eating out

[skitch]

ok ppl who may care...

i finally found her clit!! and her g-spot..only one little thing..

after about an hour of eating her out(sorry for the crudeness of the way it sounds), she tells me that she can't cum...and she's never had anyone go down on her before so either i'm doing it wrong or she's one of the unlucky ladies in the world that cant orgasm from cunnilingus(sp?) Now i've gone down on plenty of girls before and none have ever had trouble cumming. So I was just wondering if there is anyone who would be willing to give me a little help on how to make her orgasm. I know all women are different, so i can't really compare her to others. but is it true that there are women that can't cum from having themselves licked/massaged/probed by a tongue? Just wondering

 

[Weird Harold]

she's never had anyone go down on her before so either i'm doing it wrong or she's one of the unlucky ladies in the world that cant orgasm from cunnilingus(sp

I wonder if this might be the problem. Indirectly at least.

I haven't really been following your adventures very closely, but is there a possibility that she needs to overcome a prejudice against oral sex because she has been taught it's 'dirty' or 'perverted?'

 

[Wizard]

Skitch, at least you have found it.......you getting there hey sometimes it takes a few times of even longer for a girl to get relaxed with you or herself.......be gental and keep at it she will reward you with the big "O" one of these times.......Found the "G" spot too....your doing good now.......When is the next try? next weekend?

 

[Cheyenne]

I vote with Weird Harold. Check her attitude (even if it is unconscious) before her anatomy as being the problem.

 

[CreamyLady]

Well, it doesn't happen for me all the time, either, and NEVER the first time with someone.

You two might need more time getting to know each other's bodies; not necessarily "where things are" but "how they work" for each of you.

Sorry, but some women just need a lot more time than others.

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

Maybe she is just not relaxed enough. This happened to me the first couple of times and then I relaxed and wow I loved it.

 

[dancinvixen]

Skitch, this is coming from a woman who as much as she enjoys oral attentions, she has never orgasmed with them. It could be that your woman needs something different when it comes to orgasms. I know myself, I get the most orgasms out of the actually intercourse, and yes I love getting oral attention from my husband, but my problem is that after a little while, it just becomes to painful. Of course, on me it could be attributed to the fact that my clit is extremely small and way to sensitive. About the sensitivity? Let me just say that even from the outside, i can feel my panties <g>

 

[skitch]

thanks all for your help...

weird harold, I think that may have something to do with it, so i'm not by any means going to give up...she did say she enjoyed it very much..so i don't think she thinks it's 'dirty'. i don't know about the prejudice thing or not. I'll just have to ask her.

wizard, I was actually very proud of myself I'm hoping it doesn't take too many times..I dont' mind doing it..I just want to be able to pay her back

Cheyenne, pretty much the same thing i said to harold, i do want to say that she was the first to ask me to do it. I didn't even get a chance to volunteer to do it...i guess it means something i dunno

CreamLady & Bonnie, i think the relaxation is a big part of it. I talked to her about it yesterday and she told me it did feel better than she thought it would..which leads me to believe that she was nervous about it.

dancinvixen, it's uncanny, but she has the same physical characteristics as you. (small, hypersensitive clit) and i know that it's so sensitive so i didn't spend even a majority of the time focused on it..I told her in the beginning if it hurt at all to stop me...and she never stopped me, just kept moaning *trying not to go into TOO much detail here* I guess it's just a matter of me trying again and again and if she says it does hurt then i'll know what not to do and what to do.

AGAIN, thanks all for your help, and if you have anything else that would help me, PLEASE tell me LoL...i'm struggling here OH, btw...Wizard...yep yep..this weekend 2nd-4th...

I'll fill you guys in on it then...but until then..happy lickity lick lick to you

 

[*Eve*]

Try asking your girfriend what she likes the most and experiment with her to find out what works and what doesn't. I know that some women don't even like me going doing on them (sad but true).

 

[Samuari]

thanks all for your help...

I told her in the beginning if it hurt at all to stop me...and she never stopped me, just kept moaning *trying not to go into TOO much detail here*

Do! We want the details! ALL of them!

 

[Wizard]

Skitch .........about showtime isn't it?

 

[skitch]

hey guys/gals

well it was another HOT weekend

everything went well..i took everyone's advice, and while she didn't have an orgasm this time either, i did find out certain things she does and doesn't like when i'm between her legs

She did say that she enjoyed it more this time, so i took that as a sign that she's getting used to me doing that, so it'll be anytime now thanks for the help

 

[Skitten]

I do agree with the majority here, she needs to relax and enjoy the moment and not worry so much about cummin.Take your time enjoy each other it will come. Relax

 

[Skibum]

Three words, skitch: practice, practice, practice.

 

[Samuari]

Tell her to just enjoy the moment, and have fun. Not to worry, she'll be ok. Thirty years ago, I would tell you to put some mary-jane in some brownies, but today?