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[banemalar]

i have never gone down on someone. and i would love to on my girlfriend. the closest i ever did was kissing her lips of her pussy. she is unshaven and i dont know about how going it with her. should i tell her i have never done it before?

also a side note when ever she gives me a handjob i almost feel nothing exciting about it. why? i am fine masturbating

 

[Eilan]

i have never gone down on someone. and i would love to on my girlfriend. the closest i ever did was kissing her lips of her pussy. she is unshaven and i dont know about how going it with her. should i tell her i have never done it before?

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also a side note when ever she gives me a handjob i almost feel nothing exciting about it. why? i am fine masturbating

Perhaps you're just used to the way YOU do it?

 

[Tele2047]

Yes, I wouldn't feel embarassed about telling her you haven't done it before. Unshaven isn't a big problem, just a bit more hair to deal with getting in your mouth

I've got the same with my gf with handjobs/blowjobs. I think the big problem is she doesn't know how to do it, so we're going to have a little session next time we're together for her to learn

 

[banemalar]

i thought about telling her what i would like but it still didn't do anything. and thanks you guys for your response

 

[M's girl]

Are you just asking the guys, or can I barge in too? ;-)

First of all, if it just so happened you never have gone down on a girl before, no matter what age you are, I think there will not be a lot of women who would hold that against you. It is MY opinion that guys would be more judgemental about that than girls/woman.

Maybe (maybe!) it depends a bit on how old you are. But still... You know.. I'm 42 and if I would meet a man my age who had never done that I would probably raise one eyebrow IN MY MIND. But if I liked the guy and he was being sweet to me I would not have a problem with it, knowing that there's plenty women out there who do not even allow their BF to go down on them (for reasons that still puzzle me, haha).

Anyway, I assume you are a bit younger. Really.... women generally don't mind and (maybe secretly) are even relieved because this could mean you have not had that many girls before (do the math, haha). I would just tell her and add that you are eager and willing to learn what she likes. That would be a big turn on for me in any case, experienced guy or not!

And how you do it? Well, that all depends on the woman. There are as many ways to please a woman down there as there are women is my guess. It depends on a lot of things from the way her vagina is 'laid out' to what stimulance she is used to (works same way as with your example of the hand job I guess). I can even say that the way I like to be touched there (bij hand or mouth) changed over the years. Let her tell you!

There is this site (that I think I found through LIT) that I found very interesting. You may find a lot of answers about the technique and how women 'work' sexually there. Go to www.the-clitoris.com

Ciao! ... and good luck

 

[Tele2047]

Have you ever fingered her? It's really not hard to do if you know what gets her going. After I went down on my gf for the first time (and telling her I had never done it before) she couldn't believe that was my first time. But really, just substitute your fingers for your tongue and things will go fine (she's also not shaven)

 

[banemalar]

ok thank you all for your input, even the ladies i just want opinions and information. one last thing what about the taste. when i finger her and taste her then she tasted diffrent then when i kissed her down there it was more salty.

 

[LadyJeanne]

ok thank you all for your input, even the ladies i just want opinions and information. one last thing what about the taste. when i finger her and taste her then she tasted diffrent then when i kissed her down there it was more salty.

I'm not sure what your question is here about the taste.

 

[Tele2047]

Taste changes depending on diet and stress and all that. It'll probably be stronger down there as it's 'coming from the source', but you're just gonna have to deal with it (if you don't like the taste that is).

 

[fr34k_n45ty]

best way to get into it is to just dive in don't worry she'll tell you if she likes it, just like everything eles. as for the taste it all depends on diet, if she eats more fruit and drinks lots of water you'll have a better taste then if she drinks coffee all day and only eats red meat.

 

[bholderman]

Greetings,

My 2 cents...My wife doesn't hesitate to tell me when to stop what. Also, different things work differently at different times, due to anxiety, etc. (mentioned above) and atmosphere (i.e. romantantic, routine or getting nasty about things).

Cheers,
Brad

 

[phoenix1224]

Firstly, I wouldn't tell her that you have NEVER done it... If you say anything about it at all, just say that your experience is limited.

Secondly, don't worry so much about technique... Every woman is different, so not every woman is going to like the same thing.

I would suggest that, while your down there, just experiment and pay VERY close attention to her reactions to the things that you're doing... If she seems to be enjoying something, keep doing it for a while before trying something else... If she DOESN'T seem to be enjoying something, then move on to something different (That's what I did the first time that I ever went down and she never even knew that it was my first time... And she actually had an orgasm... ).

Just relax and enjoy.




Edited to add: And remember, don't use JUST your tongue while you're down there... A well placed finger (or two) is always appreciated...

 

[banemalar]

thank you all very much i will let you know how it goes. it should be a few days because of that damn harry potter book

 

[bholderman]

Thats funny. Im there as well. My wife won't be at home at midnight tonight. ANd she will probably have finished it by Monday.

Cheers,
Brad

 

[mrmgp]

i have never gone down on someone. and i would love to on my girlfriend. the closest i ever did was kissing her lips of her pussy. she is unshaven and i dont know about how going it with her. should i tell her i have never done it before?

If she's experienced, tell her that you've never done this before, and that you want to please her by going down on her, and will she teach you how to make love to her. She'll probably get wet just from you asking her to show you how to properly pleasure her orally.

also a side note when ever she gives me a handjob i almost feel nothing exciting about it. why? i am fine masturbating

You are probably too used to the way your hand stimulates yourself, and can't get adapted right now to her method. Stop beating off and eventually, she'll be able to get you off.