possibly one day in advance as well), then doing the same warming procedure. If you have a reasonable refractory period/can ejaculate more than once in a session, you could come on your partner then lick it off once you get aroused again or collect your cum from a first round and put it on her before the second. Obviously, if you collect and want to reapply it in specific spots, you'd need to use a needleless syringe or something to suck it up and squirt it on your partner.

None of these are as ideal as just ejaculating on her and licking it off, but hopefully you can do something that will allow you to try this out if you both decide it's worth some extra effort!

Nahhh I just felt like ruffling feathers.

I think if someone insists is the issue. If you want to do something and I mean anything, not only sexually speaking, it should come from you. If someone is trying to tell you what to do and see's you are uncomfortable or not willing, than you have a problem. Also it shouldn't be the fascination with eating something, this isn't a restaurant and here we are eating some bush meat or something we never thought would be on a plate in front of us. So in my opinion this person is trying to change, control him in a way that is not necessarily a good thing.

The other part that also seems a bit sad or an indication that he is with the wrong woman is, he is no longer aroused or affectionate or seeming to want to please his partner after he shoots a load.

When I have been with the right person before the sexual activity is not just about me shooting a load. I didn't lose interest and be like 'yuck' or 'oh is it that late' or any other excuse to leave the other person in a state of arousal and not participate. Is not a good indicator wither and maybe not something to work around but to change outright.
It's like some of the other threads on here asking would you kiss after the other goes down on you, or would you go down on your partner when she is menstruating; I'm not into drinking blood but if she is aroused and I can bring her pleasure than I will lick, kiss or do what ever it is that makes her happy, that will make me happy too!
The kissing part I do just because I like to kiss! I find that part is very inanimate and if we have had oral sex all the better, the scent of each other is very arousing

And if eating your own cum is gay!!! Then heck I wouldn't look at another woman ever again I'd be getting ready for the gay parade coming up soon in the city... and while I am not attracted to men like that, it has been a good time, I mean the parade that is!

But back to this poster, he doesn't seem to be into it with this girl... maybe he is not right for her

 

[BuckyDuckman]

I know the feeling. I think the "trick" is to be that much inside the moment and let the momentum carry you through. Focus on her continued excitement, separate from what just happened with you, and dive in!

 

[amofiga]

my partner is desperate for me to lick my cum from her tits or eat her pussy after i have cum inside her. i find this really horny but after i have cum i just cant do it. anyone with tips or hints to help me fulfill her fantasy. thanks

The trick I found years ago (before it became almost second nature to me now) was to do it quickly after cumming before the "horniness" dies. I first did it with one lady friend who liked when I finished in her mouth so I'd fuck till ready to cum, pull out and put it in her mouth or on her face. After about two spurts in or on her mouth, I'd stick it back into her cunt to finish cumming while kissing her mouth. It was super hot. She absolutely loved having juice in two of her holes and I jumped in to kiss her while still "in the mood". That was nearly 25 years ago. Now......no big deal. I just do it without thinking. Give it a try. You'll probably find that "juice sharing" becomes one of your favorite most intimate experiences to share.

 

[BuckyDuckman]

The trick I found years ago (before it became almost second nature to me now) was to do it quickly after cumming before the "horniness" dies. I first did it with one lady friend who liked when I finished in her mouth so I'd fuck till ready to cum, pull out and put it in her mouth or on her face. After about two spurts in or on her mouth, I'd stick it back into her cunt to finish cumming while kissing her mouth. It was super hot. She absolutely loved having juice in two of her holes and I jumped in to kiss her while still "in the mood". That was nearly 25 years ago. Now......no big deal. I just do it without thinking. Give it a try. You'll probably find that "juice sharing" becomes one of your favorite most intimate experiences to share.

I'll second amofiga's suggestion. I had a girlfriend who loved going down on me and kissing me immediately afterwards, with my cumshot still in her mouth. Made her hot as hell to share it with me. Clearly not something for everyone, but if the guy's not squirmish about it and the chick's into it - then go for it!

Full disclosure: that particular girlfriend had a real "thing" for guys eating cum. Including watching me jerk off with my knees over my head one time so I came in my own face. I don't know what her deal was, but she was hot as hell and fun as hell. We're still friends with benefits to this day.

 

[Sans Tache]

my partner is desperate for me to lick my cum from her tits or eat her pussy after i have cum inside her. i find this really horny but after i have cum i just cant do it. anyone with tips or hints to help me fulfill her fantasy. thanks

It's common for a guy to lose his sexual drive after having an orgasm. Don't ask me to explain the physiological reasons as to why...maybe it's because he just unloaded his all testosterone and needs to replenish it.

Knowing that your partner gets a sexual thrill from your licking your cum from her should peak your interest/drive enough to do so. After all, this simple act of sexual gratification will/may probably cause her to have an orgasm.

You say you "can't do it", please explain. It can't be because you're physically unable to do so. Is it due to the fact that you don't want to taste your own orgasm? Does your girlfriend give you head to completion, taking your cum in her mouth and swallowing it? Fair is fair. Besides, if you really want to please her you'll make the effort.

 

[KlaytonFrost]

I know exactly what you mean. My interest in sex drops off right after orgasm... but finding things that turn you on consistently is a good way to get it going again. Try it once--force yourself to try it once. If you hate it then you don't have to do it again, but you might find it's mor enjoyable than you thought.

 

[tustin92614]

That is the craziest thing, how you are so amped up to eat your own cum, and then BAM, it becomes disgusting. I didn't know that was such a common thing to have happen. The only way I can do it is to get a little turned on again. I am actually good with kissing after getting a bj, but going down after cumming was a lot harder. What I do now is cum inside, and then pop up for 30 seconds of head. Then I am ready to go down and clean up a bit!!

 

[Jessie_Pinkman]

That is the craziest thing, how you are so amped up to eat your own cum, and then BAM, it becomes disgusting. I didn't know that was such a common thing to have happen. The only way I can do it is to get a little turned on again. I am actually good with kissing after getting a bj, but going down after cumming was a lot harder. What I do now is cum inside, and then pop up for 30 seconds of head. Then I am ready to go down and clean up a bit!!

This is exactly my problem-
My desire disappears right after i cum- but she still wants me to do as i said i would (and yes, i agree with her) and eat her cum filled pussy.

wish that desire would stay after

 

[amofiga]

I'm surprised to find this thread active again, but I have some secondary comments. Guys probably don't lose their desire "immediately" after cumming, but probably during that thirty seconds or so of catching your breath after the final contractions. The trick is (if you really want to do it) is to have at it before you completly finish cumming. I personally prefer to cum in a woman's mouth but some don't necessarily like it that much. So, it's sort of a double edged act-quick sort of thing. Start cumming in her cunt but pull out after a spurt or two and go for the mouth for the last few contractions. Often this action is so quick, your partner won't have time to refuse you in her mouth or at least on her face. Then just as quickly, go in to kiss her if she likes you kissing her cum covered lips. If she wants you to go to her pussy and eat your cum, jump in while you still have maybe that last to contractions and get to work. The last few drops will probably end up on the sheets but so what. As someone else above said, if she's erotically charged with you cumming and she herself hasn't yet cum, the act of you licking her this quickl may be what she needs to send her over the edge. It's like a football or basketball game. You have to stick with the game plan and not lose your focus in the heat of the game.

I suppose there are a lot of techniques and tricks for performing certain things till perhaps the squimishness of whatever it is fades after it's done a few times. What's important in accomplishing whatever it is, is dependent on how interested you both are in the erotic aspects of the sex and not just the self gratification of it. If you are a guy and just want to cum and lie there in the post spurting bliss, then you will certainly lose interest in whatever post orgasm follow-on stuff has been proposed. It's just natural. I have a theory on this that goes to what I believe is the primitive desire for gang bangs as a natural way for the female to maximize the probablility of getting pregnant. However, you don't want fights breaking out among the guys tryng to butt back in line. This is common among bonobo chimps who are probably the horniest primates on earth. I once also wached while a group of dogs did a bitch in heat. When each was done, he moved aside and lounged in the shade while he to let the next in line proceed. It kept the ones who "had their turn" from returning too quickly and fighting with the others. Having each male quietly bow out of the game for awhile keeps it better for the female to be serviced effectively by the rest.

 

[maxshela]

eat it

I too have the problem of loosing interest after I cum. So most the time I just plat with her pussy and clit as my cum is running out of her, feels quite nice actually.
But other time I just slip down between her legs and go to town as soon as I cum. After all she likes to cum too and usually has not cum yet.
Only had her cum a few times from fucking her.
I never think about the taste of my cum, but love the taste of her pussy. Never tasted a pussy I did not like the taste of.

 

[Wildcard469]

Lots of good ideas posted. I was in the same situation [ years ago] One day a then GF just came up and tongue kissed me with a mouth full of my cum.
Licking her well fucked cum filled very furry pussy came next. man it was great went from sitting on my cock to sitting on my mouth. Made her cum again