Not to repeat all the great responses here. I have been married for 30+years. I love to give my wife pleasure orally. She tells me that she has had many lovers before me, but no one does to her what I do. Now she may just be saying this to bolster my ego, but 30+ years of great sex says something. With that said, I will often spend 45 minutes to 1 1/2 hrs eating out my wife. This process takes time. I need to sense her mood and I spend a great deal of time running through all my tools to discover what movement or pace or pressure or location is going to work that day. I listen carefully to her body. I can sense when she is rising up the wave, then I know she is on the ride. I am also aware when she feels too much pressure to perform. I reassure her often and often show my enthusiasm to play her instrument until the end. Sometimes she just gives up, but most times, she has 2 to 3 orgasms. Once the gates open, she rides the wave. Penetration always follows immediately after. Her moans are so worth it!
I hope this data point helps your cause. You are not alone, but find the right person who is more interested in meeting your needs rather than their own, and your sex life will be awesome!
Oh, and by the way, I love the taste and smell of pussy. Especially after climax when the juices start flowing. I swallow every drop of that honey!
